The Cellar 'Home base' academy awards...

[wolf]

Originally Posted by pensive pam

1) Who would you most like to meet on here?
2) Who is the most compassionate poster on here?
3) Who is the smartest poster on here?
4) Who is the happiest person on here?
5) Who is a poster that could use a big hug?
6) Who is the poster that has very meanigful posts?

That would be me.

I'm modest, too.

[pensive pam]

Originally Posted by wolf

That would be me.

I'm modest, too.

do you need a hug too??? I do not know how much more honest I can be with these people on here; and almost quit here last night...
I am dealing with what I can i guess. and yet I am viewed as a 'troll' with no feelings. I think I have expressed a lot. This thread has already been hijackked by others. I was asking a serious question at the beginning of the thread which is why i started it...

Maybe i should just leave??
Pam

[wolf]

Maybe you shouldn't work so hard at interpreting every comment as being an attack.

[pensive pam]

Originally Posted by wolf

Maybe you shouldn't work so hard at interpreting every comment as being an attack.

Well, Nirvana posted some very negative comments. I sent him a PM telling him he is an asshole. What accredited university did he earn his PHD in pyschiatry from. I am very, very MAD!

That man is mean!!!!!!!

a very angry Pam.

[wolf]

Originally Posted by pensive pam

I sent him a PM telling him he is an asshole.

See where you're going wrong here?

[kerosene]

Yeah, do you see where you are going wrong?

(I just thought I would add that, since nobody else thought to say it.)

Besides, Nirvana is kind of a mean guy. But as a woman, she is quite awesome.

[pensive pam]

perhaps, I should not have done it. But look at all the rude comments directed towards me... Now I risk banishment...

How long will I last???

I tried to be welcomed here...read the reason why I started this thread. Please.

Pam.

[monster]

Originally Posted by kerosene

Yeah, do you see where you are going wrong?

(I just thought I would add that, since nobody else thought to say it.)

Besides, Nirvana is kind of a mean guy. But as a woman, she is quite awesome.

you make a shitty guy too. You're far too artistic for a start. And you can clean.

i'd make a great bloke, though. I even have the jawbones for it

[monster]

nirvana is an american woman
wolf is an american woman
kerosene is an american woman

sorta see where you're going wrong here yet?

[monster]

@foot3, sorry, but it's a holiday, I want to go to the zoo and feed something. I'd rather it was giraffes, but I'll settle for pigeons if I have to.

[wolf]

You can't force people to welcome you or to agree with you.

The world is not divided into people who love you and people who despise you.

You are choosing to respond in negative ways.

You are choosing to present yourself in ways that might lead to negative interactions with others.

Take a couple of deep breaths.

And a couple more.

There are only three things you can get banished for here.

Trying to break the board.
Trying to use the board for something illegal.
And being insufferably annoying.

Okay, four if you count being banished for being a spammer.

But what I really trying to point out here is that the bar on "insufferably annoying" is set really high.

[pensive pam]

Originally Posted by wolf

You can't force people to welcome you or to agree with you.

The world is not divided into people who love you and people who despise you.

You are choosing to respond in negative ways.

You are choosing to present yourself in ways that might lead to negative interactions with others.

Take a couple of deep breaths.

And a couple more.

There are only three things you can get banished for here.

Trying to break the board.
Trying to use the board for something illegal.
And being insufferably annoying.

Okay, four if you count being banished for being a spammer.

But what I really trying to point out here is that the bar on "insufferably annoying" is set really high.

I am just asking for acceptance. When I post a thread, I want the thread to be ABOUT the thread, not about me. Yet, I am called a 'troller' or whatever that term is. I am only me. And now I need wine to calm down. Very upset! ....not sure waht to do or post again............ and sometimes I fake not being able to hear well because I just want to fit in. I ride the subways with an IPOD, yet I really can't hear it. If you really care, ... if you really want to know...read my posts... THEY are from my heart... there is not spam. If i am annnoying then it's best i l;eave. no?

[monster]

Originally Posted by pensive pam

I am just asking for acceptance.

yes you are.

When I post a thread, I want the thread to be ABOUT the thread, not about me.

but the thread is about you.

Yet, I am called a 'troller' or whatever that term is. I am only me. And now I need wine to calm down. Very upset! ....not sure waht to do or post again............ and sometimes I fake not being able to hear well because I just want to fit in. I ride the subways with an IPOD, yet I really can't hear it. If you really care, ... if you really want to know...read my posts... THEY are from my heart... there is not spam. If i am annnoying then it's best i l;eave. no?

yup

[pensive pam]

Originally Posted by monster

yes you are.



but the thread is about you.



yup

You sir, are mean...

[monster]

Originally Posted by pensive pam

You sir, are mean...

also female.

...and thanks ...I practice daily