And now no-one wants to be my friend on here... - Page 2

BrianR · 04-19-2011, 12:01 PM

Because you're not the only Pam here, that's why. And no, it's NOT me. Not my style.

Pamela

Undertoad · 04-19-2011, 01:01 PM

Administrators and moderators can see your internet address, which leads back to a general location.

It was a little more specific than just "Queens" - it goes down to neighborhood level sometimes. But saying "Queens" limits you to being about 1 out of 2 million people, so I figured I wasn't giving anything away.

toranokaze · 04-19-2011, 01:08 PM

So Pamale are you still going to keep your same user name or change it?

pensive pam · 04-19-2011, 01:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Undertoad

Administrators and moderators can see your internet address, which leads back to a general location.

It was a little more specific than just "Queens" - it goes down to neighborhood level sometimes. But saying "Queens" limits you to being about 1 out of 2 million people, so I figured I wasn't giving anything away.

Thank you for your kind, and fast response. How you found out where I am is pretty much how I guessed...but I was not sure.

Many people have often doubted where I live, as I have posted on other sites about my epic failure of a life. I could never understand why people would always doubt why someone would lie about where they live. I do appreciate you clearing that up for the other posters here.

Somebody was even kind enough to post a song about 'Brooklyn/Queens.' I like that song very much!
I am feeling better today, and thank you for allowing me into
the community. I like it here very much...

Always - Pam

lookout123 · 04-19-2011, 01:13 PM

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Originally Posted by pensive pam

Many people have often doubted where I live, as I have posted on other sites about my epic failure of a life. I could never understand why people would always doubt why someone would lie about where they live. I do appreciate you clearing that up for the other posters here.

Quit posting on sites. Step away from the computer. Go outside. Introduce yourself to people, preferably in a less dramatic attention seeking manner than you do online. You may enjoy the results.

Nirvana · 04-19-2011, 01:14 PM

Pam you must be in your 50s I don't think any young person familiar as you are with how a forum functions would sign all their posts when its obvious who made the post.[look to the left you will see my name] I have never seen this on any forum except from a generation used to hand written letters. On some of the email lists I am on you can barely get a younger person to say who they are. Maybe this is just another odd quirk of yours.

pensive pam · 04-19-2011, 01:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Nirvana

Pam you must be in your 50s I don't think any young person familiar as you are with how a forum functions would sign all their posts when its obvious who made the post.[look to the left you will see my name] I have never seen this on any forum except from a generation used to hand written letters. On some of the email lists I am on you can barely get a younger person to say who they are. Maybe this is just another odd quirk of yours.

Please let me explain. I am very young. The reason I do it is to add a personal touch. I know when I post, people know it is me, but I just like to be polite and personal. Manners these days seem to be an outdated concept...especially where I live.

I see so much thoughtlessness in this world, that at times I just want to cry. People tell me that I am too soft for the city and I should move. But I will not. I will live here and die here. It's the way it has to be for me.

Anything else you wish to know, just let me know. I will not sign my name at the end of this - as per your request. Thanks.

pensive pam · 04-19-2011, 03:11 PM

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Originally Posted by BrianR

Because you're not the only Pam here, that's why. And no, it's NOT me. Not my style.

Pamela

Ok, now I am getting very confused by this new site. It looks like your name is BrianR. Yet you signed your post 'Pamela.' I do not
understand now. Who is the other Pam on here??? I have not
seen her. And then you say 'it's NOT me.' I do not understand.
Also why did you say 'Not my style.' ??? Very confused...

Pam

BrianR · 04-19-2011, 11:14 PM

You do not understand my post because I did not write it for you. I wrote it for Jim, who fully understands it.

Just so you can "get it" too, i have recently admitted to the good people here that I am a transsexual and that my chosen name is Pamela. UT has not changed my user name yet, probably because I have not yet formally asked him to do so. Your appearance here shortly after I dropped this bombshell was mistaken for my opening another account.

And Jim, you know my posting style after some three thousand posts!

Pamela

pensive pam · 04-19-2011, 11:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BrianR

You do not understand my post because I did not write it for you. I wrote it for Jim, who fully understands it.

Just so you can "get it" too, i have recently admitted to the good people here that I am a transsexual and that my chosen name is Pamela. UT has not changed my user name yet, probably because I have not yet formally asked him to do so. Your appearance here shortly after I dropped this bombshell was mistaken for my opening another account.

And Jim, you know my posting style after some three thousand posts!

