Death By a Thousand Cuts

[Sundae]

If you have a cunt does that make you cunty?
If Ali's post read "Oh yeah, my husband likes to think his ineptitude is funny. I think he's finally starting to realise that I expect a him to make more of an effort" would that be cunty?

Jim how is Ali's attitude cunty and Foot's attitude not?
I have no issue with either of their comments/ approaches.

[limey]

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[Undertoad]

If Ali's post read "Oh yeah, my husband likes to think his ineptitude is funny. I think he's finally starting to realise that I expect a him to make more of an effort" would that be cunty?

A real woman would be more demure than you are acting here.

[Sundae]

Go ahead, knock yourself out.
Both women and men are generalised in every day conversation and on this forum. Check out Flint's recent posts, which have been supported by men as indicative of the behaviour of women. And women do the same, although I think less on this forum than I've heard suggested happens in real life (dunno, never in my groups of friends is all I can say.)

I think all we can do it take each situation on its merits and deal with the people we know. LJ doesn't know Dazza. He knows Ali. If he thinks Ali is a cunt then that's his opinion. But he might think Daz was a dick if he knew him too.

I dislike the word used and the immediate "us against them" reaction.
Is all.

[lumberjim]

Originally Posted by Sundae

If you have a cunt does that make you cunty?
If Ali's post read "Oh yeah, my husband likes to think his ineptitude is funny. I think he's finally starting to realise that I expect a him to make more of an effort" would that be cunty?

no, i don't think so. it was the 'real man' part of it that came over cold

Jim how is Ali's attitude cunty and Foot's attitude not?
I have no issue with either of their comments/ approaches.

i didn't say ali is cunty. i said that SOUNDED really cunty. you disagree?

[footfootfoot]

Originally Posted by infinite monkey

So you moved back into your house? Did she move out? Are you living in that house with your kids, then? How long were you gone? She broke all that stuff in what amount of time? What's a mullion? Do I ask too many questions? Are these questions annoying you? How much wood could a woodchuck chuck if a woodchuck could chuck wood? What does it mean to 'chuck wood'? Can you chuck things besides wood, like a felt tip pen or something? Can you chuck a wall? Is that why there are holes in the wall?Are we there yet?

I wait these here for answers, when time is that you have when to answer them.

(and congrats on getting your home back, though I don't understand the 'stances.)

Yes. Yes. Half the week, 3-2-2. One year. One year. An 80s hairstyle. No. No. 2.5 CuYd. It's slang for fapping, I think. Yes. No. No. Yes.

Originally Posted by Sundae

If you have a cunt does that make you cunty?
If Ali's post read "Oh yeah, my husband likes to think his ineptitude is funny. I think he's finally starting to realise that I expect a him to make more of an effort" would that be cunty?

Jim how is Ali's attitude cunty and Foot's attitude not?
I have no issue with either of their comments/ approaches.

The difference is that I did not play the "Real woman/man" card.

Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce

Mullions and muntins.

and minions. Oh my.

[lumberjim]

Ali,

First this is not a shot at you, rather an actual honest suggestion/ recommendation.

Did you ever hear of a book called "Loving What Is'?
It might be useful to you in some degree. Daz is a real man. Just as real as when you met him. Your expectation is what has changed, from what I've heard.

And that's all you can truly control.

[infinite monkey]

foot, thanks for your answers. It sounds like a good situation for you.

I am starting a Mullion Man March, and mulletted peoples from everywhere will come together to walk and to express the indignities they've felt and show their hope for the future...they'll walk through the pane and see the light.

(I don't know, I think I'd be a great candidate as narrator for an episode of Drunk History, and I'm not even currently drunk! Also, you must watch some episodes of the show...it's my new thing.)

Really, I'm happy for you.

[glatt]

I'd join the Mullion Man March. lol

[BigV]

Originally Posted by lumberjim

That sounded really cunty

what an asshole thing to say.

[lumberjim]

Are we experimenting with ways to call names without actually calling names now?

Grow up. If I wanted to call her cunty, I would have. If you want to call me an asshole, say it.

[Gravdigr]

Holy moly, I think they're gonna screw.

[lumberjim]

Don't make me come down there for you either, tough guy.

Get Brett Weir, I said!

[infinite monkey]

[twocents] I think telling your man he isn't a 'real man' is akin to a man telling you that you're a poor excuse for a woman. And both are totally disrespectful, and degrading. Meaner than the normal ' well fuck you ya asshole' or 'bite me, bitch.' It's where you reach way down to the bottom of the insult bag to question their role in humanity, and how they stack up to others of your gender...like you're just waiting for that 'real man' or 'real woman' to come along, and you're currently settling for a subhuman. Something most of us don't need as we question our fitness for society every day anyway. If you can't have respect in your relationship, you ain't gonna have anything. [/twocents]

This is all generally speaking and just my view. Your mileage will absolutely vary.

[BigV]

Originally Posted by lumberjim

Are we experimenting with ways to call names without actually calling names now?

let me try to answer your question with words you seem to understand:

Originally Posted by lumberjim

i didn't say ali is cunty. i said that SOUNDED really cunty. you disagree?

I didn't say lumberjim was an asshole, I said it was an asshole THING TO SAY.
jfc are you too stupid to see the difference or are you too thin skinned to take what you dish out?

Originally Posted by lumberjim

no, i don't think so. it was the 'real man' part of it that came over cold

the cold-sounding "cunty" part to which you objected was "real man"; however, she's acknowleded his manly reality, she's saying his effort is lacking. the other way around sounds like: the effort he's putting forth is that of a child/clown/not-real-man. which, let's face it, you read as "less than a man" you can't seriously be suggesting that aliantha thinks dazza's not really a man, can you??

Originally Posted by lumberjim

Grow up. If I wanted to call her cunty, I would have. If you want to call me an asshole, say it.

lj, you're a man, a real man. you have a heart, brains and an asshole. we've seen all those parts of you at one time or another; this time, it was the asshole that was on display.