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Old 10-28-2009, 08:18 PM   #16
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I'm very sorry for your loss, Dar. Sending sympathy vibes your way.
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Old 10-28-2009, 08:30 PM   #17
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I am very sorry for your loss, Dar.
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Old 10-28-2009, 09:23 PM   #18
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Inappropriate though it probably is, I have to note that Momdar is a great term -it speaks to me of a combination of the following mom qualities:

"Eyes in the back of the head" ...to know when you're being naughty
"Batsense" ...to know when you need them even though you've given no physical indication
"Fine Tuning" ...to know that crying voice in the playground of 100 kids is yours, and to know if it's a cry that needs intervention or not -without looking up
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Old 10-28-2009, 09:31 PM   #19
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Dar I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your mom. From reading on here it was very apparent how close you were and how the distance was troubling you as the end was nearing. Perhaps she too was aware. Moms are like that.
If there is anything..........
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Old 10-28-2009, 10:18 PM   #20
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I'm sorry for you loss Dar.
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Old 10-28-2009, 11:37 PM   #21
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sorry for your Loss dar
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Old 10-29-2009, 12:06 AM   #22
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My condolences to you and your family.
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Old 10-29-2009, 12:16 AM   #23
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My deepest condolences.
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I have no knowledge of the events which you are describing, and if I did have knowledge of them,
I would be unable to discuss them with you now or at any future period.



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Old 10-29-2009, 01:55 AM   #24
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Aw crap.

Quote:
I'm lost.
That's what your family is for, you may be lost for a bit, but you won't be alone. You've got a second family for backup, here too.
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Old 10-29-2009, 03:55 AM   #25
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My condolences Dar. Hang in there and hang out here: you'll find your bearings again.
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Old 10-29-2009, 07:04 AM   #26
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My thoughts are with you and your family, dar.
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Old 10-29-2009, 07:21 AM   #27
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Please accept my condolence. May you find peace in this time of grief.
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Old 10-29-2009, 07:31 AM   #28
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I wish I could send comfort. My condolences to you dar.
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Old 10-29-2009, 08:03 AM   #29
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I'm so sorry, dar.
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Old 10-29-2009, 08:16 AM   #30
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I am so sorry, dar. I tried to say several clever and witty things, but it's all falling flat, so I'll stick with what I know. The pain, the frustration, the humiliation of having others provide intimate care services, all of that, it's over. That space occupied a very small part of her life, so remember the rest of it, and gently let go of the not so good stuff.

I hope this isn't becoming a trend here, people.
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