What's upsetting you today?

[Elspode]

Wife now gone on weeklong trip w/beau. Meanwhile, my most torrid correspondent has hit maximum stress level in her life and ceased all extramarital frolic (although she did come over tonight and drink beer, eat ganja cookies, and watch TV - which was surprisingly good, thanks to the cookies - and just hang out.), causing me explore other options. No, not *those* options, I a flaming heterosexual. Anyway, not entirely happy about this.

I do have a date set up for Friday night, though...so things could be worse.

[skysidhe]

I have a cold and I'm cranky.


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sorry you didn't get any spodeman. Hope Friday is a gooder.

[Razzmatazz13]

The lack of companionship is starting to wear on me as it does every once and a while...wish all of my (ex)friends hadn't gone off to college to become drunken backstabbing ho's...

Edit: Also it's one of the nights where I can really feel the distance between boyfriend and I.

[skysidhe]

aww

It'll turn around again razz.

[Razzmatazz13]

I know...just gets to me some days.

Thanks though, hope your cold clears up soon.

[DucksNuts]

Ohh 'spode, a weeklong trip. I can imagine that is difficult. Getting lucky vibes your way on Friday.

Syc - why are you in pain? I obviously havent been around long enough to know.

Sky - I am on week 4 on the flu here and its driving me spare.

I'm cranky because I am a cranky ole tart these days.

[Aliantha]

Probably cause you're not getting laid.

[DucksNuts]

I have BOB and myself

[LabRat]

If BOB is the name of your vibrator, that is hilarious because that is the name my friend uses for hers!!! (yes, my friend. I don't have a name for mine )

[skysidhe]

Originally Posted by Razzmatazz13

I know...just gets to me some days.

Thanks though, hope your cold clears up soon.

Thanks. I plan to stop coughing by the end of the week!

Yeah, Razz some days are down days so you gotta have some up days!!
You'll have to get into a new crowd? Club or something?

Originally Posted by DucksNuts

Sky - I am on week 4 on the flu here and its driving me spare.

I'm cranky because I am a cranky ole tart these days.

man...4 week flu? I am a fricken vitamin and herb guru.
I say take some b-12 complex to cut it short. Alot of people say vit. C but it
just makes me thirsty in a pill form so lots of juice and other fluids is tolerated better.

and yer not cranky...not THAT cranky

[Cicero]

Can someone tell me if their husband leaves them to fall asleep on the couch alone after dressing up for him in lingerie? Every time? I woke up crying this morning because of my husband's repeated lack of interest.......waking up on the couch shivering in your lingerie is kind of humiliating. Then he called me mentally ill ("more of my manic shit"- to be exact) when he saw that I was crying.

This should probably go in the relationship thread....but this is upsetting me today. Again.

Am I insane to be that upset over it? Why does he do that every time?
"Nice outfit, goodnight".
Does anyone else here do that to their wife?

There guys....now you have enough ammunition forever.

[BigV]

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[jester]

Originally Posted by Cicero

Can someone tell me if their husband leaves them to fall asleep on the couch alone after dressing up for him in lingerie? Every time? I woke up crying this morning because of my husband's repeated lack of interest.......waking up on the couch shivering in your lingerie is kind of humiliating. Then he called me mentally ill ("more of my manic shit"- to be exact) when he saw that I was crying.

This should probably go in the relationship thread....but this is upsetting me today. Again.

Am I insane to be that upset over it? Why does he do that every time?
"Nice outfit, goodnight".
Does anyone else here do that to their wife?

There guys....now you have enough ammunition forever.

that's cold-blooded. it should also be under the thread of WTF? sounds like he's one of those that "it's no biggie" whether you have sex or not or anything else for that matter. not insane, you have every right to be pissed.

[zippyt]

WHAT a STUPID FUCKER !!!!!!

Or should I say NON-FUCKER !!!

[Cicero]

I understand that BigV....but I know for a fact that he is sexually motivated and still you know..... Just umm...not with me.

I knew I would sound like an asshole for having a husband that has something wrong with his neck and I still insist on sexual satisfaction. But if we are really going to talk about this embarassing stuff that I brought up and shouldn't finish the thought on: he does it with himself by his self all the time and does not touch me. Not only that.....he's been pointing out that fact. I'm not sure why in the hell he's doing that either but ok. He is not depressed or have a lack of sexual desire. Which is why I tried to dress up and be overtly attractive for him in the first place...you know over and over again. I thought well- maybe he's doing it by himself all the time because I haven't been saucy. Then like an idiot....I dress up again and get left on the couch. This is just so pathetic. I have to quit doing that.
I wasn't trying to say he has a lack of sexual desire. Because he doesn't.

Jester is actually right on target. He does act like it's not a big deal either way. It's as if he is trying to point out that I am not attractive. But I know I am. Sometimes I feel humiliated and don't feel attractive....but I know I am. He is pulling a head game and using sex to do it. How long can this go on? It's not recent or a symptom of a health issue...he is doing it intentionally. Why would he pick sex as a controlling mechanism? Why does he feel like his wife is a slut for having sex with him? Because you know, this is what he's starting to sound like and act like.
Nice outfit....whatever....slut. Are people higher minded that jack off and refuse and ignore the sexual advances of their wives? Ok I don't get why. I'll admit it. If I knew why he kept doing this the problem would be solved by now. I keep forgetting and then remembering why I should stop doing that after I wake up shivering and crying.

You know.....I can't believe I just broadcasted all that to everyone over the internet....but it's sticking.

My momma never said there would be days like this.