So, there's this girl I like............

[Sundae]

Originally Posted by yesman065

Sundae girl, to me nice refers to the way a man treats other people in general. That doesn't change the fact that I still treat other people with respect. I'm just not an asshole. Thats the distinction that I feel is important. Maybe I'm wrong, but there is a very large distinction between the two.

You are quite right, hence the "self proclaimed" part.

I'm talking about people who do little things for you that you don't want done, and assume this gives them a head start on your affections. They ACT rather than ARE nice. They totally miss what you find attractive in other people, part of which is the confidence to say Fuck You when it's necessary.

I've heard "Nice Guys" trashing their ex behind their back, dismissing other people on purely physical terms, whining about how much they spent on dating a woman etc etc etc.

Nice is as nice does. My best friend is probably the nicest man I know - and yes I would