Do guys really care about a girls sexual history? - Page 16

Trilby · 10-16-2006, 03:05 PM

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Originally Posted by bmwmcaw

"Sally"

Hey, bm, I thought you were a big advocate of not calling people names. Then YOU go and do it. You're sending mixed messages and I'm so confused!

Trilby · 10-16-2006, 03:06 PM

Oh, wait. Now I get it! You can call others nasty names but others can't call YOU nasty names!

mrnoodle · 10-16-2006, 03:13 PM

re: rkzenrage

I'm not singling out either behavior. The question applies to both, as well as every other sexual behavior. Let's say I'm your partner (wink wink). If I used to like X, and it's something that you can't deal with, you better rethink our relationship. I haven't stopped liking X just because I'm hooked up with you. If I like you well enough, I might make a huge effort to stop X'ing, but that's no guarantee. If I stopped X'ing prior to meeting you, great. It's still, however, a part of me that might resurface later.

The point is, people existed prior to your knowing them, so don't expect that they are going to make wholesale changes just because you're in the picture.

With that in mind, it's perfectly acceptable to decide whether or not to date someone based on any criteria you set, whether consciously or not. It's not "unfair" or "judgemental" or anything else. It's your life, and you get to decide who's in it.

mrnoodle · 10-18-2006, 01:11 AM

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Originally Posted by rkzenrage

Wow, that is a very simplistic way at looking at relationships noodle. I dated for many years before marrying my wife and just quit... it was easy, so was no longer living by myself, something I also had done since I was very young (my own room, that is) as well as on my own since sixteen... your argument makes no sense when compared to all other behaviors.
The IDEA of marriage is change.

What doesn't make sense about it? I mean, maybe it doesn't, but what specifically? Of course you make lots of changes when you get married...I'm talking about things that are real incompatibilities.

Ibby · 10-16-2006, 04:59 PM

...Because that sentence encapsulates your whole argument.

yesman065 · 10-17-2006, 07:18 AM

Well BM I think its unfair of you to attack Ibram, I personally disputed every facet of every argument you had, with proof, and your (not you're) only reply was "Sally". I understand now that once you have nowhere else to go you tell someone they're (not there) a "Sally". You reverted to namecalling like a child when you realized that your opinion (and thats all it is) was faulty, lacked basis and was discounted with facts. I agree with Ibram when he said - "it means you will not keep yourself in the gene pool. You've socially darwinized yourself out of reproduction" Thank goodness!

10-17-2006, 03:16 PM

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Originally Posted by yesman065

Well BM I think its unfair of you to attack Ibram, I personally disputed every facet of every argument you had, with proof, and your (not you're) only reply was "Sally". I understand now that once you have nowhere else to go you tell someone they're (not there) a "Sally". You reverted to namecalling like a child when you realized that your opinion (and thats all it is) was faulty, lacked basis and was discounted with facts. I agree with Ibram when he said - "it means you will not keep yourself in the gene pool. You've socially darwinized yourself out of reproduction" Thank goodness!

Another "Sally" comment.

Flint · 10-17-2006, 03:23 PM

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Originally Posted by bmwmcaw

Another "Sally" comment.

Your mom is a "Sally" comment.

Shawnee123 · 10-17-2006, 03:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Flint

Your mom is a "Sally" comment.

Ooooooooooh, you done brung it!

mrnoodle · 10-17-2006, 03:35 PM

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Ibby · 10-17-2006, 09:16 AM

Oh, and bmw? Call me a 'sally' all you want... Hell, even call me a queer or worse if you like. You'd be right, and I'd be proud. People like you is what makes me hate the fact that I'm male.

I secede from maledom.

10-17-2006, 03:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ibram

Oh, and bmw? Call me a 'sally' all you want... Hell, even call me a queer or worse if you like. You'd be right, and I'd be proud. People like you is what makes me hate the fact that I'm male.

I secede from maledom.

Let me encapsulate your retort..."Sally."

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Originally Posted by Ibram

"People like you is what makes me hate the fact that I'm male."

How pathetic. Don't fret about your maleness; get a sex change, a poodle, and a house with a dry well in the basement. "Its puts the lotion on."

Hey do put on makeup and tuck your maleness behind your cross legs and stand in front of a full length mirror twirling about.

