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Old 12-11-2011, 09:57 PM   #1
Jeff Pyro
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Recently I've started trying to get in a relationship with a girl I've liked for a while now. We both go to the same highschool and have a few different things in common. A's of a few months ago, I've been trying to get out of the 'friend zone.'. I asked her to homecoming, but she already had a date. About 2 months later I finally got the courage to ask her out, but she said she was with someone else. When it came up in a conversation, most of her friends didn't even know she was in a relationship. Since I asked her out, I saw some of her statuses as wishing things were different, time to set wrongs right, gotta keep my head held high, etc. which makes me think she isn't with this guy. Do any of you think i have a chance with her still or should I give up and move on?
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Old 12-12-2011, 08:12 AM   #2
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Old 12-12-2011, 08:23 AM   #3
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Old 12-12-2011, 08:31 AM   #4
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You are asking us for relationship advice? Have you read the other threads on this forum????

Drink water, change your socks, take a cold shower and move on amigo.
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Old 12-12-2011, 02:42 PM   #5
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the change your socks part of that is VITAL. do NOT skip that step. jesus.
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Old 12-12-2011, 03:23 PM   #6
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I agree - asking the Cellar for relationship advice is like asking Bernie Madoff for investment advice.
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Old 12-12-2011, 03:45 PM   #7
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Depends on who you ask. Mrs. Z and I will be married 25 years in February.
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Old 12-12-2011, 03:48 PM   #8
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Is Mrs Z your imaginary friend?
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Old 12-12-2011, 03:48 PM   #9
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Yabbut Pete, did you ask for advice from Teh Cellar first, hm?
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Old 12-12-2011, 03:49 PM   #10
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Drink water, change your socks, take a cold shower and move on amigo.
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the change your socks part of that is VITAL. do NOT skip that step. jesus.
This is so typical of the half-assed, back-handed help you are likely to receive around here, Jeff.

They mean clean socks, Jeff, clean socks. Not the ones from under your mattress. Sheesh.

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Old 12-12-2011, 03:52 PM   #11
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How can we ever be sure? She seemed real enough when she was getting out of the shower this morning. And the spinner eventually stopped.
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Old 12-12-2011, 04:17 PM   #12
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... Do any of you think i have a chance with her still or should I give up and move on?
Who says you can't do both? You can chase after as many as you want, you only have to marry them one at a time. Girls can change their minds ... don't write her off; unless, of course, her name is Emma!
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Old 12-12-2011, 05:20 PM   #13
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Or Pam.
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Old 12-12-2011, 05:47 PM   #14
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We're talking high school age here.
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