Pamela

Ok, now I understand. I do not judge, and I admire you on your transformation. (I hope that is the correct word.) I am willing to be friends with anyone who will accept me...as I accept everyone who is polite and nice. I wish you the best!!! And I hope to see you here soon. Alway - Pam.

plthijinx · 04-19-2011, 11:25 PM

well said pam and i mean brianr. he/she is a friend of mine no matter what his sexual preference. you on the other hand are a troll. you did not and will not post a pic of who you are. so in so lightly words phuck off you attention grabbing whore.

pensive pam · 04-19-2011, 11:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by plthijinx

well said pam and i mean brianr. he/she is a friend of mine no matter what his sexual preference. you on the other hand are a troll. you did not and will not post a pic of who you are. so in so lightly words phuck off you attention grabbing whore.

What does posting a picture of me have to do with being a 'troll?' Is a picture going to prove otherwise??? I am simply me. Your words are hurtful to me. As far as attention?? I seem to be getting a lot here. I don't want that at all...

If you are ever in NY, I'd be happy to buy you lunch...

Pam.

ZenGum · 04-20-2011, 02:01 AM

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Originally Posted by pensive pam

.... attention?? I seem to be getting a lot here. I don't want that at all...

toranokaze · 04-20-2011, 03:38 AM

So are we a new troll or the nice side of Emma ?

Any one want to guess?

Trilby · 04-20-2011, 05:08 AM

It's emma.

she's a star.

04-19-2011, 12:01 PM	#16
BrianR Cleverly disguised as a responsible adult Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Dallas, TX Posts: 3,338	Because you're not the only Pam here, that's why. And no, it's NOT me. Not my style. Pamela __________________ Never be afraid to tell the world who you are. -- Anonymous

04-19-2011, 01:08 PM	#18
toranokaze I'm still a jerk Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Little Mexico Posts: 1,817	So Pamale are you still going to keep your same user name or change it? __________________ "Without deviation from the norm progress is not possible." - Frank Zappa It is the ignorance of ignorance that lead to the death of knowledge The Virgin Mary does not weep for her son, for he is in paradise. She weeps for the world , for we are in suffering.

04-19-2011, 01:14 PM	#21
Nirvana Back in 10 Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 3,684	Pam you must be in your 50s I don't think any young person familiar as you are with how a forum functions would sign all their posts when its obvious who made the post.[look to the left you will see my name] I have never seen this on any forum except from a generation used to hand written letters. On some of the email lists I am on you can barely get a younger person to say who they are. Maybe this is just another odd quirk of yours. __________________ Speaking simply... do not confuse this with having a simple mind.

04-19-2011, 11:14 PM	#24
BrianR Cleverly disguised as a responsible adult Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Dallas, TX Posts: 3,338	You do not understand my post because I did not write it for you. I wrote it for Jim, who fully understands it. Just so you can "get it" too, i have recently admitted to the good people here that I am a transsexual and that my chosen name is Pamela. UT has not changed my user name yet, probably because I have not yet formally asked him to do so. Your appearance here shortly after I dropped this bombshell was mistaken for my opening another account. And Jim, you know my posting style after some three thousand posts! Pamela __________________ Never be afraid to tell the world who you are. -- Anonymous

04-19-2011, 11:25 PM	#26
plthijinx Master Dwellar Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 4,197	well said pam and i mean brianr. he/she is a friend of mine no matter what his sexual preference. you on the other hand are a troll. you did not and will not post a pic of who you are. so in so lightly words phuck off you attention grabbing whore. __________________ For your dreams to come true, you must first have a dream.

04-19-2011, 01:01 PM	#17
Undertoad Radical Centrist Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Cottage of Prussia Posts: 31,423	Administrators and moderators can see your internet address, which leads back to a general location. It was a little more specific than just "Queens" - it goes down to neighborhood level sometimes. But saying "Queens" limits you to being about 1 out of 2 million people, so I figured I wasn't giving anything away.

04-20-2011, 03:38 AM	#29
toranokaze I'm still a jerk Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Little Mexico Posts: 1,817	So are we a new troll or the nice side of Emma ? Any one want to guess? __________________ "Without deviation from the norm progress is not possible." - Frank Zappa It is the ignorance of ignorance that lead to the death of knowledge The Virgin Mary does not weep for her son, for he is in paradise. She weeps for the world , for we are in suffering.

04-20-2011, 05:08 AM	#30
Trilby Slattern of the Swail Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 15,654	It's emma. she's a star. __________________ In Barrie's play and novel, the roles of fairies are brief: they are allies to the Lost Boys, the source of fairy dust and ...They are portrayed as dangerous, whimsical and extremely clever but quite hedonistic. "Shall I give you a kiss?" Peter asked and, jerking an acorn button off his coat, solemnly presented it to her. —James Barrie Wimminfolk they be tricksy. - ZenGum

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