Need some help

[bbro]

Originally Posted by Elspode

You speak rather casually about his incarcerated status, and not wanting to upset him while he is so lodged...almost as though this isn't really all that unusual? I guess what I'm getting at is this...should you really be worried about upsetting him? Perhaps someone *needs* to upset him so he'll figure out why he's in jail?

No, this is something that is very unusual for him, that is the main reason I don't want to upset him. If it was normal, I wouldn't worry really because I wouldn't be with him at that point.

The other things you asked are addressed in the previous post (posted same time). I don't know if he intentionally meant to be mean. Maybe that's why I am having trouble deciding if I should tell him or not.

I guess the other thing is the last time he started naming his priorities, we weren't in a very stable part of our relationship.