The Sex Thread - Page 7

staceyv · 06-02-2005, 06:00 PM

"No" doesn't mean "no" when the girl is laughing and smiling and teasing you.
If she says it in a serious tone, then take it as "no"
You can tell when she's just saying it to get attention or tease you, or she really means it- it's pretty easy.

As far as the first few times you're with someone, yeah, you should err on the side of caution and take it as a "no"...

My husband has a pretty low emotional intelligence IQ, but he has no problem at all differentiating between my fake "no"s and real "no"s.

And I hate scewing with the lights on- dim is okay, but I don't want my husband staring at my ass while he's behind me if I feel that I'm having a bad ass week- I get a dimple on it when I retain water from pms.

The only times I have ever been able to screw with all the lights on and stare in someone's eyes and act like an actress in a porn flick, were with cheap, shallow sex only very short "relationships" when I knew it meant nothing and I didn't care how the guy felt about me.

So, the fact that your wife is self conscious means she loves you and cares about what you think

LabRat · 06-03-2005, 09:02 AM

We are in the same boat as Glatt. Evenings are pretty much out, but when we can, 2-3X a month, it's worth the wait. I didn't want RugRat to be the couch potato type, so we don't have a TV in the kitchen or livingroom. Our VCR/DVD player is in the finished basement. Because getting to watch a video is a special treat, and for a 2.5 yr old she has an especially long attention span, we use a video when we need some alone time and it's not naptime. We easily get 30 min, sometimes over an hour before we hear her heading up the stairs. Lately we've been getting the last morning sex we can in before she moves to a 'big girl bed' and can pop in on us anytime she likes. Nothing like a good shag to set your day up right. Probably going to have to start drinking

instead...

plthijinx · 06-03-2005, 11:51 AM

i remember back when i was married and little pilot came home for adoption. it wasn't easy. oh wait, my ex's toybox was broken so we only had sex maybe 4 times a year if i was lucky. boy. am i glad i'm divorced now, from her at least, and no, sex wasn't why we got divorced, ok well part of it but not the major part and that's for another time. we be talkin' 'bout sex here! my g/f and i though do click mentally and physically, albeit that rare problem that happens every now and again as mentioned earlier but can be fun!

Trilby · 06-03-2005, 12:19 PM

*cough* what about BJ techniques? Hello???

plthijinx · 06-03-2005, 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Brianna

*cough* what about BJ techniques? Hello???

yeah, that's what i suggested. she TOTALLY wasn't into that. and i suggest that she learn or find someone whose a unich (sp?) even before all of her surgeries (9 for endometriosis) she wouldn't do that when we had a "healthy" sex relationship. oh well. and it wasn't that healthy at all. yeah, i married her for other reasons and sex wasn't a big deal but it did make our intimate (holding/cuddling) drift apart to nothing. but now, look out!! i've only turned the g/f down once in the 4 or so months we've been dating because i was flat out exhausted.

lumberjim · 06-03-2005, 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Brianna

*cough* what about BJ techniques? Hello???

i told you. like a motorcycle throttle. i'm a certified bj instructor. very affordable too. the thing is to start lighlty and slowly; nibbling is ok. but when you really want to be done with it already, get all four fingers wrapped around it, and twist and squeeze as you go up and down. get the right rythm, and make the right noises as though you're actually enjoying it, and you'll soon be done. bonus points if you take a facial or chest shot with the results of your effort.

too graphic? should i find you a good video clip?

hot_pastrami · 06-03-2005, 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by lumberjim

i told you. like a motorcycle throttle.

Just as long as it's not "indian burn" style. Ouch.

lumberjim · 06-03-2005, 02:58 PM

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Originally Posted by hot_pastrami

Just as long as it's not "indian burn" style. Ouch.

she'd have to be pretty thirsty for that to happen. one should apply more liquor in that event.

Silent · 06-03-2005, 05:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Brianna

*cough* what about BJ techniques? Hello???

I am really into the whole oral sex thing and I've had some very open discussion with different ladies and I can safely say that if 500 different men read this thread, you would get 500 different answers.
Circumcised or non-circumcised? Heavy ball work? Light? None? Work the seams or everything? Light teeth? No teeth? Lots of suction? Everyone is different.

