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Originally Posted by Alluvial

The military makes it a point to be involved in the home lives of servicemen. Domestic troubles are taken seriously.

Exactly, and this situation should definitely be on their radar. If they aren't involved yet, they should be. A woman emptying your bank account and running off with your kid with another soldier, who is also married, is a big bad no-no behavior in the armed services.