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Old 09-16-2008, 04:53 AM   #16
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Who are you playing in MSND?
We did it when I was 12 and I still have whole chunks of it by heart.

Oh in fact here's a pic of us as fairies!
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Old 09-16-2008, 06:16 AM   #17
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Old 09-16-2008, 06:19 AM   #18
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Old 09-16-2008, 08:36 AM   #19
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I feel like I'm being crushed by this sense of
powerful, deep, angry and bitter
but very subtle and background
sense of isolation, of loneliness.

I need someone, man. I don't even really care who, and I don't even really care what we do or what we are to eachother. I just need someone to be with.
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Old 09-16-2008, 08:40 AM   #20
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I feel like I'm being crushed by this sense of
powerful, deep, angry and bitter
but very subtle and background
sense of isolation, of loneliness.

I need someone, man. I don't even really care who, and I don't even really care what we do or what we are to eachother. I just need someone to be with.
Ahhhhh....a perfect portrait of the human condition. I know that feeling well....I struggled against it the entire time I was single (40 years worth!).
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Old 09-16-2008, 05:19 PM   #21
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I feel like I'm being crushed by this sense of
powerful, deep, angry and bitter
but very subtle and background
sense of isolation, of loneliness.

I need someone, man. I don't even really care who, and I don't even really care what we do or what we are to eachother. I just need someone to be with.
Are there any gay youth organizations near you? Clubs that don't serve alcohol? Church groups that don't shove Jesus at you?
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Old 09-16-2008, 05:45 PM   #22
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no, maybe, and no.
and i'm not just lookin' for a friend - i've got a buncha those
it's the NEXT level i'm missin'.
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Old 09-16-2008, 08:15 PM   #23
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Are there any gay youth organizations near you? Clubs that don't serve alcohol? Church groups that don't shove Jesus at you?
Since when did you start recruiting for the scouts?
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Old 09-17-2008, 05:25 AM   #24
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Are there any gay youth organizations near you? Clubs that don't serve alcohol? Church groups that don't shove Jesus at you?
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no, maybe, and no.
and i'm not just lookin' for a friend - i've got a buncha those
it's the NEXT level i'm missin'.
I think that might be what Sheldon is trying to find you...
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Old 09-17-2008, 05:50 AM   #25
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well, sure, but, like i said
no non-jesus-pushing church groups,
and no gay youth groups that i can find.
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Old 09-17-2008, 09:31 PM   #26
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Hmm. Seeing this thread reminded me of when I was 25, and I begrudgingly started dating an 18yo.

Biggest. Mistake. Of my life.

Teenager drama. There's a reason why you want to go to college and get AWAY from High School drama. Because it's petty, silly, and downright stupid.
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Old 09-18-2008, 09:10 AM   #27
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I think that might be what Sheldon is trying to find you...
Correct. And maybe, if you don't already have one, a part-time job somewhere that hires people around your age Ib. You're a nice looking kid. That's always a plus when looking to find someone.
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Old 09-19-2008, 09:46 AM   #28
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Can't get a job - you have to be 18 to get a work permit, and I'm a lao wai (ferriner) anyway, so that's out.


On the other hand... I asked the wonderful wonderful girl who lives downstairs (who is the ONLY person i've ever met, my age, who can hold their own in music trivia with me) if she wanted to grab dinner saturday night, and she said she'd see about it... but that's better than a no, and she sounded fairly positive towards the idea. Wish me luck?
(the only thing is, even if she says yes... i'm not sure she realizes I meant it as a date. oh well... maybe it'll work out.)
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Old 09-19-2008, 10:05 AM   #29
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i'm not sure she realizes I meant it as a date.
thats a good thing! ten there is no pressure and you can let things flow naturally without all the pressure.
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Old 09-19-2008, 11:08 AM   #30
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~snip~I need someone, man. I don't even really care who, and I don't even really care what we do or what we are to eachother. I just need someone to be with.
Ibby, you're a good guy. Don't think you have to be with someone just to be with someone. Doing that is a sure way of not finding the right person.
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