A very long post about something that's getting me down

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Originally Posted by DanaC

Why's it bothering me now? Well....it's hard to explain, so I'll give you a little bit of background on it.

I can only speculate from what was posted. Consider this as one option. Get more relevance in your own life so that what happens with your parents does not distract you so much. Eventually, your dad's situation will become your problem. But if you cannot solve it now, then better to make your life more important to you - for now - until that time you will eventually have to deal with it. Keep moving forward.

You might decide up front what the conditions will be that cause you to eventually take charge. But again, don't dwell on things you cannot fix now. Better to be distracted by your own life until time comes that you will eventually inherit this - a classic event of life.