Potential sub looking for guidance

kaykatiekay · 05-17-2011, 12:14 PM

Hello

my name is Katie and I'm 17 years old. I understand that many people think that is too young for me to start learning about the submissive lifestyle but I am desperate to learn more about D/s. Therefore, I am very interested in speaking further with those involved in the lifestyle (particularly dominant men). Eventually I would love to establish a 'relationship' (for want of a better word) where I can surrender control to a dominant on some daily activites (e.g. clothes I wear, food I eat etc.). At my age I am not interested in a sexual D/s relationship either online or in person but I would love to learn more about what that entails. I would also love to learn about positions and other things that Dominants enjoy. I will not be willing to give out any nude pictures of myself, but I will take pictures of mself performing certain commands as proof if the Dominant wishes. However, for personal privacy I will not be showing my face in these pictures. I am also happy to carry out punishments as the Dominant believes I need them. Really I am just looking for a strong man to guide me into the submissive mindset. Thank you for reading (and possibly responding) to this post.

Sundae · 05-17-2011, 12:42 PM

One question.
A genuine one.

What drew you to this site, and to make this your first post in a totally new thread?

Given how open you've been, I don't think it's too personal a question.

classicman · 05-17-2011, 01:03 PM

cough/bullshit/cough.
Never met a 17 year old that wrote that well.
But hey - welcome and all that.

footfootfoot · 05-17-2011, 01:05 PM

Navigation
Light does not penetrate very far into the ocean, so submarines must navigate through the water virtually blind. However, submarines are equipped with navigational charts and sophisticated navigational equipment. When on the surface, a sophisticated global positioning system (GPS) accurately determines latitude and longitude, but this system cannot work when the submarine is submerged. Underwater, the submarine uses inertial guidance systems (electric, mechanical) that keep track of the ship's motion from a fixed starting point by using gyroscopes. The inertial guidance systems are accurate to 150 hours of operation and must be realigned by other surface-dependent navigational systems (GPS, radio, radar, satellite). With these systems onboard, a submarine can be accurately navigated and be within a hundred feet of its intended course.

Photo courtesy U.S. Department of Defense
Sonar station onboard the USS La Jolla nuclear-powered attack submarine

To locate a target, a submarine uses active and passive SONAR (sound navigation and ranging). Active sonar emits pulses of sound waves that travel through the water, reflect off the target and return to the ship. By knowing the speed of sound in water and the time for the sound wave to travel to the target and back, the computers can quickly calculate distance between the submarine and the target. Whales, dolphins and bats use the same technique for locating prey (echolocation). Passive sonar involves listening to sounds generated by the target. Sonar systems can also be used to realign inertial navigation systems by identifying known ocean floor features .

kaykatiekay · 05-17-2011, 01:10 PM

@Sundae
No that's fine

I found this forum when i typed 'dom sub forum' into google

this was one of the first sites to come up.

@classicman
Not sure whether to take your comment as a compliment or be offended... I will go for compliment I think

I assure you I am not lying about my age (perhaps I am just very well read!). I have had terrible difficulty getting anyone to take me seriously because of my age so if I were older, believe me I'd say so. If anything it's been tempting for me to lie and say I am older!

@footfootfoot
Thank you for your completely irrelevant comment

jimhelm · 05-17-2011, 01:13 PM

foot was offering help with submarine guidance. he's very punny.

Undertoad · 05-17-2011, 01:14 PM

Quote:

this was one of the first sites to come up

For sure, it is #2 for the search words. Who woulda thought.

Well we talk about everything here as this is a forum about everything, welcome.

kaykatiekay · 05-17-2011, 01:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jimhelm

foot was offering help with submarine guidance. he's very punny.

hehe I get it now

Wow he must have a lot of spare time...

Quote:

Originally Posted by Undertoad

For sure, it is #2 for the search words. Who woulda thought.

Well we talk about everything here as this is a forum about everything, welcome.

Hello! I look forward to exploring these forums further!

lookout123 · 05-17-2011, 01:21 PM

So a newbie who happens to be jailbait pops up with their first post asking about dom/sub, states they won't post pictures, but wants to know about positions???

jimhelm · 05-17-2011, 01:28 PM

this is a platonic sub.

she just wants to be friends.

I'm curious at the motivation of this person. assuming, for now that they are legit.

K, was you father very dominant? did you lose him recently?

kaykatiekay · 05-17-2011, 01:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lookout123

So a newbie who happens to be jailbait pops up with their first post asking about dom/sub, states they won't post pictures, but wants to know about positions???

Ok I'm not sure I understand your post, but I'd like to try and answer anyway. As far as I am aware I'm not 'jailbait'. I'm 17 and in the UK (where I am from) this makes me legal. Nevertheless, I did clearly state in my post that I am not looking for a sexual relationship so that seems irrelevant. All I am looking for is someone to help me learn more about the lifestyle. I'm not sure what you find wrong with me refusing to give out nude pictures of myself or about my desire to know more about the lifestyle (i.e. positions)?

footfootfoot · 05-17-2011, 01:30 PM

Not for nothing but subs are known for their conning towers

footfootfoot · 05-17-2011, 01:32 PM

OK, maybe the entire cellar could be your dom. That woudl maybe be a first for all of us and the internet.

We'd have to agree on ground rules.

classicman · 05-17-2011, 01:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kaykatiekay

this was one of the first sites to come up.

Then you noticed this part as well ...
"15 posts - 12 authors - Last post: Oct 26, 2006"
We haven't discussed that in almost 5 YEARS.
yep, we are on the cutting edge of the Dom/sub issue....

classicman · 05-17-2011, 01:35 PM

ok Jim - Quiz time ...

