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Clodfobble · 06-23-2011, 05:50 PM

Goddammit. I'm sorry about everything, Jaydaan. I hope your aunt starts recovering soon.

Jaydaan · 06-23-2011, 07:15 PM

Well... see what over reactions and presumptions do? SIGH
There was no beating. It seems my aunt is a horrible alcoholic and decided to detox. With no help, no dr support or anything, she had a MASSIVE seisure. Looks like she seized for quite a while... all the bleeding on the brain, swelling, blood etc was caused from constantly banging her head. She was alone.
She still has not come out of it yet, and when she did kind of wake up, she knew she was in the hospital, knew her name.... but had the wrong city, and gave the year of her birth instead of this year, when asked the date. They now have her on the detox drugs ( whatever that entails) and now we wait. It looks like the thing that caused her seisure might be responsible for saving her from *some* of the brain damage. Did you know that drinking overmuch for over 35 years causes your brain and surrounding cushioning to shrink? I didn't. Well it gave room for the swelling, without serious pressure... causing less damage somehow. This could be a good thing.

DanaC · 06-23-2011, 07:21 PM

God, Jaydaan, what a shitter of a week you're having. Hope things settle down soon and that your loved ones are ok. Maybe this detox will be the thing that saves your aunt. At least it wasn't violence and family strife. Small comfort, but probably less distressing for the family than what it initially appeared to be.

*hug*

Trilby · 06-23-2011, 07:26 PM

good god.

Sending good, healing vibes to her. I always relate to these kind of things...having detoxed myself (too many) times.

Good luck and godspeed.

Trilby · 06-23-2011, 07:30 PM

and, Jaydaan, I don't know what your relationship to this aunt is like, maybe she's a completely awful person, etc. but she's going to need some good people around her for this. I'll bet she's hating herself right now.

wolf · 06-23-2011, 07:53 PM

Having sent numerous people to detox, I do know that stuff. And yes, the seizures can be really extreme, especially in heavy drinkers.

Jay, I hope things go as well as they can. Hopefully the memory stuff will clear somewhat (or may not be related to the seizures, since there are chemical/architectural changes in brain structure of severe alcoholics). Hopefully this will serve as a wake up call for her, and she'll keep the initiative that's been started by this terrible event.

limey · 06-24-2011, 03:14 AM

Adding my shock and good wishes to you and your family Jay.

casimendocina · 06-24-2011, 05:20 AM

What all the postees above have said.

Griff · 06-25-2011, 10:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Undertoad

Thanks man. I love you right back and all of you.

This one is going to turn out to be 80% meds, I know it now. The 20% of it that's real life suckage doesn't provoke this kind of response. Been better the last two days, as well.

Sorry I missed this development. I hope you are well. I'm taking a breather as my continued emotional response to a certain poster's ongoing battle with reality is completely disproportionate. Be well brother, I'll poke my head back in after washing my machine.

DanaC · 06-25-2011, 01:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jimhelm

chin up, dana! we loves us some dana too!

so, uh... tony... can i get some of that Bud Light?

Just saw this:p

Thanks sweetie

zippyt · 06-29-2011, 02:07 PM

Well yesterday we had a NASTY Thunderstorm pass thru ,
it dumped about 4-5 inches of rain in a Verry short period of time ,
Fucken rain washed out part of the Pool pad we had Made ,
So this Holiday weekend insteed of Floating in the pool Chillaxen and the such we get to drain the Pool , Fix the fucken Sand that washed out and refill the pool !!!
the side dropped 5-6 inches

DSCF7351 by zippyt, on Flickr

DSCF7352 by zippyt, on Flickr
I dont know if you can see , but the Whole Pool has settled and slanted about 4-6 inches

Dscf7353 by zippyt, on Flickr

Oh Well , such is Life

Spexxvet · 06-29-2011, 02:15 PM

That sux

HungLikeJesus · 06-29-2011, 02:27 PM

It's better that way. You can practice swimming up hill.

xoxoxoBruce · 06-30-2011, 12:53 AM

Borrow a fire truck and wash out the other side.

Clodfobble · 07-01-2011, 03:18 PM

I've been very lightheated for about 2 hours now. I ate an apple with peanut butter in case it was from low blood sugar, even though I knew it wasn't. So now I'm nauseous and lightheaded. At this rate I don't know if I'll be able to drive to pick up the kids from preschool, dammit.

