Confession Time - Page 11

monster · 10-17-2011, 10:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Aliantha

It takes time to get to know people, and you can't expect to just be treated like one of the family if you just showed up to attach a few flyers to the door, suggest a new color scheme for the siding, and let your dog poop on the lawn without picking it up.....

Ghost-wrote that for you....

BrilliantDisguise · 10-17-2011, 10:45 PM

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Originally Posted by monster

bye!

wait, weren't you leaving?

Like I said, fuck off jealous bitch.

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Originally Posted by Aliantha

When new comers arrive here, I sometimes think they just don't realize how long some people have been posting and sharing personal stuff with this community, and it's hard for some people to understand that and realize the support people show for one another even through or despite differences in political or even moral beliefs is real.

Maybe if more new comers had the chance to see this they'd stay longer themselves. I do remember when I first came here I felt like I was on the outter for a long time, but I don't feel that way anymore, even though there are some here that I don't get along with so well. And it's not like I don't care about even those people. I wish the best for all the people I've come to know over the years i've been here.

It takes time to get to know people, and you can't expect to just be treated like one of the family if the family doesn't know how to treat you.

"Fawning over" isn't necessary. But being nice to newbs and making them feel welcome should be on a forum that cares about new members. I've made posts that were completely ignored. My breast cancer walk thread was changed into the 'what should monster wear thread'.

skysidhe · 10-17-2011, 10:48 PM

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Originally Posted by BrilliantDisguise

My breast cancer walk thread was changed into the 'what should monster wear thread'.

It wasn't ignored. I, for one, have been busy and just didn't read it yet.

BrilliantDisguise · 10-17-2011, 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted by skysidhe

geez, The following is a post, I tried to post a few back...but now just feels silly.

Hello Brilliant Disguise. I am sorry I didn't say hello. Don't take it personally. We are kind of marginal around here sometimes.

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Monster isn't marginal. Hence the name.

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Originally Posted by skysidhe

It wasn't ignored. I, for one, have been busy and just didn't read it yet.

I don't have a problem with you at all. Now monster on the other hand is just a big bitch.

skysidhe · 10-17-2011, 10:46 PM

geez, The following is a post, I tried to post a few back...but now just feels silly.

Hello Brilliant Disguise. I am sorry I didn't say hello. Don't take it personally. We are kind of marginal around here sometimes.

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Monster isn't marginal. Hence the name.

monster · 10-17-2011, 10:48 PM

Jealous of what, exactly? The stuck in the 80s thing?

oh and thread-drift... that's what the cellar is all about. Did you miss the memo?

Suggest you go back to those awesome forums...

monster · 10-17-2011, 10:50 PM

Threads do not belong to anyone....

Aliantha · 10-17-2011, 10:51 PM

BD, this forum has minimal moderation, therefor, thread drift is inevitable.

We've all been touched by cancer, and I'm sure everyone feels very supportive of your efforts with your walk.

Monster is a pain in the arse. You'll just have to get used to her or find a way to deal with her if you stick around, cause she doesn't seem to be going anywhere. That's one tip I can give you, and believe me, monster and I have had our differences. lol She's not that bad really though.

BrilliantDisguise · 10-17-2011, 10:53 PM

I know all about thread drift. As I've said I'm not new to forums at all. I think most thread drifts can turn out to be very funny and normally I welcome them.

Aliantha · 10-17-2011, 10:58 PM

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Originally Posted by BrilliantDisguise

I know all about thread drift. As I've said I'm not new to forums at all. I think most thread drifts can turn out to be very funny and normally I welcome them.

Well then why are you upset about it then. I don't understand. Is it just that you feel very strongly about that particular thread? Were you looking for a response that didn't happen?

If so, you could just say that in the thread.

Don't get all upset about a few bitchy remarks. Believe me, it's not worth the agro.

Just interact how you like. Maybe post on some of the other threads? I haven't really paid much attention to where you're posting in particular, but you seem to be getting about the same sorts of responses as everyone else.

We're a bit communist here. Everyone is subject to the same bitchery regardless of how long they've been here for, so maybe you should just consider yourself lucky. lol That's better than special anyway isn't it?

BrilliantDisguise · 10-17-2011, 11:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Aliantha

Well then why are you upset about it then. I don't understand. Is it just that you feel very strongly about that particular thread? Were you looking for a response that didn't happen?

If so, you could just say that in the thread.

Don't get all upset about a few bitchy remarks. Believe me, it's not worth the agro.

Just interact how you like. Maybe post on some of the other threads? I haven't really paid much attention to where you're posting in particular, but you seem to be getting about the same sorts of responses as everyone else.

We're a bit communist here. Everyone is subject to the same bitchery regardless of how long they've been here for, so maybe you should just consider yourself lucky. lol That's better than special anyway isn't it?

Thanks, I appreciate your kind words. I'm sure if I felt I could spend more time here, we could have gotten along very well. But I don't think this is the place for me. I'm not upset, I just needed to get some things out there before I left.

Undertoad, if you can delete those pics for me I would appreciate it. Thank you.

skysidhe · 10-17-2011, 11:03 PM

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Originally Posted by BrilliantDisguise

Thanks, I appreciate your kind words. I'm sure if I felt I could spend more time here, we could have gotten along very well. But I don't think this is the place for me. I'm not upset, I just needed to get some things out there before I left.

Undertoad, if you can delete those pics for me I would appreciate it. Thank you.

New people leave so often than not.

Sorry to see you go. I wish you wouldn't!

monster · 10-17-2011, 10:54 PM

I'm thinking the "jealous bitch" thing is maybe a psychological projection ?

Bitch, no questiion.

BrilliantDisguise · 10-17-2011, 10:55 PM

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Originally Posted by monster

I'm thinking the "jealous bitch" thing is maybe a psychological projection ?

Bitch, no questiion.

I'm not the only one that thinks this.

monster · 10-17-2011, 10:54 PM

Score is 40:love, game point......

10-17-2011, 10:48 PM	#6
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	Jealous of what, exactly? The stuck in the 80s thing? oh and thread-drift... that's what the cellar is all about. Did you miss the memo? Suggest you go back to those awesome forums... __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

10-17-2011, 10:50 PM	#7
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	Threads do not belong to anyone.... __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

10-17-2011, 10:51 PM	#8
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	BD, this forum has minimal moderation, therefor, thread drift is inevitable. We've all been touched by cancer, and I'm sure everyone feels very supportive of your efforts with your walk. Monster is a pain in the arse. You'll just have to get used to her or find a way to deal with her if you stick around, cause she doesn't seem to be going anywhere. That's one tip I can give you, and believe me, monster and I have had our differences. lol She's not that bad really though. __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

10-17-2011, 10:54 PM	#13
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	I'm thinking the "jealous bitch" thing is maybe a psychological projection ? Bitch, no questiion. __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

10-17-2011, 10:54 PM	#15
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	Score is 40:love, game point...... __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

10-17-2011, 10:46 PM	#5
skysidhe ~~Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.~~ Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 6,828	geez, The following is a post, I tried to post a few back...but now just feels silly. Hello Brilliant Disguise. I am sorry I didn't say hello. Don't take it personally. We are kind of marginal around here sometimes. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Monster isn't marginal. Hence the name.

10-17-2011, 10:53 PM	#9
BrilliantDisguise Master of the Domain Join Date: Oct 2011 Posts: 224	I know all about thread drift. As I've said I'm not new to forums at all. I think most thread drifts can turn out to be very funny and normally I welcome them.

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