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Old 04-16-2008, 09:18 PM   #106
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Yup - guess they do.
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Old 04-17-2008, 04:42 PM   #107
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And here is some for you: read carefully before wading in. Read the whole story. The post you are writing about was written a few years back. The thread had been revived because the relationship just broke down (after 2.5 years, so you were wrong). The man is heartbroken and you're raking up posts he wrote before the relationship got serious and calling him an idiot.





Dave, I'm sorry. I know how nuts you were about her from comments you made in other threads. Do you still work in the same place?
Well ............Okay I've been told . But it's not the information I got from talking to him and chatting privately.
I shall refrain in future when someone wants to talk about thier woes.
thankyou monster I have surely learnt my lesson here. I thank you. Sorry that i saw a pattern here .
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Old 04-17-2008, 07:21 PM   #108
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And you were probably quite correct about the pattern. But if you'd read the recent posts and noticed the dates you could have maybe avoided rubbing salt in the wound. fortunately, he's a decent guy. But there's no need to be snippy -this is teh internets and you can be as harsh as you want and you won't have to see the tears, so don't stop on my account. You can even join the monster-haters club if you like. I've heard there's a line these days. :p
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Old 04-18-2008, 02:10 PM   #109
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Lush, I also have some advice......
Monster has stopped me from acting like a complete buffoon on several occasions, and has put a halt to me shoving my foot right in my mouth. Looks like she's doing you a favor at this point.

Don't take offense to it......
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Old 04-18-2008, 05:02 PM   #110
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Hmmmmm well I don't hold grudges or anything like that ............but would you two like to be privy to my conversations with him in future would you like copys of pm's or chat room conversations?? It should save your fingers when it comes to posting about my posts.
I can garrentee there were no tears due to what I posted.
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Old 04-18-2008, 05:15 PM   #111
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but would you two like to be privy to my conversations with him in future would you like copys of pm's or chat room conversations?? It should save your fingers when it comes to posting about my posts.
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Unlikely.
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Old 04-18-2008, 05:29 PM   #112
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I've never understood the attraction of old guy/young broad. I mean, I totally think that 18 and 19-year-olds are fine as hell. But at 32, there is no fucking way on earth that I'd date one. Hell, I don't think I'd date anyone under 30 at this point.

Not that there's anything wrong with it...hell, I dated a 30-year-old when I was 21. In the end though, neither of us had any business doing that.
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Old 04-18-2008, 05:35 PM   #113
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Lush: No, I was posting about her post to your post about his post.

Completely different. Do you have a different body part to save for that?
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Old 04-18-2008, 06:31 PM   #114
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Lush: No, I was posting about her post to your post about his post.

Completely different. Do you have a different body part to save for that?
Awwwwwhhhhh now my head hurts
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Old 04-18-2008, 06:42 PM   #115
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See? That's what you get for making my head hurt, and then trying to save my hands.

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Old 04-18-2008, 06:51 PM   #116
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Touche
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Old 04-21-2008, 08:44 AM   #117
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You too, huh?
Ted Bundy much?
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Old 04-22-2008, 06:34 PM   #118
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Its more about attitude for me I think.

I would date a guy 7 years younger (and have), but I act like a dork for my age.

I would date a guy 10 years my senior, if he was young at heart

I've also found that guys in their late 30's to early 40's are awesome in bed.
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