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Old 06-12-2009, 03:33 AM   #1
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Hey, dis! I'll be thinking of you.
(When you're finished at your place, do you want to come over and clean up mine (nothing improper here, just cleaning on offer!).
Be good to yourself!
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Old 06-12-2009, 02:30 AM   #2
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Yeah, not exactly a chick-magnet babe-lair, is it?
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Old 06-12-2009, 06:38 AM   #3
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Be well Dis. Time will take you far from this.
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Old 06-12-2009, 08:01 PM   #4
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I hope I'm wrong, but I don't think you're the only one she's stringing along. Been there. Been done like that. Learned fairly quickly. A one lesson course, so to speak. Graduated at the head of my class.
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Old 06-12-2009, 11:39 PM   #5
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beestie, capnhowdy: I guess that's what's changing in me. Not so much a "Gosh, I hope she hasn't found some other guy", but a "I hope I learn from this, whatever it was."
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Old 06-13-2009, 01:34 AM   #6
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beestie, capnhowdy: I guess that's what's changing in me. Not so much a "Gosh, I hope she hasn't found some other guy", but a "I hope I learn from this, whatever it was."
We all hope so too. Life is too short to go thru that shit twice.
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Old 06-13-2009, 11:09 PM   #7
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She sounds broken. Don't waste anymore time or energy thinking about what went wrong. Put your energy into fixin yourself and get back out there.
Trust me I am a doctor.
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Old 06-28-2009, 06:49 PM   #8
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So I was sitting at a coffeehouse this morning reading a book, looked up and saw an attractive lady in a sundress walk by. So I smiled at her and thought of this place.

A brief update:

I bought a bicycle a couple weeks ago and have been riding like a fiend. 30 miles this weekend alone. I figure I've spent enough of my life sitting on the couch, plus it gives me time to think and an outlet for all the emotional crap that's been stirring. Besides, what's the worst that can happen, I get in shape?

I've not heard from the ex, nor have I tried talking to her. I'm moving on with my life.

Thanks to all of you for the words.

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Old 06-28-2009, 07:13 PM   #9
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Good move Dis.
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Old 06-28-2009, 07:16 PM   #10
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Good for you, dis. You'll do just fine.


Thanks for the update.
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Old 06-28-2009, 09:20 PM   #11
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Yep. You got it now. Good luck. Keep us posted.
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Old 06-28-2009, 09:42 PM   #12
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post a picture of yourself
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Old 06-28-2009, 10:26 PM   #13
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Oh no, now you're going to have to put up with those bicycle groupies.
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Old 06-29-2009, 02:27 AM   #14
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Oh no, now you're going to have to put up with those bicycle groupies.
Well, I guess that does explain why Lumberjim wants me to post a picture.
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Old 06-29-2009, 03:52 AM   #15
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Oh no, now you're going to have to put up with those bicycle groupies.
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Well, I guess that does explain why Lumberjim wants me to post a picture.


Good for you dis. Sounds like you're heading in the right direction now.
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