Kinky? Dom/sub??

MsSparkie · 08-06-2006, 06:22 PM

Anyone into BDSM?

I am a sub, but a damned fiesty one. I would like a real Lord and Master to subdue me and amuse himself with me......

But when I try with guys I know, they always chicken out cuz they don't want to hurt me.

I guess that is a good thing.

I like this site with the following categories:
http://www.meninpain.com/sample.php

men in pain
hogtied
fuckingmachines
waterbondage

whippedass
ultimatesurrender
wiredpussy

free-hardcore
sexandsubmission
behindkink

There a millions of pictures there, and at the end of each mini series is a happy couple smiling together.

That that is way cool.....

Heat it up white hot and then when it's done, love and closeness and friendship and happiness.

However, I have only ever explored this side of me once or twice and choose to live without it entirely when involved with someone who is not into it. I ask and if not I let it go.

I imagine what it would be like to meet a like minded person. Set up a special room for this in the house. It stops outside that room, or perhaps it does get extended to some degree in everyday life.

Ibby · 08-06-2006, 07:19 PM

Uh...

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*backs away slowly*

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*turns and bolts*

DucksNuts · 08-06-2006, 07:33 PM

I've come up against the "noooo, I'll hurt you" before...halloooo, thats the point!!

I couldnt be bothered with all the preparation that has to go into alot of that stuff.

My ex said my problem is that I look all cute n sweet, so no one would ever wanna do bad things to me

MsSparkie · 08-06-2006, 08:54 PM

You see in online personal ads by men all the time: wanted: a lady during the day and a slut at night. But we have our desires too. A gentleman in the day and a Master at night. Not every night....sweet romance is just as desirable. But when we want the focused intensity, we want it!

So many guys are pussies about that.

At least once or twice a month? Is that too much to ask?

DucksNuts · 08-06-2006, 11:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MsSparkie

You see in online personal ads by men all the time: wanted: a lady during the day and a slut at night.

Uhuh, Princess on the Street....Freak in the sheets.

yesman065 · 08-07-2006, 07:57 AM

Well my girl and I got into spanking a little while ago, and now she pushes me to pull her hair, put my hands on her neck, hold her down, just be very forceful woth her. I am NOT used to this at all, yet find it very arousing! I am always conciouss of crossing whatever line there is though and that worries me. I would absolutely not want to hurt her or do something she didn't like or want. We aren't all "pussies" some of us just care.

Iggy · 08-12-2006, 01:32 PM

Me and my SO get kinda kinky, and whenever I want him to get rough he does. Sometimes it is actually a little too much, but he can tell when I start to feel the unhappy pain and eases up on it. But we both love it when he pulls my hair and spanking is fun from time to time. I have outfits I wear too, and he will tie my up in them. All of it is great fun! I am sure if I wanted to get really rough, he would oblige me.

We just talk about what we want, and both of us are willing to try anything at least once.

Trilby · 08-12-2006, 07:15 PM

My safety word: Banana.

Kidding.

Anyway, ever since I read about those women who answered that guy who advertised for Slaves to his Master and then wound up in oil barrels buried on his property...I've lost interest. I think he even TOLD those women he would kill them...so...whaddya gonna do? I mean, he TOLD them!

What's really weird is the absolute most dom man I have ever met was my last bf--62 years old, 5'6" and all of 140 pounds. Truly, truly weird.

MsSparkie · 08-12-2006, 07:24 PM

At least if you got out of hand, you could take him! LOL

9th Engineer · 08-12-2006, 08:50 PM

Problem is it's so damn dangerous for a guy to get involved in that kind of stuff, it literally comes down to asking for a waver (not kidding, wouldn't touch it without one). Nobody might be looking for trouble in the beginning, but if something goes sour it can be twisted. Or you could get taken to the cleaners like a guy who graduated in the same med class as my parents. The guy was into SM and met a woman who said she wanted to play around. Three months later she brings home movies and pictures of bruises into the DA and cleans him out plus gets his licence revoked.

Moral: People are sick, don't trust anyone without a deposit.

MsSparkie · 08-12-2006, 09:23 PM

I was involved with a BDSM online group, never met in person. (They had Gorean rooms which I was banned from for not obeying the Lords, LOL). One "Master" wanted to send me a plane ticket, for me to go down to one of the southern states, into his barn, where he had his "workbench" set up....and be tied up for a week...etc etc.....

