Butthole barrages board with bullshit, gets busted by bruce

It is not my fault many of you don't like some of my topics or opinions.

If you get butthurt when someone disagrees with you and cannot discuss (on a discussion board, LOL!!!) a topic without taking dissenting views as a personal attack (opinions are not "you") then just stay out of those threads.
It ain't hard.
But, you don't, you get butthurt and then think it is my fault somehow when all I have done is fulfill the charter of this site.
Then you want me to feel bad about your waaaahhhh because you don't like my views on a subject... especially when it is worse when I have backed them with outside criteria? Ummmmm...no.
So, what is the next step... what would a kid do?
Take anything they know about that person, anything personal and twist-it, turn-it, or if it is personal enough, just use it, use it and use it to try to hurt them... but if they just don't care, try and try and try, stalk and stalk and harass, harass, harass again....
Yup, that is what is happening.

He lives for uncomfortable.

[DanaC]

Rk, you must have remarkable skills to have overcome it so well that this is the first time it has shown up on the board in all of those posts. congratulations.

Actually, I'm pretty sure rk's mentioned his dyslexia before. Long time ago though, so i am not going to trawl through and locate it.

You're right that it's hard to hide dyslexia, but in fairness since it affects different people differently, it's entirely possible (in my view) that someone could not show up as dyslexic on a board like this. There have been times when rk has made spelling mistakes which absolutely could be due to dyslexia, and often they're repeated mistakes. I can't think of examples but I am pretty sure I spotted some after he first mentioned dyslexia about 8 months ago. I stopped looking after that, so couldn't tell you if they've re-occurred since.

I've known dyslexics who have developed very good coping strategies, such as spell-checking everything before they input it. Not all dyslexics, in my experience, have the same difficulties with sentence structure and sequencing, so I don't see how it would be possible to say with any degree of surety that someone with access to a spell-checker would automatically still show up as dyslexic.

It's not just spelling, it's a few things, I have learned to check for them, but I often go back and edit them after I miss them.
But, it does not matter, either you will act like you don't believe me or use it to try to hurt me, either way.

[monster]

Ok, I'm sorry rkz, I guess I let my annoyance at your assertations regarding dyslexia cloud my judgment. I did not see the previous mention of it before, so it seemed to come out of the blue, and "the boy who cried wolf syndrome" kicked in. I accept that I was wrong and so my mentioning it in this thread was inappropriate and I apologize for that and any hurt it caused you.

I regularly work with a range of dyslexic people and I have also come across a good number who claim to be dyslexic out of sheer laziness and/or attention-seeking. The latter make my blood boil, wasting resources so badly needed by those who do struggle. So i guess I'm more cynical than I should be.



Regarding the pot, kettle, black. You are name-calling, which is a bullying behaviour. but I'm just not going to argue the toss any further.

Thank you.
I have never asked for any extra help in the form of special treatment. I paid for my own tutors in school in the subjects that I needed the extra help in and just put the extra time in.
We all have our talents and things that we need to work harder with, this is how I have always viewed my dyslexia and my physical pain.

I have never instigated any of the personal attacks, only retaliated, though I should just ignore them, I agree with you on that point.

[bluecuracao]

Originally Posted by rkzenrage

I have never instigated any of the personal attacks

So you don't think it's a personal attack, when you call someone who disagrees with you a "moron?"

Hmmmmm... is calling a name an attack or just an insult?
Good question, I guess it depends on the "offended" party takes it and how sensitive they are.
I would not feel attacked, insulted perhaps... if I cared about the person.

[monster]

Originally Posted by rkzenrage

Hmmmmm... is calling a name an attack or just an insult?
Good question, I guess it depends on the "offended" party takes it and how sensitive they are.
I would not feel attacked, insulted perhaps... if I cared about the person.

but you don't care, right?

Yes, it is an attack. perhaps you wouldn''t view it as an attack if you were the recipient. So you feel it'sa OK to do it? Now extrapolate that, and apply to other dwellars.

[Aliantha]

I don't think calling someone a moron just because they either don't understand or don't agree is conducive to good discussion rkz, and that's what you say you want here.

I apologize for calling you a name if I did.

It's more than I will ever get, and no I do not care any more, how could I and stay, especially after the kinds of things said to me today... though I do mean it.

I don't think calling someone a moron just because they either don't understand or don't agree is conducive to good discussion rkz, and that's what you say you want here.

Well said, I agree.

[Aliantha]

Maybe people are just trying to explain to you why they react the way they do? What's ok for oneself is not always ok with others, hence the conflict over stupid things.

I clearly explained exactly what happens... people take my disagreeing with them personally, then they attack me then when I respond, for reasons I can't figure out, other's react as if I started it.
That is aside from the stalkers.

[bluecuracao]

Originally Posted by rkzenrage

I clearly explained exactly what happens... people take my disagreeing with them personally, then they attack me then when I respond, for reasons I can't figure out, other's react as if I started it.
That is aside from the stalkers.

No, that's not what happens.

I've clearly explained to you before why people get upset with you. I'll try again, since you seem open to it at the moment, and I really want you to understand.

It's not because you disagree with them, it's the way you do it--with remarks such as "you are a moron," "you are stupid," "this is beneath me," "this is a waste of time," "you can't comprehend what you read," etc. etc. And you don't treat just one or two people like that, you do it to anyone who responds to you with an opposing view.

People disagree with each other all the time here--that's part of what makes the Cellar so interesting. But there's just no need for those extra insults that I pointed out, which you've engaged in much too regularly. It's those insults in the midst of good discussion that piss people off, because they drag down what might otherwise be a fun and intelligent debate, to just plain rudeness.

Originally Posted by bluecuracao

No, that's not what happens.

I've clearly explained to you before why people get upset with you. I'll try again, since you seem open to it at the moment, and I really want you to understand.

It's not because you disagree with them, it's the way you do it--with remarks such as "you are a moron," "you are stupid," "this is beneath me," "this is a waste of time," "you can't comprehend what you read," etc. etc. And you don't treat just one or two people like that, you do it to anyone who responds to you with an opposing view.

People disagree with each other all the time here--that's part of what makes the Cellar so interesting. But there's just no need for those extra insults that I pointed out, which you've engaged in much too regularly. It's those insults in the midst of good discussion that piss people off, because they drag down what might otherwise be a fun and intelligent debate, to just plain rudeness.

I have already stated I only argue with people on a personal level once attacked... I will now ignore those who do this, it is beneath me.