Good night, Cellar

Nope. I would not murder to have my own back if that is what you are talking about.
LJ is in pain and tries to share it every chance he gets by trying to hurt others, it is his hobby, we have just all learned to ignore it. I am sorry, for my part, that it hurt you.
However, if you are going to paint the entire board with that brush, I think you should leave.
The majority of the members here are wonderful, compassionate, caring people.
You are overreacting, and that is your choice... LJ cannot make you feel anything.