You've got 1 thing...
 

to change about you're partner. What would it be?

I would only increase the amount of time I get to spend with him.

Decrease her hearing - that way hopefully she won't hear 1/2 the stupid shit that comes outta my mouth :D.

Or maybe increase her patience to deal with the dumb shit I do.

Tough question. All changes would bring on unintended consequences.

Come on Merc, I can think of at least two changes you've made already. How did that work out?

I'd change how often she actually keeps her promises, i suppose.

What would those be?

I wish he was better at balancing the check book. His #s and the banks #s never match.

I would like to spend more time with him, but that's not about changing him. That's wishing we didn't have to work.

I would change the fact that i don't HAVE a partner anymore.

I believe he is referring to her boobies. ;)

we both would be better off without her arthritis.

no biting!

uh . . . did I mention my only "partner" is of the feline variety?

Well if that is the case I didn't do that for me, I did that for her, and that would be a single event. Those are hers not mine.

I've been hard at work making changes for a few years now. I still have a long way to go before he's perfect though. :D

I'd change the fact that he needed to have a partial thyroidectomy a couple of years ago. That was scary shit.

I would definitely see to it that he NEVER put dirty dishes in the dishrack with the clean dishes ever again. The man has no concept of separation.

I can't find another place to put this, so this is closer to the right place than making a whole new thread.

When I first saw this thread my answer was, not a thing, but now...I am getting annoyed by the same issue over and over again...


Why? Why do I have to remind my husband, like today, that it isn't my responsibility to do all the cooking and cleaning? That I do this out of love and care rather than obligation? I had to put a delicate stop to my husband today, as he was trying to define my schedule, again.

What's with the forgetting that I am in no way obligated to do all the domestic activities?

Ummm,errr...What am I supposed to be doing for you right now?!? wtf are you talking about?!?

When he gave me 2 options that I could decide between to do for him, before he gets home, well, I can't say that went over well... I'm the woman so I am going to do everything you want me to do before you get home? Is that ever reciprocated? No? Then are you out of your mind?!? Do I call you and ask what the hell you have done for me today?!? Would I bother asking such a question knowing the answer would be most likely, not a thing (didn't even think about it quite frankly)?

Well if this continues, I will have to start determineing his schedule for him....
:)

I wonder who told him that I am his servant? He isn't a religious man, so I know, he does not even get to have that excuse.......And he takes it well when I remind him that it is not my duty in any way to make him dinner and clean the whole house for him, but what's with the forgetting of the essentials? Spoiled. Spoiled brat!!

Arrrgh!

The dishwasher is breaking. har-de-har!!
:)

Radar did it.