Ibby · 10-17-2006, 08:23 PM

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Originally Posted by bmwmcaw

Hey do put on makeup and tuck your maleness behind your cross legs and stand in front of a full length mirror twirling about.

Let me tell you, it's quite fun. Not that you need me to tell you I'm sure.

Men are jerks. End of story. There are exceptions, many of the men here are exceptions, but you arent. You are a typical, selfish, stupid, woman-hating man. I have nothing but contempt for people like you.
I dont want to argue with you, you'll just drag it down to homophobia and namecalling like you do with every single other argument so far. But I also vote ban, if it comes to that, because youre losing your entertainment value fast.

10-18-2006, 06:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ibram

Let me tell you, it's quite fun. Not that you need me to tell you I'm sure.

Men are jerks. End of story. There are exceptions, many of the men here are exceptions, but you arent. You are a typical, selfish, stupid, woman-hating man. I have nothing but contempt for people like you.
I dont want to argue with you, you'll just drag it down to homophobia and namecalling like you do with every single other argument so far. But I also vote ban, if it comes to that, because youre losing your entertainment value fast.

That was as offensive as anything he has said.

Shawnee123 · 10-17-2006, 09:30 AM

I had no idea what "sally" meant? Is bmw for real? For pete's sake...someone give that guy an enema.

Course, with friends like us, who needs enemas?

10-16-2006, 03:13 PM	#3
mrnoodle bent Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: under the weather Posts: 2,656	re: rkzenrage I'm not singling out either behavior. The question applies to both, as well as every other sexual behavior. Let's say I'm your partner (wink wink). If I used to like X, and it's something that you can't deal with, you better rethink our relationship. I haven't stopped liking X just because I'm hooked up with you. If I like you well enough, I might make a huge effort to stop X'ing, but that's no guarantee. If I stopped X'ing prior to meeting you, great. It's still, however, a part of me that might resurface later. The point is, people existed prior to your knowing them, so don't expect that they are going to make wholesale changes just because you're in the picture. With that in mind, it's perfectly acceptable to decide whether or not to date someone based on any criteria you set, whether consciously or not. It's not "unfair" or "judgemental" or anything else. It's your life, and you get to decide who's in it. __________________ Sìn a nall na cuaranan sin. -- Cha mhór is fheairrde thu iad, tha iad coltach ri cat air a dhathadh

10-16-2006, 04:59 PM	#5
Ibby erika Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: "the high up north" Posts: 6,127	...Because that sentence encapsulates your whole argument. __________________ not really back, you didn't see me, i was never here shhhhhh

10-17-2006, 03:35 PM	#10
mrnoodle bent Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: under the weather Posts: 2,656	. Attached Images __________________ Sìn a nall na cuaranan sin. -- Cha mhór is fheairrde thu iad, tha iad coltach ri cat air a dhathadh

10-17-2006, 09:16 AM	#11
Ibby erika Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: "the high up north" Posts: 6,127	Oh, and bmw? Call me a 'sally' all you want... Hell, even call me a queer or worse if you like. You'd be right, and I'd be proud. People like you is what makes me hate the fact that I'm male. I secede from maledom. __________________ not really back, you didn't see me, i was never here shhhhhh

10-17-2006, 09:30 AM	#15
Shawnee123 Why, you're a regular Alfred E Einstein, ain't ya? Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 21,206	I had no idea what "sally" meant? Is bmw for real? For pete's sake...someone give that guy an enema. Course, with friends like us, who needs enemas? __________________ A word to the wise ain't necessary - it's the stupid ones who need the advice. --Bill Cosby

10-16-2006, 03:06 PM	#2
Trilby Slattern of the Swail Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 15,654	Oh, wait. Now I get it! You can call others nasty names but others can't call YOU nasty names!

10-17-2006, 07:18 AM	#6
yesman065 Banned - Self Imposed Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 1,847	Well BM I think its unfair of you to attack Ibram, I personally disputed every facet of every argument you had, with proof, and your (not you're) only reply was "Sally". I understand now that once you have nowhere else to go you tell someone they're (not there) a "Sally". You reverted to namecalling like a child when you realized that your opinion (and thats all it is) was faulty, lacked basis and was discounted with facts. I agree with Ibram when he said - "it means you will not keep yourself in the gene pool. You've socially darwinized yourself out of reproduction" Thank goodness!

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