The only universal is practice suppressing your gag reflex. :p

For some good tutorials....

NSFW
www.ideepthroat.com

Heather Brooke has real talent.

LCanal · 06-03-2005, 09:41 PM

Sometimes when I "get the urge" in the afternoon I visit Annie’s' Massage and Bar in Bangkok.
After trying one or three ladies I settled, by accident on, Won. Won uses a lot of suction sufficient to be accompanied by the occasional "slurp" when she temporarily loses suction. She uses lots of ball work and I "trained " her to massage my perineum and "more". Rhythm is also important not too fast but not too slow. She uses her hand like the “motorcycle throttle” as well.
I enjoy sex with my partner but with Won I don’t have to worry about her pleasure and can concentrate solely on mine and I don’t have to worry about her getting aches and pains or getting tired.
The best part is that Won has to make it happen I fight the inevitable all the way to the point where my legs, and sometimes my whole body, shakes. It’s magic. Then she gives me a massage and another less frantic one. It’s the only time I orgasm twice in the space of 1 hour.
So 1 down and 499 to go…

Elspode · 06-03-2005, 07:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Brianna

*cough* what about BJ techniques? Hello???

So...what about 'em? Do tell!

LabRat · 06-06-2005, 10:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Brianna

*cough* what about BJ techniques? Hello???

#1 Squeeky clean. Not Optional. --no perfume please, it makes me sneeze.
#2 Trimmed/shaved testicles. Not Optional anymore, and HIGHLY recommended.

I'd been trimming for him for quite awhile before I could convince him to give me the same courtesy. Once my hubby finally agreed to it, not only did he get a lot more testicle/tounge action (which he really likes), but he said it actually was 10X better because he had a lot more sensation. He recommends women's extra moisturizing shave gel, and a fresh razor if you were wondering

staceyv · 06-04-2005, 05:27 AM

um, LJ, I'm not sure if all men will agree with the nibbling thing! As far as I've learned, teeth are baaaad- very, very bad. I am hesitant to even try nibbling.
My thoughts on oral sex:

1)We know you shake the urine off of your penis and let it dry there. If you want it in someone's mouth, WASH it.
2)Balls sweat profusely and when it gets damp down there, it gets smelly real fast. WASH 'em.
3)Silent hit the "head" on the nail. Everyone is different, so you're better off asking "how do you like it?" Don't go around nibbling everyone

And yes, rhythmn and supression of the gag reflex are important.

kerosene · 06-04-2005, 05:46 PM

Stacey's first 2 points are the biggest reason I don't go giving blowjobs every day to my man. Ugh. Sorry if that is a bit anal...er...nitpicky...I just can't stand that smell. Once it is not there, though, the rest of it is a blast.

Elspode · 06-04-2005, 09:36 PM

I was thinking of taking notes, but I think I'm just going to go take a shower instead...

06-03-2005, 11:51 AM	#3
plthijinx Master Dwellar Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 4,197	i remember back when i was married and little pilot came home for adoption. it wasn't easy. oh wait, my ex's toybox was broken so we only had sex maybe 4 times a year if i was lucky. boy. am i glad i'm divorced now, from her at least, and no, sex wasn't why we got divorced, ok well part of it but not the major part and that's for another time. we be talkin' 'bout sex here! my g/f and i though do click mentally and physically, albeit that rare problem that happens every now and again as mentioned earlier but can be fun! __________________ For your dreams to come true, you must first have a dream.

06-03-2005, 12:19 PM	#4
Trilby Slattern of the Swail Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 15,654	cough what about BJ techniques? Hello??? __________________ In Barrie's play and novel, the roles of fairies are brief: they are allies to the Lost Boys, the source of fairy dust and ...They are portrayed as dangerous, whimsical and extremely clever but quite hedonistic. "Shall I give you a kiss?" Peter asked and, jerking an acorn button off his coat, solemnly presented it to her. —James Barrie Wimminfolk they be tricksy. - ZenGum

