Props to Ali

Griff · 11-18-2011, 05:48 AM

I think its cool that you let Mav look/post on "your" board. It means you are keeping it real, which is a top value around here.

Aliantha · 11-18-2011, 06:06 AM

Gee Griff. It's really nice of you to say that, and I appreciate that you took the time to say so. I kinda feel like a fraud accepting the compliment though, cause I've always just tried to be honest with you all, and the kids.

I think Mav is old enough to manage around here if he keeps himself lovely, and there's nothing I'd say here that I'd be concerned about my family knowing. The older boys know pretty much all there is to know, and certainly everything I've ever posted about my personal life on here.

We keep things pretty open here at home. So far it's working pretty well for us and the teenage years seem to be skipping along fairly well. We have our issues from time to time, but mostly, these two older boys make us very proud. None of us are perfect, but we're doing our best.

I think when I made the decision to just be honest about my past and my feelings with the boys, it was the best day of my life. I thought about trying to appear faultless like my parents did and like many others I know do, but honestly, as a teenager, I knew my own parents were full of shit, and I don't expect my boys to swallow any romantic pictures I might try to paint of myself. I figure that if I did something, there was a reason for it, and there's no point hiding it. I can honestly tell them if I feel it turned out well or badly, and try and advise them, but in the end, they'll have to make their own choices.

Anyway, that turned into a ramble, but I guess I just wanted to let you and others know why I think it's ok for Mav to be here. There were a number of people who expressed concern about it knowing some of the things I've posted about on here, so I hope this clears any of those concerns up.

I really do appreciate that concern though. It's why I think this place is important to me. I don't have to have a persona. I can just be me, and sometimes I piss people off, but mostly they seem to get over it. I try my best. I think I'm a different person now than I was when I first joined this site though.

Again, thanks Griff. It means a lot to me coming from you. I hold you in high regard.

jimhelm · 11-18-2011, 08:20 AM

I heard that

Sundae · 11-18-2011, 09:01 AM

Props to Griff too then.
I was a lovely thing to say.

Ali, in all my dealings with you, you've always come across as honest.
Even when you were being a whiny bitch.

(that was meant as a joke)

classicman · 11-18-2011, 11:33 AM

what they said. Ali, I think I was one who expressed concerns, but your post pretty much alleviated them -
obliterated would probably be more accurate.

And Griff - that was a very nice thing to do.

Sheldonrs · 11-19-2011, 05:23 PM

I guess I'm the only one here who thinks it's a bad idea to let a 14 year old loose where I might have a bad influence on him. LOL!

Aliantha · 11-19-2011, 05:26 PM

I'm not worried about you sheldon. lol I know you're a good bloke. A bit of good natured teasing never hurt anyone.

ZenGum · 11-19-2011, 05:43 PM

I thought it was good of Ali to go to Frazier's funeral, too.

Aliantha · 11-19-2011, 05:49 PM

Zen, are you trying to tell me this isn't all about ME??!!!

11-18-2011, 05:48 AM	#1
Griff still says videotape Join Date: Feb 2001 Posts: 26,813	Props to Ali I think its cool that you let Mav look/post on "your" board. It means you are keeping it real, which is a top value around here. __________________ If you would only recognize that life is hard, things would be so much easier for you. - Louis D. Brandeis

11-18-2011, 06:06 AM	#2
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	Gee Griff. It's really nice of you to say that, and I appreciate that you took the time to say so. I kinda feel like a fraud accepting the compliment though, cause I've always just tried to be honest with you all, and the kids. I think Mav is old enough to manage around here if he keeps himself lovely, and there's nothing I'd say here that I'd be concerned about my family knowing. The older boys know pretty much all there is to know, and certainly everything I've ever posted about my personal life on here. We keep things pretty open here at home. So far it's working pretty well for us and the teenage years seem to be skipping along fairly well. We have our issues from time to time, but mostly, these two older boys make us very proud. None of us are perfect, but we're doing our best. I think when I made the decision to just be honest about my past and my feelings with the boys, it was the best day of my life. I thought about trying to appear faultless like my parents did and like many others I know do, but honestly, as a teenager, I knew my own parents were full of shit, and I don't expect my boys to swallow any romantic pictures I might try to paint of myself. I figure that if I did something, there was a reason for it, and there's no point hiding it. I can honestly tell them if I feel it turned out well or badly, and try and advise them, but in the end, they'll have to make their own choices. Anyway, that turned into a ramble, but I guess I just wanted to let you and others know why I think it's ok for Mav to be here. There were a number of people who expressed concern about it knowing some of the things I've posted about on here, so I hope this clears any of those concerns up. I really do appreciate that concern though. It's why I think this place is important to me. I don't have to have a persona. I can just be me, and sometimes I piss people off, but mostly they seem to get over it. I try my best. I think I'm a different person now than I was when I first joined this site though. Again, thanks Griff. It means a lot to me coming from you. I hold you in high regard. __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

11-18-2011, 08:20 AM	#3
jimhelm a beautiful fool Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: 39.939705 Posts: 4,504	I heard that __________________ There's a Shadow just behind me. Shrouding every step I take. Making every promise empty, pointing every finger at me. _tool

11-18-2011, 09:01 AM	#4
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	Props to Griff too then. I was a lovely thing to say. Ali, in all my dealings with you, you've always come across as honest. Even when you were being a whiny bitch. (that was meant as a joke) __________________ Life's hard you know, so strike a pose on a Cadillac

11-18-2011, 11:33 AM	#5
classicman barely disguised asshole, keeper of all that is holy. Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 23,401	what they said. Ali, I think I was one who expressed concerns, but your post pretty much alleviated them - obliterated would probably be more accurate. And Griff - that was a very nice thing to do. __________________ "like strapping a pillow on a bull in a china shop" Bullitt

11-19-2011, 05:23 PM	#6
Sheldonrs Master Dwellar Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Los Angeles, CA Posts: 4,412	I guess I'm the only one here who thinks it's a bad idea to let a 14 year old loose where I might have a bad influence on him. LOL! __________________ Laugh and the world laughs with you; cry and the world laughs AT you.

11-19-2011, 05:26 PM	#7
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	I'm not worried about you sheldon. lol I know you're a good bloke. A bit of good natured teasing never hurt anyone. __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

11-19-2011, 05:43 PM	#8
ZenGum Doctor Wtf Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Badelaide, Baustralia Posts: 12,861	I thought it was good of Ali to go to Frazier's funeral, too. __________________ Shut up and hug. MoreThanPretty, Nov 5, 2008. Just because I'm nominally polite, does not make me a pussy. Sundae Girl.

11-19-2011, 05:49 PM	#9
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	Zen, are you trying to tell me this isn't all about ME??!!! __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

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