Very upset about my wardrobe...

pensive pam · 04-19-2011, 03:37 PM

Hi. I have another problem, aside from the ones I already have. But this problem is not an emotional issues like all the other ones I have. As you know, I do not have a job. I do have the promise of an interview, but I don't have nice enough clothing to wear. Most of the clothing I have is from thrift stores and sample sales.

Most of my jewerly was bought at street fairs. I have a lot of rings, earings, and neclaces...all in the $10-$15 dollar range. Most of it is silver pewter.

So what I am going to wear to the interview?? I have a girlfriend that may lend me some jewerly, and even offered to loan me some clothing, but I am very petite,...so it will not fit.

I feel like such a 'rag picker.' And the interview is shortly approaching. Can anyone offer suggestions??

Thank you,
Pam.

Trilby · 04-19-2011, 03:47 PM

We have a thing here in Dayton called Clothes That Work - I'm sure Queens has something similar. It's a clothing place where women can get an entire work-ready/interview-ready wardrobe. It's free.

pensive pam · 04-19-2011, 03:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Brianna

We have a thing here in Dayton called Clothes That Work - I'm sure Queens has something similar. It's a clothing place where women can get an entire work-ready/interview-ready wardrobe. It's free.

Thank you for your kind response. When I saw you mention 'Queens' I was almost shocked, but then I remembered
the webmaster, Mr. Undertoad, verifying where I live.

I will try your suggestion. I need a miracle. Isn't Dayton
in Ohio?? I've never really traveled much out of the North
East, but I think you are there.

How have the other posters here treated you?? I woke up
this morning and saw what some people were saying about
me. I'll admit, it did hurt a bit...

Your friend,
Pam

Flint · 04-19-2011, 04:13 PM

I don't know how it is shopping for women's clothing at thrift stores, but my entire wardrobe of men's professional clothes were purchased at thrift stores. I don't pay retail price for anything. I've been able to gradually build up a very nice set of slacks, button-up shirts, and v-neck sweaters. All name brands and in good condition. I bought a pair of brand-new dress shoes for $12.50.

Maybe we have better thrift stores in Texas?

jimhelm · 04-19-2011, 04:17 PM

what is the job?

pensive pam · 04-19-2011, 04:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Flint

I don't know how it is shopping for women's clothing at thrift stores, but my entire wardrobe of men's professional clothes were purchased at thrift stores. I don't pay retail price for anything. I've been able to gradually build up a very nice set of slacks, button-up shirts, and v-neck sweaters. All name brands and in good condition. I bought a pair of brand-new dress shoes for $12.50.

Maybe we have better thrift stores in Texas?

Hi Flint. I am trying to remain positive after some of the people here viewing me as a circus animal for their entertainment; but then I am so lost, and I did post about my circumstances, so I guess I brought it onto myself.

Brianna gave me a good suggestion, so I am checking into it. After all, this is NY. Have you ever been here? I have been to TX one time. Everyone is very pleasant and nice. Although I am freightened by people walking around with guns. That is not allowed here.

My medication was not balanced last night, so I was very upset, but doing a bit better today. And I appreciate your response.

Your friend,
Pam.

pensive pam · 04-19-2011, 04:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jimhelm

what is the job?

It would be working in a clothing store...so I would need more than one outfit. The whole thing is just intimidating.

I am poor, yet would be selling very nice clothing to rich people.
It's a very well known store on 5th Avenue.

Aside from clothing, my hair is a mess, and I am not that attractive.
The only reason I am getting this interview is because of a friend.
I know that is the reason...

Sadly,
Pam.

jimhelm · 04-19-2011, 04:31 PM

go in with torn stuff and bed head. shabby chic.

pensive pam · 04-19-2011, 04:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jimhelm

go in with torn stuff and bed head. shabby chic.

Yes, I am 'shabby.' But at least I am honest about that part of me. There are many pieces of me; and if you chose to look more closely you would see them...

Take care - Pam.

jimhelm · 04-19-2011, 04:39 PM

i didn't call you shabby

i said use your 'weakness' as a strength

love and kisses,

Jim

jimhelm · 04-19-2011, 04:40 PM

oh... wait... maybe you thought 'chic' was pronounced like 'chick'. its 'sheek'.

pensive pam · 04-19-2011, 04:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jimhelm

i didn't call you shabby

i said use your 'weakness' as a strength

EAD,

Jim

Yes, you did. You called me 'shabby chick.' Although that is accurate, it is not a very nice thing to say. We should all strive
to get along here, despite our opinions and circumstances...