05-17-2011, 12:14 PM	#1
kaykatiekay Sibling of the Commonweal Join Date: May 2011 Location: Kent Posts: 16	Potential sub looking for guidance Hello my name is Katie and I'm 17 years old. I understand that many people think that is too young for me to start learning about the submissive lifestyle but I am desperate to learn more about D/s. Therefore, I am very interested in speaking further with those involved in the lifestyle (particularly dominant men). Eventually I would love to establish a 'relationship' (for want of a better word) where I can surrender control to a dominant on some daily activites (e.g. clothes I wear, food I eat etc.). At my age I am not interested in a sexual D/s relationship either online or in person but I would love to learn more about what that entails. I would also love to learn about positions and other things that Dominants enjoy. I will not be willing to give out any nude pictures of myself, but I will take pictures of mself performing certain commands as proof if the Dominant wishes. However, for personal privacy I will not be showing my face in these pictures. I am also happy to carry out punishments as the Dominant believes I need them. Really I am just looking for a strong man to guide me into the submissive mindset. Thank you for reading (and possibly responding) to this post.

05-17-2011, 01:03 PM	#3
classicman barely disguised asshole, keeper of all that is holy. Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 23,401	cough/bullshit/cough. Never met a 17 year old that wrote that well. But hey - welcome and all that. __________________ "like strapping a pillow on a bull in a china shop" Bullitt

05-17-2011, 01:05 PM	#4
footfootfoot To shreds, you say? Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: in the house and on the street-how many, many feet we meet! Posts: 18,449	Navigation Light does not penetrate very far into the ocean, so submarines must navigate through the water virtually blind. However, submarines are equipped with navigational charts and sophisticated navigational equipment. When on the surface, a sophisticated global positioning system (GPS) accurately determines latitude and longitude, but this system cannot work when the submarine is submerged. Underwater, the submarine uses inertial guidance systems (electric, mechanical) that keep track of the ship's motion from a fixed starting point by using gyroscopes. The inertial guidance systems are accurate to 150 hours of operation and must be realigned by other surface-dependent navigational systems (GPS, radio, radar, satellite). With these systems onboard, a submarine can be accurately navigated and be within a hundred feet of its intended course. Photo courtesy U.S. Department of Defense Sonar station onboard the USS La Jolla nuclear-powered attack submarine To locate a target, a submarine uses active and passive SONAR (sound navigation and ranging). Active sonar emits pulses of sound waves that travel through the water, reflect off the target and return to the ship. By knowing the speed of sound in water and the time for the sound wave to travel to the target and back, the computers can quickly calculate distance between the submarine and the target. Whales, dolphins and bats use the same technique for locating prey (echolocation). Passive sonar involves listening to sounds generated by the target. Sonar systems can also be used to realign inertial navigation systems by identifying known ocean floor features . __________________ The internet is a hateful stew of vomit you can never take completely seriously. - Her Fobs

05-17-2011, 01:10 PM	#5
kaykatiekay Sibling of the Commonweal Join Date: May 2011 Location: Kent Posts: 16	@Sundae No that's fine I found this forum when i typed 'dom sub forum' into google this was one of the first sites to come up. @classicman Not sure whether to take your comment as a compliment or be offended... I will go for compliment I think I assure you I am not lying about my age (perhaps I am just very well read!). I have had terrible difficulty getting anyone to take me seriously because of my age so if I were older, believe me I'd say so. If anything it's been tempting for me to lie and say I am older! @footfootfoot Thank you for your completely irrelevant comment Last edited by kaykatiekay; 05-17-2011 at 01:11 PM. Reason: fix typos

05-17-2011, 01:13 PM	#6
jimhelm a beautiful fool Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: 39.939705 Posts: 4,504	foot was offering help with submarine guidance. he's very punny. __________________ There's a Shadow just behind me. Shrouding every step I take. Making every promise empty, pointing every finger at me. _tool

05-17-2011, 12:42 PM	#2
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	One question. A genuine one. What drew you to this site, and to make this your first post in a totally new thread? Given how open you've been, I don't think it's too personal a question. __________________ Life's hard you know, so strike a pose on a Cadillac

05-17-2011, 01:21 PM	#9
lookout123 changed his status to single Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Right behind you. No, the other side. Posts: 10,308	So a newbie who happens to be jailbait pops up with their first post asking about dom/sub, states they won't post pictures, but wants to know about positions??? __________________ Getting knocked down is no sin, it's not getting back up that's the sin

05-17-2011, 01:28 PM	#10
jimhelm a beautiful fool Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: 39.939705 Posts: 4,504	this is a platonic sub. she just wants to be friends. I'm curious at the motivation of this person. assuming, for now that they are legit. K, was you father very dominant? did you lose him recently? __________________ There's a Shadow just behind me. Shrouding every step I take. Making every promise empty, pointing every finger at me. _tool

05-17-2011, 01:30 PM	#12
footfootfoot To shreds, you say? Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: in the house and on the street-how many, many feet we meet! Posts: 18,449	Not for nothing but subs are known for their conning towers __________________ The internet is a hateful stew of vomit you can never take completely seriously. - Her Fobs

05-17-2011, 01:32 PM	#13
footfootfoot To shreds, you say? Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: in the house and on the street-how many, many feet we meet! Posts: 18,449	OK, maybe the entire cellar could be your dom. That woudl maybe be a first for all of us and the internet. We'd have to agree on ground rules. __________________ The internet is a hateful stew of vomit you can never take completely seriously. - Her Fobs

05-17-2011, 01:35 PM	#15
classicman barely disguised asshole, keeper of all that is holy. Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 23,401	ok Jim - Quiz time ... __________________ "like strapping a pillow on a bull in a china shop" Bullitt

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