The Big H - Page 2

Cyclefrance · 03-13-2007, 07:52 PM

I think you are right there, Aliantha. With so much going on at the moment the mind hasn't yet thought to deal with this issue, and I can see that a few weeks (maybe months) down the road it will raise its head. It's not something I would think could be passed over, just a case of knowing it will happen but when is not something that can be predicted.

At the moment it's all pain and the frustration of having life constrained - something, in a way, that's easier to handle mentally - you want to stop one and get on with the other. But I can see that once this stage is passed the mind will naturally start considering the various other implications of what has happened, and work its way through them all.

Aliantha · 03-13-2007, 08:04 PM

Well, it seems your wife is very lucky to have a man like you to help her through this one. I have little doubt that whatever happens you'll smooth the way for her.

Keep up the good work.

Elspode · 03-14-2007, 04:38 PM

In the days following Selene's procedure, I found that being a loving and comforting mate was the best medicine. She'd had a rather difficult few months leading up to it, and she'd earned a bit of R&R.

Post surgical weakness and weariness is a bitch, but it usually passes fairly quickly. Best to both of you!

xoxoxoBruce · 03-15-2007, 05:13 AM

I'm late to the party, but glad to hear all is well, cf. I am, however, a Little disappointed in you....blaming her blood pressure problems on her family. tsk tsk.

Cyclefrance · 03-18-2007, 05:02 PM

What, me? cause high BP? Me? Well, OK, maybe a teensy bit.

Glad to report that Mrs CF continues to make good progress - she's a determined little lady!

xoxoxoBruce · 03-18-2007, 10:06 PM

That's good news.

TheMercenary · 03-24-2007, 05:54 PM

Glad to hear all is well. It took my wife a good two weeks for full recovery from her hysterectomy. Be patient. One day she will look back and say, "I should have done that a long time ago." And the absolute best part for her, no more periods.

03-13-2007, 07:52 PM	#16
Cyclefrance Pump my ride! Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Deep countryside of Surrey , England Posts: 1,890	I think you are right there, Aliantha. With so much going on at the moment the mind hasn't yet thought to deal with this issue, and I can see that a few weeks (maybe months) down the road it will raise its head. It's not something I would think could be passed over, just a case of knowing it will happen but when is not something that can be predicted. At the moment it's all pain and the frustration of having life constrained - something, in a way, that's easier to handle mentally - you want to stop one and get on with the other. But I can see that once this stage is passed the mind will naturally start considering the various other implications of what has happened, and work its way through them all. __________________ Always sufficient hills - never sufficient gears

03-13-2007, 08:04 PM	#17
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	Well, it seems your wife is very lucky to have a man like you to help her through this one. I have little doubt that whatever happens you'll smooth the way for her. Keep up the good work. __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

03-14-2007, 04:38 PM	#18
Elspode When Do I Get Virtual Unreality? Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Raytown, Missouri Posts: 12,719	In the days following Selene's procedure, I found that being a loving and comforting mate was the best medicine. She'd had a rather difficult few months leading up to it, and she'd earned a bit of R&R. Post surgical weakness and weariness is a bitch, but it usually passes fairly quickly. Best to both of you! __________________ "To those of you who are wearing ties, I think my dad would appreciate it if you took them off." - Robert Moog

03-15-2007, 05:13 AM	#19
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	I'm late to the party, but glad to hear all is well, cf. I am, however, a Little disappointed in you....blaming her blood pressure problems on her family. tsk tsk. __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

03-18-2007, 05:02 PM	#20
Cyclefrance Pump my ride! Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Deep countryside of Surrey , England Posts: 1,890	What, me? cause high BP? Me? Well, OK, maybe a teensy bit. Glad to report that Mrs CF continues to make good progress - she's a determined little lady! __________________ Always sufficient hills - never sufficient gears

03-18-2007, 10:06 PM	#21
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	That's good news. __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

03-24-2007, 05:54 PM	#22
TheMercenary “Hypocrisy: prejudice with a halo” Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Savannah, Georgia Posts: 21,393	Glad to hear all is well. It took my wife a good two weeks for full recovery from her hysterectomy. Be patient. One day she will look back and say, "I should have done that a long time ago." And the absolute best part for her, no more periods.

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