What's upsetting you today? - Page 430

skysidhe · 03-20-2011, 10:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by casimendocina

Apologies for being dim here but what is that reason if not just to have sex...not being faecetious, I genuinely want to know so that I can be sure I've understood the comment properly.

...and the reason he does a 360 turn around is because he's a user and a loser?

Maybe 'I' missed something. Maybe I missed the part where he was respectful, valuating and contributing, would never try to play on her emotions by getting her to change, then not respecting her for trying but then dumping her.

Not being angry at you, casi or anyone, but I care about someone nice like mtp getting mind, financially and otherwise, fuck'ed.

To me, this is beyond simply wanting to have sex. We all want to have sex.

footfootfoot · 03-20-2011, 12:49 PM

Calls to mind this blast from the past:

Cloud · 03-20-2011, 02:08 PM

so, I've been working around the house today, finally getting to some projects that have been bugging me for a while--that's good, but . . .

after a couple of hours of this, I'm so tired and in pain, I'm practically crying. My back and hips hurt like hell, I'm barely mobile.

I no longer have the strength or stamina to do much. things are improving slowly because I'm exercising and taking anti-inflammatory and joint supplements, but it still sucks.

Trilby · 03-20-2011, 02:28 PM

I hear ya, Cloud. I take 800mg ibuprophen every single day or I ache like a 90 year old woman.

If I'm going to walk the goggie I MUST take it 30 min. before or my knees, lower back, hips and sacro-iliac joints get so stiff and painful....the S-I joints are the WORST - they can even ache when I'm in bed trying to go to sleep.

Ah, to be 19 again...

TBH - all this stuff happend post-chemo.

Chemo has a lot to answer for - but I suppose it saved my life...I just didn't know I was going to be in pain all the time.

Cloud · 03-20-2011, 03:01 PM

I guess you take the bad with the good, and there's a lot of good in my life right now, so . . . meh

monster · 03-20-2011, 04:32 PM

OR, you get yourself to a doctor and see if it's something that can be fixed quite simply.

morethanpretty · 03-20-2011, 05:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by skysidhe

...and the reason he does a 360 turn around is because he's a user and a loser?

Maybe 'I' missed something. Maybe I missed the part where he was respectful, valuating and contributing, would never try to play on her emotions by getting her to change, then not respecting her for trying but then dumping her.

Not being angry at you, casi or anyone, but I care about someone nice like mtp getting mind, financially and otherwise, fuck'ed.

To me, this is beyond simply wanting to have sex. We all want to have sex.

I think he's basically a good guy, just too immature still. Doesn't really know how he should approach a problem and try to work it, which to be fair, a lot of people don't. I have my flaws, and thats why when he wanted to break up the first time I was willing to work on them, but when I tried point out that he wasn't perfect either, he decided I was attacking him and trying to make him "look like the bad guy." He accuses me of being negative but then tells me I am selfish for giving him advice like: don't try to take full time class and work 50+ hours/week, he thinks I do that in selfishness. Which really hurt, I was just trying to keep him from failing classes or getting too exhausted. *sigh* Anyway, my sister has decided that I probably do need to leave. She and my brother-in-law have offered to let me rent their extra room. It would be mutually beneficial since they could use the extra financial help and maybe I could help my sis with chores and such. My mom thinks we'll fight and I'll put a strain on their marriage. My sis and I get along really well now, so I hope not, and if so, I'll have an end date of when I'll have to have a new place. I think I'm gonna take the offer.

morethanpretty · 03-20-2011, 05:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cloud

so, I've been working around the house today, finally getting to some projects that have been bugging me for a while--that's good, but . . .

after a couple of hours of this, I'm so tired and in pain, I'm practically crying. My back and hips hurt like hell, I'm barely mobile.

I no longer have the strength or stamina to do much. things are improving slowly because I'm exercising and taking anti-inflammatory and joint supplements, but it still sucks.

You've been to the doctor then? I'm guessing so since you're on anti-inflammatory drugs and joint supplements. Just keep to it, I'm sure it will be worth it.

monster · 03-20-2011, 05:26 PM

I read anti-inflammatory supplements. No Rx required. I'm betting no doctor, but good for you if you did, Cloud, sorry it's not helping yet.

Cloud · 03-20-2011, 05:49 PM

no doctor yet; I'll get there eventually, but I want to see how much I can alleviate it myself first. just hurting today and feeling sorry for myself, I guess.

I mean, what is the doctor gonna say? "you have osteoarthritis. You're old and you're fat. Here's some pills. See me in 5 years for a hip replacement."

(scowls)

monster · 03-20-2011, 05:58 PM

OR, you could be damaging yourself further. Trust me, in this game, I'm queen! I have learned through long, hard and painful experience(s), that coping strategies for joint pain can cause more damage and grief in the long run than the original problem. I know you hate bring poked and prodded, but go, find out.

Cloud · 03-20-2011, 06:11 PM

well, I think it's a given that it's degenerative, but I hear you. i will--just not quite ready.

casimendocina · 03-21-2011, 04:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by skysidhe

...and the reason he does a 360 turn around is because he's a user and a loser?