I do not think Mr. Undertoad would appreciate mean comments
such as yours on his website. I think you are a very angry person.

jimhelm · 04-19-2011, 05:02 PM

this is fun.

Nirvana · 04-19-2011, 05:06 PM

>hands jimhelm another bag of troll food...

pensive pam · 04-19-2011, 05:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jimhelm

this is fun.

OK, I guess they are two different words. You did say 'chic.' I did look it up on the interent and it means 'fancy.' I misunderstood, and I am very sorry.

I am very stressed about my clothing for the interview. I also have a problem with my landlord. He is mean to me, and does not turn on the heat all winter. I pray for spring. I am so cold right now...

I am going to have some wine...

Pam.

04-19-2011, 03:37 PM	#1
pensive pam Banned Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Far away... Posts: 538	Very upset about my wardrobe... Hi. I have another problem, aside from the ones I already have. But this problem is not an emotional issues like all the other ones I have. As you know, I do not have a job. I do have the promise of an interview, but I don't have nice enough clothing to wear. Most of the clothing I have is from thrift stores and sample sales. Most of my jewerly was bought at street fairs. I have a lot of rings, earings, and neclaces...all in the $10-$15 dollar range. Most of it is silver pewter. So what I am going to wear to the interview?? I have a girlfriend that may lend me some jewerly, and even offered to loan me some clothing, but I am very petite,...so it will not fit. I feel like such a 'rag picker.' And the interview is shortly approaching. Can anyone offer suggestions?? Thank you, Pam.

04-19-2011, 03:47 PM	#2
Trilby Slattern of the Swail Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 15,654	We have a thing here in Dayton called Clothes That Work - I'm sure Queens has something similar. It's a clothing place where women can get an entire work-ready/interview-ready wardrobe. It's free. __________________ In Barrie's play and novel, the roles of fairies are brief: they are allies to the Lost Boys, the source of fairy dust and ...They are portrayed as dangerous, whimsical and extremely clever but quite hedonistic. "Shall I give you a kiss?" Peter asked and, jerking an acorn button off his coat, solemnly presented it to her. —James Barrie Wimminfolk they be tricksy. - ZenGum

04-19-2011, 04:13 PM	#4
Flint Snowflake Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Dystopia Posts: 13,136	I don't know how it is shopping for women's clothing at thrift stores, but my entire wardrobe of men's professional clothes were purchased at thrift stores. I don't pay retail price for anything. I've been able to gradually build up a very nice set of slacks, button-up shirts, and v-neck sweaters. All name brands and in good condition. I bought a pair of brand-new dress shoes for $12.50. Maybe we have better thrift stores in Texas? __________________ **************** There's a level of facility that everyone needs to accomplish, and from there it's a matter of deciding for yourself how important ultra-facility is to your expression. ... I found, like Joseph Campbell said, if you just follow whatever gives you a little joy or excitement or awe, then you're on the right track. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Terry Bozzio**

04-19-2011, 04:17 PM	#5
jimhelm a beautiful fool Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: 39.939705 Posts: 4,504	what is the job? __________________ There's a Shadow just behind me. Shrouding every step I take. Making every promise empty, pointing every finger at me. _tool

04-19-2011, 04:31 PM	#8
jimhelm a beautiful fool Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: 39.939705 Posts: 4,504	go in with torn stuff and bed head. shabby chic. __________________ There's a Shadow just behind me. Shrouding every step I take. Making every promise empty, pointing every finger at me. _tool

04-19-2011, 04:39 PM	#10
jimhelm a beautiful fool Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: 39.939705 Posts: 4,504	i didn't call you shabby i said use your 'weakness' as a strength love and kisses, Jim __________________ There's a Shadow just behind me. Shrouding every step I take. Making every promise empty, pointing every finger at me. _tool

04-19-2011, 04:40 PM	#11
jimhelm a beautiful fool Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: 39.939705 Posts: 4,504	oh... wait... maybe you thought 'chic' was pronounced like 'chick'. its 'sheek'. __________________ There's a Shadow just behind me. Shrouding every step I take. Making every promise empty, pointing every finger at me. _tool

04-19-2011, 05:02 PM	#13
jimhelm a beautiful fool Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: 39.939705 Posts: 4,504	this is fun. __________________ There's a Shadow just behind me. Shrouding every step I take. Making every promise empty, pointing every finger at me. _tool

04-19-2011, 05:06 PM	#14
Nirvana Back in 10 Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 3,684	>hands jimhelm another bag of troll food... __________________ Speaking simply... do not confuse this with having a simple mind.

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