Another in CA talked about "suffocating" me with a plastic bag until I passed out but not die....and raping me with a sharp knife..........

Needless to say that freaked me out and was insane, and I really don't believe they were serious, but they may have been.

My one big weekend in real life in Syracuse NY involved rope, dripping candles, some other tame things......it was a bit disappointing....LOL

I don't want it too extremely violent, or too lame.

Like Goldilocks, I'd like it just right.

LOL

MsSparkie · 08-12-2006, 09:27 PM

And it's about "mind games" really.....

Spexxvet · 08-16-2006, 12:38 PM

You bitches better shut the fuck up before I kick your asses! I'll rip your Goddamn clothes off and use them to tie you face down to the bed, and have at you in every hole, without any lube! I'll spank you with a fish, while I'm doing you, and yank your hair out by the roots! I'll pinch you on the backs of your arms, and then I'll drip honey on you and let the ants go to town. Just kidding.

Actually, I'm a tender, gentle lover - it would be hard for me to include pain in love-making. I also agree that leaving marks is asking to be prosecuted/sued. Sorry, Ladies.

MaggieL · 08-16-2006, 01:53 PM

"Spank you with a fish"? Ew. And not effective, either.

MaggieL · 08-16-2006, 01:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MsSparkie

(They had Gorean rooms which I was banned from for not obeying the Lords, LOL).

Nobody likes an uppity slave. Nadu, Sparkie!

08-06-2006, 06:22 PM	#1
MsSparkie Curious Sagittarius Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Toronto, Canada Posts: 302	Kinky? Dom/sub?? Anyone into BDSM? I am a sub, but a damned fiesty one. I would like a real Lord and Master to subdue me and amuse himself with me...... But when I try with guys I know, they always chicken out cuz they don't want to hurt me. I guess that is a good thing. I like this site with the following categories: http://www.meninpain.com/sample.php men in pain hogtied fuckingmachines waterbondage whippedass ultimatesurrender wiredpussy free-hardcore sexandsubmission behindkink There a millions of pictures there, and at the end of each mini series is a happy couple smiling together. That that is way cool..... Heat it up white hot and then when it's done, love and closeness and friendship and happiness. However, I have only ever explored this side of me once or twice and choose to live without it entirely when involved with someone who is not into it. I ask and if not I let it go. I imagine what it would be like to meet a like minded person. Set up a special room for this in the house. It stops outside that room, or perhaps it does get extended to some degree in everyday life. __________________ ~There is a forest in an acorn......

08-06-2006, 07:19 PM	#2
Ibby erika Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: "the high up north" Posts: 6,127	Uh... ... ... backs away slowly ... ... ... turns and bolts __________________ not really back, you didn't see me, i was never here shhhhhh

08-06-2006, 08:54 PM	#4
MsSparkie Curious Sagittarius Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Toronto, Canada Posts: 302	You see in online personal ads by men all the time: wanted: a lady during the day and a slut at night. But we have our desires too. A gentleman in the day and a Master at night. Not every night....sweet romance is just as desirable. But when we want the focused intensity, we want it! So many guys are pussies about that. At least once or twice a month? Is that too much to ask? __________________ ~There is a forest in an acorn......

08-12-2006, 01:32 PM	#7
Iggy Back and ready to tart up the place Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Kansas Posts: 850	Me and my SO get kinda kinky, and whenever I want him to get rough he does. Sometimes it is actually a little too much, but he can tell when I start to feel the unhappy pain and eases up on it. But we both love it when he pulls my hair and spanking is fun from time to time. I have outfits I wear too, and he will tie my up in them. All of it is great fun! I am sure if I wanted to get really rough, he would oblige me. We just talk about what we want, and both of us are willing to try anything at least once. __________________ Chock-full of naughty goodness.

