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Old 06-18-2009, 08:43 AM   #1
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Yeh I agree with Clod on that this has to end immediately. There is some attraction to going back to a simpler time, recapturing your youth, oh what could have been.... You're in your 40's right? TRUST ME! End it now. You got kids and a family that love you, whether you realize it or not. Put 10000% of your energy into that.
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Old 06-18-2009, 09:27 AM   #2
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the main thing is.....we all want to know who you are now..


we will find you.....oh yes we will.
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Old 06-18-2009, 10:12 AM   #3
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Shut up Jim. Ya cockleberry!.

Sheesh - real helpful you are - try this link
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Old 06-18-2009, 10:24 AM   #4
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Shut up Jim. Ya cockleberry!.

Sheesh - real helpful you are - try this link

awesome!

are there a lot of EAD pics out there?
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Old 06-18-2009, 10:14 AM   #5
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I bet I know! I'm psychic that way.

And it seems way obvious.
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Old 06-18-2009, 10:29 AM   #6
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Another thread another time...
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Old 06-18-2009, 10:39 AM   #7
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BAIL! DUDE, BAIL!

Show your significant other the email, admit you fucked up and weren't thinking straight, explain that it was a momentary echo of adolescent fantasy, then get down to work on fixing the shit in your own marriage that caused you to even think this was a good idea!
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Old 06-18-2009, 11:24 AM   #8
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BAIL! DUDE, BAIL!

Show your significant other the email, admit you fucked up and weren't thinking straight, explain that it was a momentary echo of adolescent fantasy, then get down to work on fixing the shit in your own marriage that caused you to even think this was a good idea!
What he says.
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Old 06-18-2009, 11:32 AM   #9
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Smooth once again has the winning entry. Apparently there is something to be said for being a moral guy in LA.
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Old 06-18-2009, 05:14 PM   #10
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Thinking about it, I'm old enough now that I have heard this scene play out about 10 times, with various people.

Nothing good ever comes of it, in any of the stories.
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Old 06-18-2009, 07:54 PM   #11
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Thank you all, you've been very helpful. I needed to hear it.
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Old 06-18-2009, 09:55 PM   #12
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I'm pretty sure I know who anon is too, and he's not in a happy marriage atm, are you?
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Old 06-18-2009, 10:50 PM   #13
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his wife is hot though....


dude....remember this. the grass is always greener. there is a reason why her husband is sick of her shit. she farts in her sleep or she nags him....or some mundane crap.

your life is fine. stop being a tool, and make a point of going the extra mile for your family. buy her her favorite treat.....sing her her favorite song........tell her that you would marry her all over again. and then give her oral to fruition.

your family and your wife are more important than that old chick you passed on 20 years ago. she probably has vaginosis.
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Old 06-19-2009, 12:00 AM   #14
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Old 06-19-2009, 12:16 PM   #15
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my two cents: I totally understand how hearing from her probably makes you feel good about yourself - all warm and fuzzy - the prospect of something new and different and exciting, the possibility she may love you and adore you and appreciate you like your wife hasn't lately.........NOPE! Doesn't work that way.

Appreciate what you have. Fix whatever doesn't work. And what everyone else said.
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