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Old 07-11-2007, 11:29 PM   #1
DucksNuts
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Weeeeeird Situation

This is really nothing to do with me, but I just feel weird being kinda involved in it....which is hypocritical, because...well........anyways.

Some history....

My first *real* boyfriend (we shall call him T) and I moved in together when we were both 18 (been going out since we were 17) and we used to share-farm a 500 cow dairy farm...we were together for 6 years.

I left him because he got really controlling and possessive/jealous.

Anyways, he hooked up with a girl (we shall call her K) two weeks after I left and they have been together since, married, have 3 little kids etc etc. He's quite a successful businessman (they own a couple of farms, a nite club and a little crafty shop that K runs).

K and I actually get along quite well, and have been acquaintances (we run in the same social circles) for many years. T and my boss are best mates (my boss, his first wife, T and I used to hang out socially heaps back in the day). T and I are civil, but not really friends. He's arrogant and his pride was wounded when I left him.

Sooooo, here I sit, doing a finance application for T on a little sports car that I know is for his mistress, who works for him at the club.

She's here too. I know they were sprung in a *comprising* position (read: her bent over the desk) by the mistress' little sister (who happens to be our female apprentice mechanic).

I ..just...feel...weird about the whole thing.

I dont like being involved in this one bit, but my boss told me to bite my tongue and do the deal.

So, that makes me wonder that if it were T & I still together and he was doing this for mistress and T...would it bother my boss at all?

Should it bother me?

Sorry...its a nothing post but I just had to get it out and its messing with me head a little.
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