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I love it when a plan comes together.
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07-08-2012, 10:55 PM | #32 |
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Sorry, bro. You know, you'll work through this, and keep on bein' you.
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07-09-2012, 12:19 AM | #33 |
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Damn Tony. Hopin it gets a little better for you every day.
At least now you've got no excuse to miss bowling with Jim & I.
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07-09-2012, 06:46 AM | #34 |
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Well, crap.
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07-09-2012, 09:07 AM | #35 |
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I'm so sorry to read this. WE LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
07-09-2012, 09:38 AM | #36 | |
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07-09-2012, 09:39 AM | #37 |
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someone find that post Tony made where he was playing Bass in his old band, and there were some chicks hitting on him.
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Sorry to hear this, Tony
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07-09-2012, 10:04 AM | #39 | |
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She never wanted to go anywhere. She was actually apologetic about her weight. A few times we would run into people I knew and she was always like, oh god oh god I'm sorry people had to see you with me. And I was like, J, christ, don't ever say that. Shit happens.
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07-09-2012, 10:24 AM | #40 |
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oh. maybe that was some other UT I know.
or maybe we talked about it in chat. or maybe I'm seeing the FUTURE!
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07-09-2012, 10:41 AM | #41 |
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Chicks hit on the skinny guitarist, not the fat bassist, it's just a fact of life.
eta no there was that one time when this lovely dark gal shook her ass directly at me, but it wasn't hitting on me, she immediately left after that, but I took it as her way of saying that I was bringing some serious funk which for a bassist is even better than actually getting hit on. |
07-09-2012, 10:45 AM | #42 |
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Thats what I was thinking of.
And she was hitting on you...and girls like the thick string. •spoken in to my phone
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07-09-2012, 11:28 AM | #43 |
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"feels good after it stops hurtin"
I hope that will be your future [hugs]
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07-09-2012, 12:19 PM | #44 |
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Very sad. Sorry, UT.
But here's the thing - after all that time of being a part of something else, you need time to be yourself again. It sucks not having your partner there to chat with, bounce ideas off of, or just sit in silence, but you're clearly healthy in the head or you wouldn't be in mourning at the moment. So, PLEASE don't try to fill the temporary void with anything else but yourself for at least six months, longer if possible. When my ex and I broke up after 11 years, I was just... broken, for want of a better word. I felt like one of my lungs had stopped working, or something. But I learned to breathe again. And in that learning process, I discovered that I was actually a better, happier, healthier person on my own. I realized that I was what fulfilled me, and that whatever came along in the form of another person/relationship would be the icing on the cake that was me. BE THE CAKE! |
07-09-2012, 12:37 PM | #45 | |
We have to go back, Kate!
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be the cake! I like it.
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