Sexual history doesn't matter? Who would marry a porn star?

10-15-2006, 05:21 PM

Now I know the tough guys and smart mouths will jump on this topic to say something childish and ignorant, but after they get that off there flat chests and school boy snickering lets see some real digging here.

Would you marry and look at a porn star as a future wife and mother of your children?

My point is if you knew what a women’s sexual history is you would definitely consider it in judging them. That’s just being honest. You make your own compromises at that point.

A porn star example is just taking the issue to its extreme, yet is just as insightful to the question. You see, it’s not a difference in KIND, but in DEGREE! It’s about what you could know and what that knowledge would mean to you.

If a women’s sexual history means nothing yet you would never marry a porn star or see them as a prospect for having and raising YOUR children then it’s really a matter of honesty. Your honesty with yourself, and a women’s honesty with you about her life and the choices she has made.

Ignorance maybe bliss but people really don't change. As the old saying goes, the more things change the more things stay the same. What really changes is opportunities. When your young you have greater opportunities than when you get older.

Age is NOT an excuse.

It’s about character.

Flint · 10-15-2006, 06:46 PM

A former porn star has a questionable employment history.

lumberjim · 10-15-2006, 06:56 PM

so your contention....to take it to the extreme, as you did.....is that the only suitable spouse is a virgin?

I'm sorry, but you are beginning seem like a tool

Aliantha · 10-15-2006, 07:19 PM

What a waste of time reading this thread. He's not content to pollute other threads with his drivel. Now he's got to start them for himself...TO ARGUE THE SAME POINT!!!

10-15-2006, 08:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Aliantha

What a waste of time reading this thread. He's not content to pollute other threads with his drivel. Now he's got to start them for himself...TO ARGUE THE SAME POINT!!!

Seems to me the issue was never resloved. Is it your opinion that because you says it is then it so.

I am only apply a different perspective to the question same question posed in a diffent string.

10-15-2006, 08:59 PM

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Originally Posted by lumberjim

so your contention....to take it to the extreme, as you did.....is that the only suitable spouse is a virgin?

I'm sorry, but you are beginning seem like a tool

No never said that nor is that the issue.

The issue is a womens sexual history and if men used it to judge women.

Get it?

bluecuracao · 10-15-2006, 09:16 PM

Maybe you're not aware--there ARE married porn stars, both active and retired.

Aliantha · 10-15-2006, 09:18 PM

So why not resolve your point in the other threads? My point is, why start another thread to argue THE SAME POINT?

Undertoad · 10-15-2006, 09:18 PM

I would marry a porn star. The main requirement would be that I loved her and she loved me.

The heart wants what it wants.

Aliantha · 10-15-2006, 09:22 PM

I sometimes wish my husband was a porn star. I like to watch.

lumberjim · 10-15-2006, 09:24 PM

as in, you'd like to watch your husband bang other chicks? hawt

bluecuracao · 10-15-2006, 09:28 PM

If your husband's attractive, I wish he was too--there are too many ugly guys in porn.

footfootfoot · 10-15-2006, 10:29 PM

Sure I'd marry a porn star if it was true love.

And what is the difference between herpes and true love?

Herpes is forever!

Aliantha · 10-15-2006, 10:31 PM

lumber...you know how it is. A little voyeurism never hurt anyone.

Secret mirrors and stuff. Besides, I know he's devoted to me. To be honest though, I don't think he'd ever want to have sex with another woman, although he might if I asked him to. lol

DucksNuts · 10-15-2006, 11:50 PM

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Originally Posted by bmwmcaw

Seems to me the issue was never resloved. Is it your opinion that because you says it is then it so.

I am only apply a different perspective to the question same question posed in a diffent string.

The thing you seem to be missing, is that the *issue* will never be resolved.

There's nothing to resolve because there is no wrong or right answer...there are just personal opinions and beliefs.

If you are waiting for everyone to come in and go ..."gee bmw, I see where you are coming from, I'm going to make sure I get the full sexual history of my perspective girlfriends/boyfriends from now on and judge them accordingly"....I think you should pack up your bat n ball and call it a day.

