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08-21-2009, 03:31 PM
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Keeper of the Decorum
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Cheating even though you are happy.....
So as of late i have been getting a lot of attention from the women at my job. I work in a huge building with over 600 people and the majority are women. And I have been getting all kinds of offers to go bump uglies. I have even been offered a room paid by the girl all taken care of all I have to do is show. Problem is I am married(second time around) and I am happy with what i got. But its just so temping you know the thought of something new the strange if you will. Any thoughts on this......
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08-21-2009, 03:45 PM
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dar512 is now Pete Zicato
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"Trust is a one-time only offer"
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08-21-2009, 03:59 PM
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If you value your marriage and the vows you took, you will do the right thing.
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08-21-2009, 04:14 PM
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Come on, cat.
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Talk to your wife about this, it's important if you want to stay married.
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08-21-2009, 04:21 PM
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Yes i know trust is one time only offer and i do value the vows that i took and i have not done anything. I dont believe I am sending out those vibes at least i dont think so. I do maintenance all around the building and help alot of them out when they have any issues with their desks etc. But i am just nice you know. I phrased that wrong being married is not the problem i just wanted to say that i am not single is all.
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08-21-2009, 04:21 PM
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Thoughts? yeah. cheaters are scum. If you want to continue to be happy--don't.
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08-21-2009, 04:25 PM
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Come on, cat.
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If you keep these kinds of thoughts/conversations from your wife you are already cheating. If you're uncomfortable bringing this topic up with your wife, there's a reason for it. Communication is the foundation of trust.
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08-21-2009, 04:27 PM
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barely disguised asshole, keeper of all that is holy.
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Either discuss & invite the wife (if you are into that, I'm not) or be glad for that which you have.
BTW - Have you looked at your wife lately? No, I mean really looked at her. Yehhhh like that. now - WHAT ARE YOU FUCKIN NUTS? Don't be an asshole - How would you feel if she did it to you? Take that into consideration and then ... Don't be an asshole.
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08-21-2009, 04:29 PM
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I do want to continue to be happy and i have never cheated ever not even on a girlfriend. And it wasnt a conversation. It was an email stating that it would all be taken care of. I had said hi on occassions to this woman before but never did actually have a conversation. The email came out of nowhere.
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08-21-2009, 04:33 PM
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No im not into "that" im not much for sharing. You know what classic i havent done that in a while. I believe you are right!!! And I dont want to be "that Guy" And im definetely not an asshole and i would prob feel like shiat if she were doing that to me. i think its just taking me for a ride because i have never gotten attention like this before.
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08-21-2009, 04:43 PM
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Hmm Kinda ironic that i just said that i didnt want to be "that guy" and my screen name is that guy. Damn it!...epic fail.
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08-21-2009, 07:42 PM
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So, ahh, what job is this? I might need to change careers.
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08-21-2009, 08:19 PM
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Looking forward to open mic night.
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I hate it when I accidently send the wrong person an e-mail............So I always check it before I send it at least 3 times........Not everyone does that.
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08-21-2009, 10:09 PM
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Thats "Miss Zipper Neck" to you.
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Cheating while already happy with the person you're with? Sounds like a fast track to unhappy.
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08-22-2009, 12:15 AM
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barely disguised asshole, keeper of all that is holy.
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