Sinking Feeling? - Page 2

laebedahs · 10-30-2005, 10:23 AM

I think it's possible. I want joint custody, and the last time I talked to her about it she said she wanted to do that.

wolf · 10-30-2005, 11:48 AM

Don't trust that to remain her decision, especially after she starts talking to the lawyer.

And her girlfriends.

laebedahs · 10-30-2005, 12:26 PM

Oh, I don't; if we can't reach an agreement out of court, my parents have agreed to help me pay for a lawyer.

capnhowdy · 10-30-2005, 12:36 PM

the story ALWAYS changes when you walk in the courtroom.

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Don't trust that to remain her decision, especially after she starts talking to the lawyer.

And her girlfriends

and don't forget about her new boyfriend's expert advice.

laebedahs · 10-30-2005, 01:01 PM

I just asked a girl out at my work, she said yes! We're going to a haunted house tonight (she said she's never been to one). A feel better already... (well a little)

wolf · 10-30-2005, 02:23 PM

It will likely be fun, but don't give the wife additional ammunition until the paperwork is finalized.

Oh, and you might want to spend some time googling this: rebound -basketball

You'll thank me later.

laebedahs · 10-30-2005, 02:50 PM

I'm going to try avoiding that. I'm trying to avoiding thinking that she'll be a replacement; I just want to look forward to some fun, no strings attached.

Griff · 10-30-2005, 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by laebedahs

I just asked a girl out at my work, she said yes! We're going to a haunted house tonight (she said she's never been to one). A feel better already... (well a little)

Yah, be very careful. I know a woman who could've gotten in trouble even though he broke the vow first. Of course, he'd rather she stayed home with his kids while he lived the life so I guess she was never really going to lose custody.

laebedahs · 10-30-2005, 03:01 PM

Thanks for the advice. I know she wants what's best for our daughter, and I do too. I know she can change her mind, but she did say she wanted me to be a part of our daughter's life, and that just because we're not together anymore doesn't mean I shouldn't be in her life. I'm hoping she keeps true to that (at least until it's finalized in a divorce decree).

capnhowdy · 10-30-2005, 03:17 PM

HAUNTED HOUSE = GRABASS

have fun. and happy holiday.

wolf · 10-30-2005, 07:07 PM

No matter what your wife says about your daughter, the divorce is all about HER (the wife, I mean).

Trust me on this one. Hell hath no fury like an immature woman who thinks she's been scorned. Or missed out on something her friends got to do because they didn't get married and pregnant at an early age.

laebedahs · 10-30-2005, 07:26 PM

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Originally Posted by wolf

No matter what your wife says about your daughter, the divorce is all about HER (the wife, I mean).

Trust me on this one. Hell hath no fury like an immature woman who thinks she's been scorned. Or missed out on something her friends got to do because they didn't get married and pregnant at an early age.

That's the main reason she left. But, to be fair, she wanted to get married, she wanted to have a baby (marriage I thought I could handle, but the first few times she asked me for a baby I said no).

laebedahs · 10-31-2005, 12:27 AM

Back from the date! I had a great time. I couldn't find the haunted house, so we saw 40 Year Old Virgin instead. Great movie... and she wants to go on a second date!

Trilby · 10-31-2005, 05:58 AM

Good for you! Take it nice and slow, OK?

capnhowdy · 10-31-2005, 07:08 AM

See what I mean?

Feeling better already!

10-30-2005, 11:48 AM	#17
wolf lobber of scimitars Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Phila Burbs Posts: 20,774	Don't trust that to remain her decision, especially after she starts talking to the lawyer. And her girlfriends. __________________ wolf eht htiw og "Conspiracies are the norm, not the exception." --G. Edward Griffin The Creature from Jekyll Island High Priestess of the Church of the Whale Penis

10-30-2005, 02:23 PM	#21
wolf lobber of scimitars Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Phila Burbs Posts: 20,774	It will likely be fun, but don't give the wife additional ammunition until the paperwork is finalized. Oh, and you might want to spend some time googling this: rebound -basketball You'll thank me later. __________________ wolf eht htiw og "Conspiracies are the norm, not the exception." --G. Edward Griffin The Creature from Jekyll Island High Priestess of the Church of the Whale Penis

10-30-2005, 03:17 PM	#25
capnhowdy Blatantly Homosapien Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 6,200	HAUNTED HOUSE = GRABASS have fun. and happy holiday. __________________ Please type slowly. I can't read very fast............... and no holy water, please.

10-30-2005, 07:07 PM	#26
wolf lobber of scimitars Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Phila Burbs Posts: 20,774	No matter what your wife says about your daughter, the divorce is all about HER (the wife, I mean). Trust me on this one. Hell hath no fury like an immature woman who thinks she's been scorned. Or missed out on something her friends got to do because they didn't get married and pregnant at an early age. __________________ wolf eht htiw og "Conspiracies are the norm, not the exception." --G. Edward Griffin The Creature from Jekyll Island High Priestess of the Church of the Whale Penis

10-31-2005, 05:58 AM	#29
Trilby Slattern of the Swail Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 15,654	Good for you! Take it nice and slow, OK? __________________ In Barrie's play and novel, the roles of fairies are brief: they are allies to the Lost Boys, the source of fairy dust and ...They are portrayed as dangerous, whimsical and extremely clever but quite hedonistic. "Shall I give you a kiss?" Peter asked and, jerking an acorn button off his coat, solemnly presented it to her. —James Barrie Wimminfolk they be tricksy. - ZenGum

10-30-2005, 10:23 AM	#16
laebedahs Abecedarian Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 172	I think it's possible. I want joint custody, and the last time I talked to her about it she said she wanted to do that.

10-30-2005, 12:26 PM	#18
laebedahs Abecedarian Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 172	Oh, I don't; if we can't reach an agreement out of court, my parents have agreed to help me pay for a lawyer.

10-30-2005, 01:01 PM	#20
laebedahs Abecedarian Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 172	I just asked a girl out at my work, she said yes! We're going to a haunted house tonight (she said she's never been to one). A feel better already... (well a little)

10-30-2005, 02:50 PM	#22
laebedahs Abecedarian Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 172	I'm going to try avoiding that. I'm trying to avoiding thinking that she'll be a replacement; I just want to look forward to some fun, no strings attached.

10-30-2005, 03:01 PM	#24
laebedahs Abecedarian Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 172	Thanks for the advice. I know she wants what's best for our daughter, and I do too. I know she can change her mind, but she did say she wanted me to be a part of our daughter's life, and that just because we're not together anymore doesn't mean I shouldn't be in her life. I'm hoping she keeps true to that (at least until it's finalized in a divorce decree).

10-31-2005, 12:27 AM	#28
laebedahs Abecedarian Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 172	Back from the date! I had a great time. I couldn't find the haunted house, so we saw 40 Year Old Virgin instead. Great movie... and she wants to go on a second date!

10-31-2005, 07:08 AM	#30
capnhowdy Blatantly Homosapien Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 6,200	See what I mean? Feeling better already! __________________ Please type slowly. I can't read very fast............... and no holy water, please.

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