I asked the question because my circle of friends are very open minded and we are very like minded. At times I wonder whether we live in our own little world and if we are that far from the *norm* that I have lost touch with the mainstream goings on.

10-15-2006, 05:21 PM	#1
bmwmcaw Guest Posts: n/a	Sexual history doesn't matter? Who would marry a porn star? Now I know the tough guys and smart mouths will jump on this topic to say something childish and ignorant, but after they get that off there flat chests and school boy snickering lets see some real digging here. Would you marry and look at a porn star as a future wife and mother of your children? My point is if you knew what a women’s sexual history is you would definitely consider it in judging them. That’s just being honest. You make your own compromises at that point. A porn star example is just taking the issue to its extreme, yet is just as insightful to the question. You see, it’s not a difference in KIND, but in DEGREE! It’s about what you could know and what that knowledge would mean to you. If a women’s sexual history means nothing yet you would never marry a porn star or see them as a prospect for having and raising YOUR children then it’s really a matter of honesty. Your honesty with yourself, and a women’s honesty with you about her life and the choices she has made. Ignorance maybe bliss but people really don't change. As the old saying goes, the more things change the more things stay the same. What really changes is opportunities. When your young you have greater opportunities than when you get older. Age is NOT an excuse. It’s about character.

10-15-2006, 06:46 PM	#2
Flint Snowflake Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Dystopia Posts: 13,136	A former porn star has a questionable employment history. __________________ **************** There's a level of facility that everyone needs to accomplish, and from there it's a matter of deciding for yourself how important ultra-facility is to your expression. ... I found, like Joseph Campbell said, if you just follow whatever gives you a little joy or excitement or awe, then you're on the right track. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Terry Bozzio**

10-15-2006, 06:56 PM	#3
lumberjim I can hear my ears Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 25,571	so your contention....to take it to the extreme, as you did.....is that the only suitable spouse is a virgin? I'm sorry, but you are beginning seem like a tool __________________ This body holding me reminds me of my own mortality Embrace this moment, remember We are eternal, all this pain is an illusion ~MJKeenan

10-15-2006, 07:19 PM	#4
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	What a waste of time reading this thread. He's not content to pollute other threads with his drivel. Now he's got to start them for himself...TO ARGUE THE SAME POINT!!! __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

10-15-2006, 09:18 PM	#8
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	So why not resolve your point in the other threads? My point is, why start another thread to argue THE SAME POINT? __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

10-15-2006, 09:16 PM	#7
bluecuracao in a mood, not cupcake Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Philadelphia Posts: 3,034	Maybe you're not aware--there ARE married porn stars, both active and retired.

10-15-2006, 09:18 PM	#9
Undertoad Radical Centrist Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Cottage of Prussia Posts: 31,423	I would marry a porn star. The main requirement would be that I loved her and she loved me. The heart wants what it wants.

10-15-2006, 09:22 PM	#10
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	I sometimes wish my husband was a porn star. I like to watch. __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

10-15-2006, 09:24 PM	#11
lumberjim I can hear my ears Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 25,571	as in, you'd like to watch your husband bang other chicks? hawt __________________ This body holding me reminds me of my own mortality Embrace this moment, remember We are eternal, all this pain is an illusion ~MJKeenan

10-15-2006, 09:28 PM	#12
bluecuracao in a mood, not cupcake Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Philadelphia Posts: 3,034	If your husband's attractive, I wish he was too--there are too many ugly guys in porn.

10-15-2006, 10:29 PM	#13
footfootfoot To shreds, you say? Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: in the house and on the street-how many, many feet we meet! Posts: 18,449	Sure I'd marry a porn star if it was true love. And what is the difference between herpes and true love? Herpes is forever! __________________ The internet is a hateful stew of vomit you can never take completely seriously. - Her Fobs

10-15-2006, 10:31 PM	#14
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	lumber...you know how it is. A little voyeurism never hurt anyone. Secret mirrors and stuff. Besides, I know he's devoted to me. To be honest though, I don't think he'd ever want to have sex with another woman, although he might if I asked him to. lol __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

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