"Yum" or "ahh"? ,your choice

[ladysycamore]

Originally posted by marichiko
Our culture still holds women to a certain standard. A woman who is willing to just have casual sex with anyone she meets is considered a 'ho. A man who does that is considered a "manly man" who is one lucky SOB, and his buddies all slap him on the back for his prowness.

Most men have little respect for a woman they consider an "easy lay," and such a woman often looses respect for herself thanks to society's attitudes in this regard. Society forces women to wear cultural "chasity belts" while men are free to pursue their sexuality as they please.

*the congregation shouts: AMEN!*

For instance, I have a friend who has rarely been without a man in her life. Basically, she has some issues to resolve, so that could be it, but she has been known by some to be a 'ho. Of course, she doesn't think so, she's just...well...a very loving person. However, I've known plenty of men like that, and they are either "dogs" or "playas". Hmph!

[DanaC]

My assessment of you... "You are a pussy. You're a pansy assed little queer who forgot how to be a man." is accurate, logical, intelligent, and reasonable.

Accurate, logical, intelligent and reasonable...........All the words that immediately spring to mind when reading your post RADAR......

[Radar]

Thanks Dana, it's nice to see someone who recognizes my better qualities.

[DanaC]

Hard not to.....'s kind of shining right out off've the screen......Maybe.....Maybe all this time what I really needed was a Real Man.....

[Radar]

Well Dana, you wouldn't be the first or the last. I know what I'm talking about because I wasted years trying to be a "nice guy". I made every mistake in the book. Women say they want a nice guy, but while they're young and wild and horny, they don't want a nice guy. They want a one night stand with the drummer of a rock band. They want to be bent over, slapped on the ass, and driven home by a bad-ass with a bad attitude. It's only after they've been hurt by one of these guys, or they get old enough that they are tired of the wild sex and want to trade it in for stability that they go for nice guys.

There was a study released last week confirming this. It said that women would rather marry nice guys but find really good looking and muscular men to be intimidating, and far more sexy.

Nice guys only get the women after they've been used, and abused, and worn out. It's like riding a 15 year old Mercedes. Once it was a great ride, but everyone else already had a ride. Now that it's old and tired, and its days of riding fast and furious are over, the nice guy gets it.

[DanaC]

Nice guys only get the women after they've been used, and abused, and worn out. It's like riding a 15 year old Mercedes. Once it was a great ride, but everyone else already had a ride. Now that it's old and tired, and its days of riding fast and furious are over, the nice guy gets it.

I thought you guys liked and respected women who had slept around? You are confusing me.

[OnyxCougar]

You people are kidding, right?

[DanaC]

*smiles* Onyx...come on....dont tell me you arent drawn to RADAR's masculinity and innate charm? You know he can please a woman like no other man , it oozes out of every one of his posts...

[Torrere]

Do nothing but eat and make good cheer, And thank Heaven for the merry year
When flesh is cheap and females dear, And lusty lads roam here and there So merrily, And ever among so merrily!

- a spring song

Originally posted by Radar


Utterly and completely false.

Men have much more respect for women who don't confuse sex and love. If a guy can find a girl who likes to hang around, watch sports, and give an occasional BJ to him and his buddies with no emotional attachment, so much the better.

Women mistakenly think that men think less of women who have lots of sex without emotional attachment or commitment. We like them and respect them more than the other girls.

"Society" doesn't force anyone to do anything. Most of the attitudes mentioned above are created and perpetuated by women, not men.

Sure, pal, you're looking for the "zipless fuck" and you're delighted if you ever come across it. Would you want to marry this woman who hangs out giving head to you and your pals? Let me ask you something else. Is this how you imagine your future bride is spending her time while waiting to get married to you? Hanging around with the boys, talking about football, and giving blow jobs to anyone who wants one?

You want the convenience of sleeping with who ever might be available at the time without having to worry about any possible emotional entanglements. Your ideal "woman" is actually a man with a vagina. Get real.

