Tiki Bitches About... - Page 16

Chocolatl · 04-14-2009, 06:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Sheldonrs

OK. Here's the Off y'all keep talking about. But how are ya gonna fuck it?

I bet that would sting.

Undertoad · 04-14-2009, 06:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Sheldonrs

But how are ya gonna fuck it?

From the bottom like a fleshlight [NSFW].

DanaC · 04-14-2009, 06:07 PM

Yeah. But, from her posts it sounds like she has taken it up with her. Some people really can't help but talk. Even when asked. Her friend sounds like she does it without even being aware. Thats difficult. After a talk about it she may well be trying not to do it. But as soon as she relaxes and starts just being herself itll start up again. Difficult to keep raising it eithout sounding like you're getting at her. or just creating an unpleasant atrmosphere or making her feel unwelcome. None of which Tiki wants.

This has been blown out of all proportion because of the tone of the conversation which followed her original post. The thread title should give a clue that this was a conscious vent about something that was bugging her. It was a tongue in cheek title. I daresay had the conversation followed a different path; one which didn;t leave tiki feeling the need to defend her irritation, then it would have been long since dropped, the vent having served its purpose.

zippyt · 04-14-2009, 06:08 PM

Here ya go

Pico and ME · 04-14-2009, 06:18 PM

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Originally Posted by DanaC

Yeah. But, from her posts it sounds like she has taken it up with her. Some people really can't help but talk. Even when asked. Her friend sounds like she does it without even being aware. Thats difficult. After a talk about it she may well be trying not to do it. But as soon as she relaxes and starts just being herself itll start up again. Difficult to keep raising it eithout sounding like you're getting at her. or just creating an unpleasant atrmosphere or making her feel unwelcome. None of which Tiki wants.

This has been blown out of all proportion because of the tone of the conversation which followed her original post. The thread title should give a clue that this was a conscious vent about something that was bugging her. It was a tongue in cheek title. I daresay had the conversation followed a different path; one which didn;t leave tiki feeling the need to defend her irritation, then it would have been long since dropped, the vent having served its purpose.

Bottom line...she overreacted. To take offense and respond derisively so quickly is seriously fucked up. Its her right to do it, but so is our reaction.

DanaC · 04-14-2009, 06:20 PM

oh i agree. just pointing out that there was nothing over the top or inappropriate about her original complaint.

capnhowdy · 04-14-2009, 07:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Undertoad

From the bottom like a fleshlight [NSFW].

I'm ordering everyone one of those right away. And I want one too.

capnhowdy · 04-14-2009, 07:59 PM

And also:
Capnhowdy you can fuck off too. You fucking bastard. Kiss my ass and don't post here ever again. You shithead sumbitch. So there.

Umm... how refreshing.

monster · 04-14-2009, 08:47 PM

I wonder if this thread would have progressed in the same way had it been posted in "Nothingland"? Or if the OP had been appended to a thread like "What's scorching your groove today?" rather that having a thread of it's own? These factors can also affect responses, in my opinion. Maybe if the issue hadn't seemed so urgent because it was given a thread of it's own in the main forum, maybe people would have been less inclined to advise and more inclined to sympathise?

If one apology is owed, then I doubt it's alone, but Tiki doesn't strike me as an apologizer and I doubt UT needs one.

Undertoad · 04-14-2009, 09:01 PM

If I am to blame, it is due to my low EQ, and I'm sorry about that.

For the record, I don't think anybody is actually superior to anyone else. Most of us seem to be pretty fucked up. I know for certain that I am.

04-14-2009, 10:18 PM

No, it's my fault. As a frequenter of Nothingland, I should have reported the initial post of this thread as errant as soon as I saw it in Home Base. That would have changed the tone of the discussion (correctly pointed out by monster). UT ... sorry to disappointment you man ... I fucked up. I apologize to the community.

classicman · 04-14-2009, 10:27 PM

Its Bush's fault! He should apologize.

Aliantha · 04-15-2009, 12:34 AM

You should all apologize while you're fucking right off!

xoxoxoBruce · 04-15-2009, 01:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Undertoad

(IRL I desperately need to be liked. Ironically everybody smells this desperation and it makes me unlikeable.)

Bullshit.

Sundae · 04-15-2009, 03:21 AM

I apologise that I can't apologize.

04-14-2009, 06:08 PM	#229
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04-14-2009, 07:59 PM	#233
capnhowdy Blatantly Homosapien Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 6,200	And also: Capnhowdy you can fuck off too. You fucking bastard. Kiss my ass and don't post here ever again. You shithead sumbitch. So there. Umm... how refreshing. __________________ Please type slowly. I can't read very fast............... and no holy water, please.

04-14-2009, 08:47 PM	#234
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	I wonder if this thread would have progressed in the same way had it been posted in "Nothingland"? Or if the OP had been appended to a thread like "What's scorching your groove today?" rather that having a thread of it's own? These factors can also affect responses, in my opinion. Maybe if the issue hadn't seemed so urgent because it was given a thread of it's own in the main forum, maybe people would have been less inclined to advise and more inclined to sympathise? If one apology is owed, then I doubt it's alone, but Tiki doesn't strike me as an apologizer and I doubt UT needs one. __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

04-14-2009, 10:27 PM	#237
classicman barely disguised asshole, keeper of all that is holy. Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 23,401	Its Bush's fault! He should apologize. __________________ "like strapping a pillow on a bull in a china shop" Bullitt

04-15-2009, 12:34 AM	#238
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	You should all apologize while you're fucking right off! __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

04-14-2009, 06:07 PM	#228
DanaC We have to go back, Kate! Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Yorkshire Posts: 25,964	Yeah. But, from her posts it sounds like she has taken it up with her. Some people really can't help but talk. Even when asked. Her friend sounds like she does it without even being aware. Thats difficult. After a talk about it she may well be trying not to do it. But as soon as she relaxes and starts just being herself itll start up again. Difficult to keep raising it eithout sounding like you're getting at her. or just creating an unpleasant atrmosphere or making her feel unwelcome. None of which Tiki wants. This has been blown out of all proportion because of the tone of the conversation which followed her original post. The thread title should give a clue that this was a conscious vent about something that was bugging her. It was a tongue in cheek title. I daresay had the conversation followed a different path; one which didn;t leave tiki feeling the need to defend her irritation, then it would have been long since dropped, the vent having served its purpose.

04-14-2009, 06:20 PM	#231
DanaC We have to go back, Kate! Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Yorkshire Posts: 25,964	oh i agree. just pointing out that there was nothing over the top or inappropriate about her original complaint.

04-14-2009, 09:01 PM	#235
Undertoad Radical Centrist Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Cottage of Prussia Posts: 31,423	If I am to blame, it is due to my low EQ, and I'm sorry about that. For the record, I don't think anybody is actually superior to anyone else. Most of us seem to be pretty fucked up. I know for certain that I am.

04-14-2009, 10:18 PM	#236
NoBoxes Guest Posts: n/a	No, it's my fault. As a frequenter of Nothingland, I should have reported the initial post of this thread as errant as soon as I saw it in Home Base. That would have changed the tone of the discussion (correctly pointed out by monster). UT ... sorry to disappointment you man ... I fucked up. I apologize to the community.

04-15-2009, 03:21 AM	#240
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	I apologise that I can't apologize. __________________ Life's hard you know, so strike a pose on a Cadillac

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