Thanks Sky. That makes more sense now. Cheers for taking the time to explain.

monster · 03-22-2011, 02:40 PM

No freaking passports is really pissing me off/getting me worried,

I applied 7 weeks ago, eight weeks before we needed to travel. processing time is 4 weeks for renewals (these are renewals) 6 weeks for new applications. My card was charged three weeks ago. Where are my goddamn freaking passports?

Clodfobble · 03-22-2011, 06:09 PM

Minifobette has a cavity on one molar, and "pre-cavities" on three others. She's not even three yet, for crying out loud! The dentist said she's got "one of those mouths," and that the pH of her saliva is the most to blame. To get them filled, we've got to decide if full sedation or pinning her down is the way to go. Big drawbacks to both choices.

03-20-2011, 12:49 PM	#6437
footfootfoot To shreds, you say? Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: in the house and on the street-how many, many feet we meet! Posts: 18,449	Calls to mind this blast from the past: __________________ The internet is a hateful stew of vomit you can never take completely seriously. - Her Fobs

03-20-2011, 02:08 PM	#6438
Cloud ... Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 8,360	so, I've been working around the house today, finally getting to some projects that have been bugging me for a while--that's good, but . . . after a couple of hours of this, I'm so tired and in pain, I'm practically crying. My back and hips hurt like hell, I'm barely mobile. I no longer have the strength or stamina to do much. things are improving slowly because I'm exercising and taking anti-inflammatory and joint supplements, but it still sucks. __________________ "Guard your honor. Let your reputation fall where it will. And outlive the bastards!"

03-20-2011, 02:28 PM	#6439
Trilby Slattern of the Swail Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 15,654	I hear ya, Cloud. I take 800mg ibuprophen every single day or I ache like a 90 year old woman. If I'm going to walk the goggie I MUST take it 30 min. before or my knees, lower back, hips and sacro-iliac joints get so stiff and painful....the S-I joints are the WORST - they can even ache when I'm in bed trying to go to sleep. Ah, to be 19 again... TBH - all this stuff happend post-chemo. Chemo has a lot to answer for - but I suppose it saved my life...I just didn't know I was going to be in pain all the time. __________________ In Barrie's play and novel, the roles of fairies are brief: they are allies to the Lost Boys, the source of fairy dust and ...They are portrayed as dangerous, whimsical and extremely clever but quite hedonistic. "Shall I give you a kiss?" Peter asked and, jerking an acorn button off his coat, solemnly presented it to her. —James Barrie Wimminfolk they be tricksy. - ZenGum

03-20-2011, 03:01 PM	#6440
Cloud ... Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 8,360	I guess you take the bad with the good, and there's a lot of good in my life right now, so . . . meh __________________ "Guard your honor. Let your reputation fall where it will. And outlive the bastards!"

03-20-2011, 04:32 PM	#6441
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	OR, you get yourself to a doctor and see if it's something that can be fixed quite simply. __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

03-20-2011, 05:26 PM	#6444
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	I read anti-inflammatory supplements. No Rx required. I'm betting no doctor, but good for you if you did, Cloud, sorry it's not helping yet. __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

03-20-2011, 05:49 PM	#6445
Cloud ... Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 8,360	no doctor yet; I'll get there eventually, but I want to see how much I can alleviate it myself first. just hurting today and feeling sorry for myself, I guess. I mean, what is the doctor gonna say? "you have osteoarthritis. You're old and you're fat. Here's some pills. See me in 5 years for a hip replacement." (scowls) __________________ "Guard your honor. Let your reputation fall where it will. And outlive the bastards!" Last edited by Cloud; 03-20-2011 at 05:57 PM.

03-20-2011, 05:58 PM	#6446
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	OR, you could be damaging yourself further. Trust me, in this game, I'm queen! I have learned through long, hard and painful experience(s), that coping strategies for joint pain can cause more damage and grief in the long run than the original problem. I know you hate bring poked and prodded, but go, find out. __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

03-20-2011, 06:11 PM	#6447
Cloud ... Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 8,360	well, I think it's a given that it's degenerative, but I hear you. i will--just not quite ready. __________________ "Guard your honor. Let your reputation fall where it will. And outlive the bastards!"

03-22-2011, 02:40 PM	#6449
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	No freaking passports is really pissing me off/getting me worried, I applied 7 weeks ago, eight weeks before we needed to travel. processing time is 4 weeks for renewals (these are renewals) 6 weeks for new applications. My card was charged three weeks ago. Where are my goddamn freaking passports? __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

03-22-2011, 06:09 PM	#6450
Clodfobble UNDER CONDITIONAL MITIGATION Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 20,012	Minifobette has a cavity on one molar, and "pre-cavities" on three others. She's not even three yet, for crying out loud! The dentist said she's got "one of those mouths," and that the pH of her saliva is the most to blame. To get them filled, we've got to decide if full sedation or pinning her down is the way to go. Big drawbacks to both choices. __________________ My book My other book My spirit animal

Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 85 (0 members and 85 guests)