What's upsetting you today? - Page 453

BigV · 05-26-2011, 12:25 PM

augh... so sorry Nirvana.

I sincerely hope the obstruction is removed and he's healthy soon.

Sundae · 05-26-2011, 12:39 PM

Mum.
As usual.

No idea what this shit-fit is about.

She came up to get a book - which is hindsight is not a good thing as it means she isn't watching TV. It might be that Dad is watching something she isn't interested in, which is very selfish of him. But she seemed fine - I asked her about an email I sent her and she replied with interest.

Then there was slap bang wallop downstairs, slamming doors. I heard Dad say, "I'll do it! I do it after [inaudible]"

Mum, "I'LL DO IT! Like I do everything in this fucking place! Funny how I am the only person who noticed it! Everyone else walking right past it!"

I haven't ignored anything that needed doing. It might be something along the lines of catsick or poo? No - Dad would never suggest a delay on that. So I'm baffled. Just staying out of it, even if I have been implicated.

It doesn't seem to have reached storm out proportions. But another wrong word from Dad might get her there. I certainly expect her to come upstairs and shut herself in their room to "read". AKA stew and brood.

Oh - just remembered they are house-sitting as of tomorrow. So she can't go off to punish Dad - she'd never let the clients down that way. Wow - no wonder she's fuming.

morethanpretty · 05-26-2011, 03:23 PM

Good luck Suede!

Undertoad · 05-26-2011, 03:34 PM

The air conditioning doesn't work.

The mower I bought used doesn't start and the grass is 8" tall.

I'm going to lose the house to foreclosure.

And I have a bad headache.

BigV · 05-26-2011, 03:56 PM

fucking forclosure. my current boogeyman. aaauuuugh.

Clodfobble · 05-26-2011, 04:09 PM

The word foreclosure is very scary. I'm sorry to hear that more than one person here is facing it.

limey · 05-26-2011, 04:25 PM

Shit UT and Big V, that's truly horrible

Pete Zicato · 05-26-2011, 04:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Undertoad

I'm going to lose the house to foreclosure.

Talk to your lender. Everything I've read says the lender does not want to take back a home.

classicman · 05-26-2011, 04:43 PM

damn - the shit just keeps piling up for dwellars.

Wishing each of you the best

Undertoad · 05-26-2011, 05:08 PM

Well I got the mower started.

Nirvana · 05-26-2011, 05:21 PM

Misery, Misery go away
The Cellarites don't want to play!

BigV · 05-26-2011, 07:48 PM

Hey Nirvana, thanks and all. But I'd just as soon see your name on the happy today thread, ok?

Undertoad · 05-26-2011, 07:50 PM

J gave me Advil for the headache and it worked.

Aliantha · 05-26-2011, 08:01 PM

Shouldn't that be in the happy thread UT?

I'm really sorry about your house. Is there nothing you can do?

Undertoad · 05-26-2011, 08:25 PM

There are options but you have fewer options when you have no identifiable income (a starter business is a bad idea if you want to keep a mortgage), I don't know what will really go down at this point. I've been in this situation for a long time now and I'm so dead tired of panic, despair, money arguments, etc. It's been a long hard slog and not at all worth it. This is just a goddamn house and I should have gotten rid of it after the divorce.

05-26-2011, 12:25 PM	#6781
BigV Goon Squad Leader Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Seattle Posts: 27,063	augh... so sorry Nirvana. I sincerely hope the obstruction is removed and he's healthy soon. __________________ Be Just and Fear Not.

05-26-2011, 12:39 PM	#6782
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	Mum. As usual. No idea what this shit-fit is about. She came up to get a book - which is hindsight is not a good thing as it means she isn't watching TV. It might be that Dad is watching something she isn't interested in, which is very selfish of him. But she seemed fine - I asked her about an email I sent her and she replied with interest. Then there was slap bang wallop downstairs, slamming doors. I heard Dad say, "I'll do it! I do it after [inaudible]" Mum, "I'LL DO IT! Like I do everything in this fucking place! Funny how I am the only person who noticed it! Everyone else walking right past it!" I haven't ignored anything that needed doing. It might be something along the lines of catsick or poo? No - Dad would never suggest a delay on that. So I'm baffled. Just staying out of it, even if I have been implicated. It doesn't seem to have reached storm out proportions. But another wrong word from Dad might get her there. I certainly expect her to come upstairs and shut herself in their room to "read". AKA stew and brood. Oh - just remembered they are house-sitting as of tomorrow. So she can't go off to punish Dad - she'd never let the clients down that way. Wow - no wonder she's fuming. __________________ Life's hard you know, so strike a pose on a Cadillac

05-26-2011, 03:23 PM	#6783
morethanpretty Thats "Miss Zipper Neck" to you. Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: little town (but not the littlest) in texas Posts: 2,957	Good luck Suede! __________________ Addicts may suck dick for coke, but love came up with the idea to put a dick in there to begin with. -Jack O'Brien

05-26-2011, 03:56 PM	#6785
BigV Goon Squad Leader Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Seattle Posts: 27,063	fucking forclosure. my current boogeyman. aaauuuugh. __________________ Be Just and Fear Not.

05-26-2011, 04:09 PM	#6786
Clodfobble UNDER CONDITIONAL MITIGATION Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 20,012	The word foreclosure is very scary. I'm sorry to hear that more than one person here is facing it. __________________ My book My other book My spirit animal

05-26-2011, 03:34 PM	#6784
Undertoad Radical Centrist Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Cottage of Prussia Posts: 31,423	The air conditioning doesn't work. The mower I bought used doesn't start and the grass is 8" tall. I'm going to lose the house to foreclosure. And I have a bad headache.

05-26-2011, 04:25 PM	#6787
limey Encroaching on your decrees Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: An island within the south-west coast of Scotland Posts: 7,016	Shit UT and Big V, that's truly horrible __________________ Living it up on the edge ... of civilisation, within the southwest coast of

05-26-2011, 04:43 PM	#6789
classicman barely disguised asshole, keeper of all that is holy. Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 23,401	damn - the shit just keeps piling up for dwellars. Wishing each of you the best __________________ "like strapping a pillow on a bull in a china shop" Bullitt

05-26-2011, 05:08 PM	#6790
Undertoad Radical Centrist Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Cottage of Prussia Posts: 31,423	Well I got the mower started.

05-26-2011, 05:21 PM	#6791
Nirvana Back in 10 Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 3,684	Misery, Misery go away The Cellarites don't want to play! __________________ Speaking simply... do not confuse this with having a simple mind.

05-26-2011, 07:48 PM	#6792
BigV Goon Squad Leader Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Seattle Posts: 27,063	Hey Nirvana, thanks and all. But I'd just as soon see your name on the happy today thread, ok? __________________ Be Just and Fear Not.

05-26-2011, 07:50 PM	#6793
Undertoad Radical Centrist Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Cottage of Prussia Posts: 31,423	J gave me Advil for the headache and it worked.

05-26-2011, 08:01 PM	#6794
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	Shouldn't that be in the happy thread UT? I'm really sorry about your house. Is there nothing you can do? __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

05-26-2011, 08:25 PM	#6795
Undertoad Radical Centrist Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Cottage of Prussia Posts: 31,423	There are options but you have fewer options when you have no identifiable income (a starter business is a bad idea if you want to keep a mortgage), I don't know what will really go down at this point. I've been in this situation for a long time now and I'm so dead tired of panic, despair, money arguments, etc. It's been a long hard slog and not at all worth it. This is just a goddamn house and I should have gotten rid of it after the divorce.

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