Is he cripplingly shy, or gay?

wolf · 06-05-2003, 01:07 AM

Relationships, like anything else, are a skill. For some folks it's innate, for others it's a challenge. Even "people" persons need to put energy and work into a relationship to sustain it and help it grow and mature.

"Dwight" might just be the kind of person that's relatively comfortable alone, or has some very difficult to fulfill 'ideal partner' concept. If he's chugging along as-is, being happy, fine. If he's seeing not being attached as a major issue, and obsessing over it is causing him other problems in his work or personal life, then yeah, maybe some kind of intervention is warranted.

Your friend may or may not be gay. My gaydar's pretty good, but unless I'd get a face to face (not likely) I'm not even going to guess. But either way, he's your friend, and that's really what's important at the root of it all, yes?

06-05-2003, 01:07 AM	#16
wolf lobber of scimitars Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Phila Burbs Posts: 20,774	Relationships, like anything else, are a skill. For some folks it's innate, for others it's a challenge. Even "people" persons need to put energy and work into a relationship to sustain it and help it grow and mature. "Dwight" might just be the kind of person that's relatively comfortable alone, or has some very difficult to fulfill 'ideal partner' concept. If he's chugging along as-is, being happy, fine. If he's seeing not being attached as a major issue, and obsessing over it is causing him other problems in his work or personal life, then yeah, maybe some kind of intervention is warranted. Your friend may or may not be gay. My gaydar's pretty good, but unless I'd get a face to face (not likely) I'm not even going to guess. But either way, he's your friend, and that's really what's important at the root of it all, yes? __________________ wolf eht htiw og "Conspiracies are the norm, not the exception." --G. Edward Griffin The Creature from Jekyll Island High Priestess of the Church of the Whale Penis

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