08-12-2006, 07:15 PM	#8
Trilby Slattern of the Swail Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 15,654	My safety word: Banana. Kidding. Anyway, ever since I read about those women who answered that guy who advertised for Slaves to his Master and then wound up in oil barrels buried on his property...I've lost interest. I think he even TOLD those women he would kill them...so...whaddya gonna do? I mean, he TOLD them! What's really weird is the absolute most dom man I have ever met was my last bf--62 years old, 5'6" and all of 140 pounds. Truly, truly weird. __________________ In Barrie's play and novel, the roles of fairies are brief: they are allies to the Lost Boys, the source of fairy dust and ...They are portrayed as dangerous, whimsical and extremely clever but quite hedonistic. "Shall I give you a kiss?" Peter asked and, jerking an acorn button off his coat, solemnly presented it to her. —James Barrie Wimminfolk they be tricksy. - ZenGum

08-06-2006, 07:33 PM	#3
DucksNuts Bitchy Little Brat Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Queensland, Australia Posts: 5,067	I've come up against the "noooo, I'll hurt you" before...halloooo, thats the point!! I couldnt be bothered with all the preparation that has to go into alot of that stuff. My ex said my problem is that I look all cute n sweet, so no one would ever wanna do bad things to me

08-07-2006, 07:57 AM	#6
yesman065 Banned - Self Imposed Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 1,847	Well my girl and I got into spanking a little while ago, and now she pushes me to pull her hair, put my hands on her neck, hold her down, just be very forceful woth her. I am NOT used to this at all, yet find it very arousing! I am always conciouss of crossing whatever line there is though and that worries me. I would absolutely not want to hurt her or do something she didn't like or want. We aren't all "pussies" some of us just care.

08-12-2006, 07:24 PM	#9
MsSparkie Curious Sagittarius Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Toronto, Canada Posts: 302	At least if you got out of hand, you could take him! LOL __________________ ~There is a forest in an acorn......

08-12-2006, 08:50 PM	#10
9th Engineer Bioengineer and aspiring lawer Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Pittsburgh Posts: 872	Problem is it's so damn dangerous for a guy to get involved in that kind of stuff, it literally comes down to asking for a waver (not kidding, wouldn't touch it without one). Nobody might be looking for trouble in the beginning, but if something goes sour it can be twisted. Or you could get taken to the cleaners like a guy who graduated in the same med class as my parents. The guy was into SM and met a woman who said she wanted to play around. Three months later she brings home movies and pictures of bruises into the DA and cleans him out plus gets his licence revoked. Moral: People are sick, don't trust anyone without a deposit. __________________ The most valuable renewable resource is stupidity.

08-12-2006, 09:23 PM	#11
MsSparkie Curious Sagittarius Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Toronto, Canada Posts: 302	I was involved with a BDSM online group, never met in person. (They had Gorean rooms which I was banned from for not obeying the Lords, LOL). One "Master" wanted to send me a plane ticket, for me to go down to one of the southern states, into his barn, where he had his "workbench" set up....and be tied up for a week...etc etc..... Another in CA talked about "suffocating" me with a plastic bag until I passed out but not die....and raping me with a sharp knife.......... Needless to say that freaked me out and was insane, and I really don't believe they were serious, but they may have been. My one big weekend in real life in Syracuse NY involved rope, dripping candles, some other tame things......it was a bit disappointing....LOL I don't want it too extremely violent, or too lame. Like Goldilocks, I'd like it just right. LOL __________________ ~There is a forest in an acorn......

08-12-2006, 09:27 PM	#12
MsSparkie Curious Sagittarius Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Toronto, Canada Posts: 302	And it's about "mind games" really..... __________________ ~There is a forest in an acorn......

08-16-2006, 12:38 PM	#13
Spexxvet Makes some feel uncomfortable Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 10,346	You bitches better shut the fuck up before I kick your asses! I'll rip your Goddamn clothes off and use them to tie you face down to the bed, and have at you in every hole, without any lube! I'll spank you with a fish, while I'm doing you, and yank your hair out by the roots! I'll pinch you on the backs of your arms, and then I'll drip honey on you and let the ants go to town. Just kidding. Actually, I'm a tender, gentle lover - it would be hard for me to include pain in love-making. I also agree that leaving marks is asking to be prosecuted/sued. Sorry, Ladies. __________________ "I'm certainly free, nay compelled, to spread the gospel of Spex. " - xoxoxoBruce

08-16-2006, 01:53 PM	#14
MaggieL in the Hour of Scampering Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Jeffersonville PA (15 mi NW of Philadelphia) Posts: 4,060	"Spank you with a fish"? Ew. And not effective, either. __________________ "Neither can his Mind be thought to be in Tune,whose words do jarre; nor his reason In frame, whose sentence is preposterous..."

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