06-23-2011, 05:50 PM	#6931
Clodfobble UNDER CONDITIONAL MITIGATION Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 20,012	Goddammit. I'm sorry about everything, Jaydaan. I hope your aunt starts recovering soon. __________________ My book My other book My spirit animal

06-23-2011, 07:26 PM	#6934
Trilby Slattern of the Swail Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 15,654	good god. Sending good, healing vibes to her. I always relate to these kind of things...having detoxed myself (too many) times. Good luck and godspeed. __________________ In Barrie's play and novel, the roles of fairies are brief: they are allies to the Lost Boys, the source of fairy dust and ...They are portrayed as dangerous, whimsical and extremely clever but quite hedonistic. "Shall I give you a kiss?" Peter asked and, jerking an acorn button off his coat, solemnly presented it to her. —James Barrie Wimminfolk they be tricksy. - ZenGum

06-23-2011, 07:30 PM	#6935
Trilby Slattern of the Swail Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 15,654	and, Jaydaan, I don't know what your relationship to this aunt is like, maybe she's a completely awful person, etc. but she's going to need some good people around her for this. I'll bet she's hating herself right now. __________________ In Barrie's play and novel, the roles of fairies are brief: they are allies to the Lost Boys, the source of fairy dust and ...They are portrayed as dangerous, whimsical and extremely clever but quite hedonistic. "Shall I give you a kiss?" Peter asked and, jerking an acorn button off his coat, solemnly presented it to her. —James Barrie Wimminfolk they be tricksy. - ZenGum

06-23-2011, 07:53 PM	#6936
wolf lobber of scimitars Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Phila Burbs Posts: 20,774	Having sent numerous people to detox, I do know that stuff. And yes, the seizures can be really extreme, especially in heavy drinkers. Jay, I hope things go as well as they can. Hopefully the memory stuff will clear somewhat (or may not be related to the seizures, since there are chemical/architectural changes in brain structure of severe alcoholics). Hopefully this will serve as a wake up call for her, and she'll keep the initiative that's been started by this terrible event. __________________ wolf eht htiw og "Conspiracies are the norm, not the exception." --G. Edward Griffin The Creature from Jekyll Island High Priestess of the Church of the Whale Penis

06-24-2011, 03:14 AM	#6937
limey Encroaching on your decrees Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: An island within the south-west coast of Scotland Posts: 7,016	Adding my shock and good wishes to you and your family Jay. __________________ Living it up on the edge ... of civilisation, within the southwest coast of

06-23-2011, 07:15 PM	#6932
Jaydaan Knight of the Oval-Shaped Conference Table Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Vernon, BC, Canada Posts: 378	Well... see what over reactions and presumptions do? SIGH There was no beating. It seems my aunt is a horrible alcoholic and decided to detox. With no help, no dr support or anything, she had a MASSIVE seisure. Looks like she seized for quite a while... all the bleeding on the brain, swelling, blood etc was caused from constantly banging her head. She was alone. She still has not come out of it yet, and when she did kind of wake up, she knew she was in the hospital, knew her name.... but had the wrong city, and gave the year of her birth instead of this year, when asked the date. They now have her on the detox drugs ( whatever that entails) and now we wait. It looks like the thing that caused her seisure might be responsible for saving her from some of the brain damage. Did you know that drinking overmuch for over 35 years causes your brain and surrounding cushioning to shrink? I didn't. Well it gave room for the swelling, without serious pressure... causing less damage somehow. This could be a good thing.

06-24-2011, 05:20 AM	#6938
casimendocina Professor Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 1,622	What all the postees above have said.

06-29-2011, 02:07 PM	#6941
zippyt LONG LIVE KING ZIPPY! per Feetz Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Arkansas Posts: 7,661	Well yesterday we had a NASTY Thunderstorm pass thru , it dumped about 4-5 inches of rain in a Verry short period of time , Fucken rain washed out part of the Pool pad we had Made , So this Holiday weekend insteed of Floating in the pool Chillaxen and the such we get to drain the Pool , Fix the fucken Sand that washed out and refill the pool !!! the side dropped 5-6 inches DSCF7351 by zippyt, on Flickr DSCF7352 by zippyt, on Flickr I dont know if you can see , but the Whole Pool has settled and slanted about 4-6 inches Dscf7353 by zippyt, on Flickr Oh Well , such is Life __________________ "Success is getting what you want. Happiness is wanting what you get. " Brother Dave Gardner

06-29-2011, 02:15 PM	#6942
Spexxvet Makes some feel uncomfortable Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 10,346	That sux __________________ "I'm certainly free, nay compelled, to spread the gospel of Spex. " - xoxoxoBruce

06-29-2011, 02:27 PM	#6943
HungLikeJesus Only looks like a disaster tourist Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: above 7,000 feet Posts: 7,208	It's better that way. You can practice swimming up hill. __________________ Keep Your Bodies Off My Lawn SteveDallas's Random Thread Picker.

06-30-2011, 12:53 AM	#6944
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	Borrow a fire truck and wash out the other side. __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

07-01-2011, 03:18 PM	#6945
Clodfobble UNDER CONDITIONAL MITIGATION Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 20,012	I've been very lightheated for about 2 hours now. I ate an apple with peanut butter in case it was from low blood sugar, even though I knew it wasn't. So now I'm nauseous and lightheaded. At this rate I don't know if I'll be able to drive to pick up the kids from preschool, dammit. __________________ My book My other book My spirit animal

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