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sexobon · 06-11-2014, 09:22 PM

The cunt-in-you-ing saga of dwellars who have a V in their usernames.

staceyv · 06-12-2014, 11:49 PM

LJ knows the story. I told him privately way back when I stopped posting here. I am not getting into it again, I came to the conclusion that it is a total waste of my time. I am moving forward, not looking backward.

Even if I was bedridden or something, a crossword puzzle would be better than hashing it out with people who are much better at debating than I am. I've come to know myself a lot better over the last few years. I realize that all my life I've been projecting my desire to get along with people onto others.

When I communicate with someone, it's with the intention of coming to a mutually satisfying agreement, an understanding, a respectful agreement to disagree, or some other form of mature outcome that benefits both parties as much as possible. I always naively assumed that all people came into misunderstandings or debates with the same hopes. But now I realize that some people just actually enjoy a good debate and their only end goal is to win. The only intelligent thing for me to do with those types is Do Not Engage.

I wish I had figured this out a long time ago, but better late than never.

So sorry, you guys should put away the popcorn, nothing's going down here, lol.

I'm also not going into hiding. I was here first and I am no longer involved in all the political idiocy that kept me from sharing anything online in fear it would be twisted and spread all over to ruin my reputation. The people I choose to include in my life these days don't care about any of that crap. If I told them all the stories I shared on here over the years they'd laugh their asses off and they'd still love me

sexobon · 06-13-2014, 12:46 AM

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Nirvana · 06-13-2014, 10:57 AM

StaceyV I just wanted you to know I was here, maybe you have been reading all along >shrug< I have no bone to pick with you, I don't hold grudges, I don't have to be in your comments you don't have to be in mine. Enjoy your life welcome back!

lumberjim · 06-13-2014, 11:25 AM

Excellent. Much less entertaining than a chick fight, but still. Way to be, ladies.

footfootfoot · 06-13-2014, 11:51 AM

I, for one, welcome back our soul spitting overlord.

I really missed you, StacyV. Glad you learned the secret of the internet and life. Just scroll past the stuff you don't need.

staceyv · 06-13-2014, 12:28 PM

Awww you guys give me warm fuzzies, thank you!

I can't believe it's been over ten years since I joined. The Cellar is like an old security blanket I found in a box in the attic

Glad I came back.

06-13-2014, 10:57 AM	#34
Nirvana Back in 10 Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 3,684	StaceyV I just wanted you to know I was here, maybe you have been reading all along >shrug< I have no bone to pick with you, I don't hold grudges, I don't have to be in your comments you don't have to be in mine. Enjoy your life welcome back! __________________ Speaking simply... do not confuse this with having a simple mind.

06-13-2014, 11:25 AM	#35
lumberjim I can hear my ears Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 25,571	Excellent. Much less entertaining than a chick fight, but still. Way to be, ladies. __________________ This body holding me reminds me of my own mortality Embrace this moment, remember We are eternal, all this pain is an illusion ~MJKeenan

06-13-2014, 11:51 AM	#36
footfootfoot To shreds, you say? Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: in the house and on the street-how many, many feet we meet! Posts: 18,449	I, for one, welcome back our soul spitting overlord. I really missed you, StacyV. Glad you learned the secret of the internet and life. Just scroll past the stuff you don't need. __________________ The internet is a hateful stew of vomit you can never take completely seriously. - Her Fobs

06-11-2014, 09:22 PM	#31
sexobon I love it when a plan comes together. Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 9,793	The cunt-in-you-ing saga of dwellars who have a V in their usernames.

06-12-2014, 11:49 PM	#32
staceyv Lecturer Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Ohio Posts: 927	LJ knows the story. I told him privately way back when I stopped posting here. I am not getting into it again, I came to the conclusion that it is a total waste of my time. I am moving forward, not looking backward. Even if I was bedridden or something, a crossword puzzle would be better than hashing it out with people who are much better at debating than I am. I've come to know myself a lot better over the last few years. I realize that all my life I've been projecting my desire to get along with people onto others. When I communicate with someone, it's with the intention of coming to a mutually satisfying agreement, an understanding, a respectful agreement to disagree, or some other form of mature outcome that benefits both parties as much as possible. I always naively assumed that all people came into misunderstandings or debates with the same hopes. But now I realize that some people just actually enjoy a good debate and their only end goal is to win. The only intelligent thing for me to do with those types is Do Not Engage. I wish I had figured this out a long time ago, but better late than never. So sorry, you guys should put away the popcorn, nothing's going down here, lol. I'm also not going into hiding. I was here first and I am no longer involved in all the political idiocy that kept me from sharing anything online in fear it would be twisted and spread all over to ruin my reputation. The people I choose to include in my life these days don't care about any of that crap. If I told them all the stories I shared on here over the years they'd laugh their asses off and they'd still love me

06-13-2014, 12:46 AM	#33
sexobon I love it when a plan comes together. Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 9,793

06-13-2014, 12:28 PM	#37
staceyv Lecturer Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Ohio Posts: 927	Awww you guys give me warm fuzzies, thank you! I can't believe it's been over ten years since I joined. The Cellar is like an old security blanket I found in a box in the attic Glad I came back.

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