Potential sub looking for guidance

[kaykatiekay]

Originally Posted by lookout123

So a newbie who happens to be jailbait pops up with their first post asking about dom/sub, states they won't post pictures, but wants to know about positions???

Ok I'm not sure I understand your post, but I'd like to try and answer anyway. As far as I am aware I'm not 'jailbait'. I'm 17 and in the UK (where I am from) this makes me legal. Nevertheless, I did clearly state in my post that I am not looking for a sexual relationship so that seems irrelevant. All I am looking for is someone to help me learn more about the lifestyle. I'm not sure what you find wrong with me refusing to give out nude pictures of myself or about my desire to know more about the lifestyle (i.e. positions)?

[jimhelm]

this is a platonic sub.

she just wants to be friends.

I'm curious at the motivation of this person. assuming, for now that they are legit.

K, was you father very dominant? did you lose him recently?

[kaykatiekay]

Originally Posted by jimhelm

this is a platonic sub.

she just wants to be friends.

I'm curious at the motivation of this person. assuming, for now that they are legit.

K, was you father very dominant? did you lose him recently?

Hi jimhelm Glad you understood my post Also, thanks for not immediately discrediting me as troll/attention-seeker/whatever

To be honest, I'm not really sure about my motivation it sort of feels like being submissive is something that has always been a part of me although it's not until I got older that I learnt what it meant. I've always been quite sensitive and caring for others etc. it just feels natural to me. As for my father, as far as I'm aware he's not a dominant and my parents are still together. In fact, they both have pretty strong personalities which can lead to a lot of heated arguments over little things. Sometimes I think that if one of them just stepped down from the argument everything would be much better! Maybe that has something to do with it...

[footfootfoot]

Not for nothing but subs are known for their conning towers

[kaykatiekay]

Originally Posted by footfootfoot

Not for nothing but subs are known for their conning towers

Your powers of wit are beyond me I'm afraid :S I'm sure that shows my age...

[footfootfoot]

OK, maybe the entire cellar could be your dom. That woudl maybe be a first for all of us and the internet.

We'd have to agree on ground rules.

[classicman]

ok Jim - Quiz time ...

[jimhelm]

well, you may not meet many experts on that culture, but there are some good people here, and good times to be had.

now, sit up straight, and start parting your hair down the middle.

[Gravdigr]

Originally Posted by jimhelm

well, you may not meet many experts on that culture,...

And, then again, you may...

Take a picture of yourself, spatula in one hand, and a handful of your ass in the other.

[kaykatiekay]

Originally Posted by Gravdigr

And, then again, you may...

Take a picture of yourself, spatula in one hand, and a handful of your ass in the other.

I see your emoticons and I raise you...

[Stormieweather]

Point - KayKatiekay

[dmg1969]

A new motto..."The Cellar. First in wit. Second only to www.the-pork.com/Forum41-1.aspx in talk about BSDM."

[Gravdigr]

Originally Posted by kaykatiekay

...but I will take pictures of mself performing certain commands as proof if the Dominant wishes...I am also happy to carry out punishments as the Dominant believes I need them.

Originally Posted by Gravdigr

And, then again, you may...

Take a picture of yourself, spatula in one hand, and a handful of your ass in the other.

Originally Posted by kaykatiekay

I see your emoticons and I raise you...[here you say no]

Originally Posted by Stormieweather

Point - KayKatiekay

No point for you!!! Not only did you not take said picture, as you were explicitly instructed to do, you said no. That is strictly forbidden. All sorts of things will come out of your mouth in my dungeon, but, "no" better not be one of them. Not when the flail is in my hand. You have no idea of the punishment you are in for now. But, as you demonstrate, you cannot follow simple instructions, so the punishment you willingly seek will not be forthcoming. Suffer.

If you want a tiny, infinitesimal smidgen of redemption, you may take a picture of yourself with a paper bag over your head while smearing sweet pickle relish all over a white t-shirt you are wearing. Outside.

This is your final chance.

[Sundae]

I am happy to take you at face value and accept you are who you say you are.
Unfortunately I can't help you with the questions you are asking, and I doubt anyone here can either.

All I can suggest is that you continue your Google search, but when you find what you think is an appropriate forum, read, read and read again to make sure. At 17 you really don't want to open yourself up to strangers who might not understand your desires. At the very least you will be mocked, at the worst you could meet the wrong type of dom. And there wil be plenty of smartarses either way.

Good luck.

[kaykatiekay]

Originally Posted by jimhelm

well, you may not meet many experts on that culture, but there are some good people here, and good times to be had.

now, sit up straight, and start parting your hair down the middle.

Thank you I know there are good people here as some (like yourself) have taken the time to talk to me and offer me the little advice they can. Thank you!

Originally Posted by Sundae

I am happy to take you at face value and accept you are who you say you are.
Unfortunately I can't help you with the questions you are asking, and I doubt anyone here can either.

All I can suggest is that you continue your Google search, but when you find what you think is an appropriate forum, read, read and read again to make sure. At 17 you really don't want to open yourself up to strangers who might not understand your desires. At the very least you will be mocked, at the worst you could meet the wrong type of dom. And there wil be plenty of smartarses either way.

Good luck.

Thank you for your vote of confidence and your advice I realise now that this forum is not quite what I thought it was! I shall keep looking through google (and on this thread, just in case ) and shall keep your wise words in my mind. I know it is hard because of my age but I know I need this lifestyle and will not give up! No matter how many smartarses I come along!