Analyse this please.....

DucksNuts · 09-25-2006, 05:53 AM

I want to know if I am way off base with my thoughts on this scenario.

History...
*you* meet this guy through a mutual friend, but only via the phone. Seem to hit it off, so the friendship goes to text messaging, IM, email and phone calls. Hours every nite are spent on the phone, cute little emails are exchanged all day and the next step is meeting (this part has been going on for about 5 weeks). Theres always been this dirty/flirty type conversation happening.

Present...
*you* arrange to meet (the guys lives 2 hours away), so travel up to go out on the town for the nite. Said guy arrives at your hotel room and the pair of you are drinking and getting along well. Theres definite chemistry, he does the ole "tickle" move to get close (hey it works!!!) and theres the *accidental* brushing of body parts by both parties.

THEN - he complains about his contacts irritating his eyes, they look a bit sore...so thats a fair complaint. This goes on for 30 mins, and he says, "if I go home now and change them, I can be back in 30 mins". Cool.

Duhdoh!! He doesnt come back....txt messages, phone calls to follow....no response.

Fast forward 18hrs....you get a txt message.."I'm at the hospital, my friend has had a heart attack".

Fast forward 18hrs....email at work ..."spent most of the time at the hospital and helping my friends wife, I will be busy for awhile".

Fast forwrd 12hrs..you decide to call...."when I got home, there was a note under my door saying [name] had a heartattack, the phones had been out" (this is confirmed, the phones were out all over the city)..."I didnt get your txt messages because I ran out of credit on my phone".

Too many things dont add up.

If it was *me* in the reverse situation, I would of shifted hell n highwater to let the other person know I wasnt just leaving them there stood up.

I would of made an attempt in the last 2 days to contact the other person to let them know whats going on.

I would of been "sorry"ing my arse off.

Am I being to skeptical here???

09-25-2006, 05:53 AM	#1
DucksNuts Bitchy Little Brat Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Queensland, Australia Posts: 5,067	Analyse this please..... I want to know if I am way off base with my thoughts on this scenario. History... you meet this guy through a mutual friend, but only via the phone. Seem to hit it off, so the friendship goes to text messaging, IM, email and phone calls. Hours every nite are spent on the phone, cute little emails are exchanged all day and the next step is meeting (this part has been going on for about 5 weeks). Theres always been this dirty/flirty type conversation happening. Present... you arrange to meet (the guys lives 2 hours away), so travel up to go out on the town for the nite. Said guy arrives at your hotel room and the pair of you are drinking and getting along well. Theres definite chemistry, he does the ole "tickle" move to get close (hey it works!!!) and theres the accidental brushing of body parts by both parties. THEN - he complains about his contacts irritating his eyes, they look a bit sore...so thats a fair complaint. This goes on for 30 mins, and he says, "if I go home now and change them, I can be back in 30 mins". Cool. Duhdoh!! He doesnt come back....txt messages, phone calls to follow....no response. Fast forward 18hrs....you get a txt message.."I'm at the hospital, my friend has had a heart attack". Fast forward 18hrs....email at work ..."spent most of the time at the hospital and helping my friends wife, I will be busy for awhile". Fast forwrd 12hrs..you decide to call...."when I got home, there was a note under my door saying [name] had a heartattack, the phones had been out" (this is confirmed, the phones were out all over the city)..."I didnt get your txt messages because I ran out of credit on my phone". Too many things dont add up. If it was me in the reverse situation, I would of shifted hell n highwater to let the other person know I wasnt just leaving them there stood up. I would of made an attempt in the last 2 days to contact the other person to let them know whats going on. I would of been "sorry"ing my arse off. Am I being to skeptical here???

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