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View Poll Results: How long have you been with your Significant Other?
Single all the way, baby 3 4.84%
Single at the moment 6 9.68%
Less than 3 months 0 0%
3-6 months 0 0%
6 monthe - 1 year 1 1.61%
1-3 years 7 11.29%
3-5 years 4 6.45%
5-10 years 11 17.74%
10-20 years 21 33.87%
20-30 years 7 11.29%
>30 years 2 3.23%
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Old 04-11-2009, 02:38 AM   #16
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Dated for seven years, off and on. Married for three... our anniversary is April 15th! Talk about bad karma... >.<
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Old 04-11-2009, 04:20 AM   #17
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Was in a long term relationship (living 'over the brush' as they used to say) from 18 yrs old to 30. For last seven and a half years I've been 'professionally single' :P Other than 1 year spent pining over D, and then 3 months dating him...that was an interesting experiment, but really, single suits me best
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Old 04-11-2009, 05:40 AM   #18
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My ex and I were friends about a couple years, "dated" a year, lived together two years, were married almost 12. Been divorced 6.

That's enough longevity for my lifetime. Damn I'm old.
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Old 04-11-2009, 07:29 AM   #19
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Kitsune and I met in the spring of 2005 and got married spring of last year, so we've been together four years and married for one.

I took his last name because I absolutely hated my maiden name. I enjoy confusing people with the name's strange spelling.
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Old 04-11-2009, 08:04 AM   #20
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We have been together for 7 years of pure bliss. our secret is we never stay mad at one another. And we make each other laugh.
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Old 04-11-2009, 09:00 AM   #21
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Awesome, fargon. I think those are the secrets: don't stay mad (forgive minor transgressions) and laugh a lot.

Happy couples make me smile.
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Old 04-11-2009, 09:48 AM   #22
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I have been with mac_tire for over 5 years, married for almost 4. I was married to my ex for 5 years and together for 1 year before that. I have been in the cellar for 8.
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Old 04-11-2009, 10:10 AM   #23
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I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and uh...3 months, so that puts me JUST into the 1-3 yr category. We started dating (officially) on January 13th last year, so sometimes our monthly "anniversaries" fall on friday the 13th, and it's fun

My longest relationship was just over 4 years.

(P.S. We don't celebrate monthly "anniversaries", but it amazes him that I like to be with him, so he'll remind me every month anyway.)
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Old 04-11-2009, 10:36 AM   #24
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I met jinx when I was 19 and she was 17. We didn't actually get 'together' until the end of that great summer. It was really a great summer..... That was 1990. We got married in Feb of 98. Before that, we were married 11 times in previous incarnations for a grand total of 450 years together.
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Old 04-11-2009, 10:40 AM   #25
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Me and Mrs. Joe have been married around 16.5 years. Been a good ride so far.
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Old 04-11-2009, 10:50 AM   #26
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Mee-ee-ee and
Mrs Mrs Joe Mrs Joe Mrs Joe Mrs Joe-oe
We got a thing
That's a go...
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Old 04-11-2009, 10:54 AM   #27
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7 years in June and they have been amazing. My husband was a godsend for me and he feels the same way about me. We met online in a AOL chatroom for 30 somethings (He was 37 and I was a month away from being 40...).

BTW, just out of curiosity, what is/was your astrological signs? Ours is Pisces/Capricorn, which is supposed to be a very complementary match-up.
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Old 04-11-2009, 11:51 AM   #28
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Wife and I will have been married 25 years this Aug. 26+ years together.
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Old 04-11-2009, 12:03 PM   #29
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1990 was a fabulous summer. I was 18 that year. Me and J were wild and in love...and high as kites.
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Old 04-11-2009, 12:22 PM   #30
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I was 25 in 1990, living with my soon to be husband. I remember wild in love. It was nice, if not practical, for us.
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