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02-04-2010, 07:37 PM | #46 | |
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In fact, it was at one of my 'self dates' when I met Capnhowdy by chance and the rest is history!!
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02-05-2010, 07:39 PM | #47 |
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Hey TG. I've been there. I'm still recovering from my ex running away with another man while I was in the hospital. It's hard, but everyday it gets a little easier.
I highly recommend you not try to contact her & avoid any place you might run into her at.
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02-05-2010, 07:41 PM | #48 |
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AMEN Big Sarge!
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02-12-2010, 04:01 AM | #49 |
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TG, it's not too far back from me recanting my own trainwreck in this same corner of the cellar. However things are going for you, here's my words of advice: Take some time and figure out who you are today; if there isn't the "us" anymore in your life, get to know the "me" again (cut the snickering, I'm being sincere.) Find something to do with your time, capitalize on all of that emotional wreckage. My distraction was buying a bicycle and riding the crap out of it. (bonus, distracted myself quite a bit, and got into way better shape than I was, which did a lot for my confidence, which turned out to be good armor about trying to be rational about things rather than sitting around blaming myself for everything (yeah, could've done things differently, but at least it wasn't thoughts of "I deserved to be treated even worse than I was" 24/7)) It turns out if you go see a movie on your own, nobody around you cares, they're watching the movie. You go on a trip alone, nobody notices, they don't know you anyhow. Go to a restaurant alone, no big deal. If they make a comment while seating you, walk away if it bugs you. (preferably before ordering/being served.)
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02-12-2010, 10:14 AM | #50 |
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Great advice here, TG, from dis.
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