Not owning up... and how to address the upset

[Pooka]

That is true. You are right. I should have just grabbed it the first time around and said something, but I didn't... I wanted to believe that perhaps she forgot and by simply asking for the fabric it would save her embarrassment and give her the opportunity to tell me privately that she had already used it. I’m normally pretty straight forward, but it hasn’t been received well at all by this individual historically… who is very passive aggressive…

My suspicions are that they are being used for the SIL... as her B-day is soon and they were working on the crazy quilt puzzle together when she was visiting last. Her only circle is the SIL… and it is highly likely… they made my life hell when I was pregnant with our first. However, these days we get along… or at least give the appearance that we get along. I never expected the lie to Flint. I hope I’m all wrong about this and just being a big bitch. I’d really like to have some trust. Your right about Flint too… but then he has 30 more years experience with them than I do…