What's the Best Question to ask on the First Date?

[xoxoxoBruce]

Originally Posted by BardoXV

As far as wasting time, sometimes just being with another person is enough. If your time is that valuable (to you) perhaps you shouldn't be wasting it dating in the first place.

Depends on what you are using dating for.
A means to get out of the house and/or a free meal/movie? I'd guess most people consider dating as part of the mate selection process. No reason not to discard that moonlight walks on the beach bullshit up front, to do it in the most efficient way you're comfortable with.

It reminds me of a conversation I had with someone about a hobby, and he stated that his time was too valuable to spend on certain activities. My thought was that your time is worth nothing unless someone is willing to pay you for it, and then only what they will pay, regardless how much you might ask.

That's where you're stone fucking wrong. His time is the most valuable thing he has, it makes diamonds and gold look shabby.