So, there's this girl I like............

I have been in a relationship, a good one, for a very long time.
People keep coming to me for advice... eventually it always comes down to one thing. They are attracted to dick-heads.
My advice is always the same, date people you are not attracted to, you will find one that is a diamond in the rough.
Date with your head, then fall in love with your heart, together you will get the shit in your pants right... there are videos, classes, books and a life-time to deal with that (the least important of the equation).
No one ever takes the advice, that they all agree is excellent.

The other thing is, when they are in a bad relationship, usually a cycle "what do I do?".
My answer, after hearing of all the fucked-up shit the other person has done to them, their friends, kids and family.
Leave them, change your locks & phone numbers. Do not answer the door or phone... wait for them to stop trying, move on. That is all.

They always say... "I CAN'T DO THAT!"

I hate the word can't.

I don't understand, if you are dating someone for some time, realize that this person is not "the one"... you are not in your teens... what are you doing?