06-03-2005, 09:41 PM	#10
LCanal I hope to be the kind of person my dog thinks I am Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Sumatra Posts: 257	Sometimes when I "get the urge" in the afternoon I visit Annie’s' Massage and Bar in Bangkok. After trying one or three ladies I settled, by accident on, Won. Won uses a lot of suction sufficient to be accompanied by the occasional "slurp" when she temporarily loses suction. She uses lots of ball work and I "trained " her to massage my perineum and "more". Rhythm is also important not too fast but not too slow. She uses her hand like the “motorcycle throttle” as well. I enjoy sex with my partner but with Won I don’t have to worry about her pleasure and can concentrate solely on mine and I don’t have to worry about her getting aches and pains or getting tired. The best part is that Won has to make it happen I fight the inevitable all the way to the point where my legs, and sometimes my whole body, shakes. It’s magic. Then she gives me a massage and another less frantic one. It’s the only time I orgasm twice in the space of 1 hour. So 1 down and 499 to go… __________________ "Happiness is like sex. In order to get any good out of it, you have to give it to someone else."

06-04-2005, 09:36 PM	#15
Elspode When Do I Get Virtual Unreality? Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Raytown, Missouri Posts: 12,719	I was thinking of taking notes, but I think I'm just going to go take a shower instead... __________________ "To those of you who are wearing ties, I think my dad would appreciate it if you took them off." - Robert Moog

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06-02-2005, 06:00 PM	#1
staceyv Lecturer Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Ohio Posts: 927	"No" doesn't mean "no" when the girl is laughing and smiling and teasing you. If she says it in a serious tone, then take it as "no" You can tell when she's just saying it to get attention or tease you, or she really means it- it's pretty easy. As far as the first few times you're with someone, yeah, you should err on the side of caution and take it as a "no"... My husband has a pretty low emotional intelligence IQ, but he has no problem at all differentiating between my fake "no"s and real "no"s. And I hate scewing with the lights on- dim is okay, but I don't want my husband staring at my ass while he's behind me if I feel that I'm having a bad ass week- I get a dimple on it when I retain water from pms. The only times I have ever been able to screw with all the lights on and stare in someone's eyes and act like an actress in a porn flick, were with cheap, shallow sex only very short "relationships" when I knew it meant nothing and I didn't care how the guy felt about me. So, the fact that your wife is self conscious means she loves you and cares about what you think

06-03-2005, 09:02 AM	#2
LabRat twatfaced two legged bumhole Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 3,143	We are in the same boat as Glatt. Evenings are pretty much out, but when we can, 2-3X a month, it's worth the wait. I didn't want RugRat to be the couch potato type, so we don't have a TV in the kitchen or livingroom. Our VCR/DVD player is in the finished basement. Because getting to watch a video is a special treat, and for a 2.5 yr old she has an especially long attention span, we use a video when we need some alone time and it's not naptime. We easily get 30 min, sometimes over an hour before we hear her heading up the stairs. Lately we've been getting the last morning sex we can in before she moves to a 'big girl bed' and can pop in on us anytime she likes. Nothing like a good shag to set your day up right. Probably going to have to start drinking instead... __________________ Strength does not come from how much weight you can lift, or how many miles you can run. It comes from knowing that you set a goal, and rose to the challenge. Strength comes from within.

06-04-2005, 05:27 AM	#13
staceyv Lecturer Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Ohio Posts: 927	um, LJ, I'm not sure if all men will agree with the nibbling thing! As far as I've learned, teeth are baaaad- very, very bad. I am hesitant to even try nibbling. My thoughts on oral sex: 1)We know you shake the urine off of your penis and let it dry there. If you want it in someone's mouth, WASH it. 2)Balls sweat profusely and when it gets damp down there, it gets smelly real fast. WASH 'em. 3)Silent hit the "head" on the nail. Everyone is different, so you're better off asking "how do you like it?" Don't go around nibbling everyone And yes, rhythmn and supression of the gag reflex are important.

06-04-2005, 05:46 PM	#14
kerosene Touring the facilities Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: The plains of Colorado Posts: 3,476	Stacey's first 2 points are the biggest reason I don't go giving blowjobs every day to my man. Ugh. Sorry if that is a bit anal...er...nitpicky...I just can't stand that smell. Once it is not there, though, the rest of it is a blast.

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