I just read your reply to Dana:

Originally posted by Radar

Women say they want a nice guy, but while they're young and wild and horny, they don't want a nice guy. They want a one night stand with the drummer of a rock band. They want to be bent over, slapped on the ass, and driven home by a bad-ass with a bad attitude. It's only after they've been hurt by one of these guys, or they get old enough that they are tired of the wild sex and want to trade it in for stability that they go for nice guys.

There was a study released last week confirming this. It said that women would rather marry nice guys but find really good looking and muscular men to be intimidating, and far more sexy.

Nice guys only get the women after they've been used, and abused, and worn out. It's like riding a 15 year old Mercedes. Once it was a great ride, but everyone else already had a ride. Now that it's old and tired, and its days of riding fast and furious are over, the nice guy gets it.

I couldn't agree more with Dana's comment. Your words hardly sound like you're filled with respect for the woman who has had a lot of sexual experience. And what "study" are you quoting? And how the hell can you think you have the faintest idea of what women want?

You bet, women find good looking, muscular men to be turn-ons. Of course, you more discriminating, male types could care less if a woman has big tits and a nice ass. Its all the same to you. And naturally, every man alive is so self confident that when a drop-dead beautiful woman walks into the room, he doesn't feel in the least intimidated at the thought of winning her over to do blow jobs for him and his buddies.

The trouble with the "nice guys finish last theory" is that it's usually put forth by self described "nice guys" who in reality are jerks that no woman in her right mind would put up with.

[Radar]

I don't claim to be Don Juan, but I know how to get laid every night of the week. I did so before choosing my wife.

You can deny what I'm saying all you like, but every single thing I've said works in real life. Women (at least young women) love assholes and won't give nice guys the time of day. They call nice guys their "friends" which means "I'm not going to have sex with you, but I'll tell you about all the sex I'm having with bikers or rock band members"

[Clodfobble]

There was a study released last week confirming this. It said that women would rather marry nice guys but find really good looking and muscular men to be intimidating, and far more sexy.

Nice guys only get the women after they've been used, and abused, and worn out. It's like riding a 15 year old Mercedes. Once it was a great ride, but everyone else already had a ride. Now that it's old and tired, and its days of riding fast and furious are over, the nice guy gets it.

Ah. But you believe the opposite isn't true? The wild young man won't go for the ditzy slut over the nice girl (even the one willing to put out) any day of the week--until he grows up, just like the woman, and realizes there's more to companionship than just sex?

Everyone grows up at some point Radar, and making mistakes is hardly exclusively a female attribute. I'm sorry some women abused you when you both were younger, but one would think that NOW would be the time you would want to stay a nice guy, now that everyone's older and wiser.

[Radar]

Would you want to marry this woman who hangs out giving head to you and your pals?

Again, we're not talking about marriage, we're talking about having a good time. No I wouldn't marry her. Does that mean I don't respect her? Not at all.

Let me ask you something else. Is this how you imagine your future bride is spending her time while waiting to get married to you?

Frankly, I don't know what she did or who she did it with and I don't care. I just know she's with me now and we love each other.

You want the convenience of sleeping with who ever might be available at the time without having to worry about any possible emotional entanglements. Your ideal "woman" is actually a man with a vagina. Get real.

Watch the movie "Something about Mary". That's the kind of girl I'm talking about. She doesn't have to be a porn star that blows me and all my friends, but she should be as horny as a guy, have no hangups about having sex, and not expect a call the next day. They should think of sex as a fun thing to do and not attach emotion to it like some naive school girl. There are a lot of women like this right here in America. I've known a few.

The women you marry and the women you have sex with aren't necessarily the same type of women. And hopefully they never find out about each other! j/k

[Clodfobble]

The women you marry and the women you have sex with aren't necessarily the same type of women. And hopefully they never find out about each other! j/k

That sounds like exactly what the chick who only goes for the biker assholes would say.

[perth]

Originally posted by marichiko
Your ideal "woman" is actually a man with a vagina.

That was fucking hilarious Marichiko. Hit me at just the right time.