Blind date from hell?

[Iggy]

Originally Posted by sully58

HAHAHAHA You KNOW you love me. So I can say whatever I want

BITCH!


Maybe if his swims fast enough, you can catch up with me and Shay!!!

I turn my head for two seconds and look what you two have done to the place! lol

[KinkyVixen]

Oh well you know you can always get it from me. You just have to ask in the right way. So you work on that, and get back to me. Ok?

[xoxoxoBruce]

Originally Posted by KinkyVixen

....... sighed a huge sigh of relief and called a friend to talk.

Of course.

What I’m wondering is, was the guy creepy or is UW a cold heartless bitch?

Maybe it was his first post-divorce date, or learned to be suave from porn flicks or likely, just clueless. But, it really doesn't matter, if you don't click, you don't click. End of story.

In fairness to your Mom, he probably didn't view her as a prospective mate and probably was, really nice to her.

We get caught up in our fantasies sometimes, especially if there is a period of time between making the date and actually going. Too much time to worry, overthink, worry more and actually rehearse our lines. Once the lines, that sounded so good at home, have been rehearsed, we gotta use 'em. The more things look like they're going into the crapper, the less spontaneous we can be and have to use the lines.

Blind dates, if not avoided completely, should be limited to ball games, casinos and such, where there is plenty of entertainment. That way there can be as much or little conversation as desired, and distraction so you're not forced to stare at each other during those dreaded lulls.

[sully58]

What if I lace my fingers with your and gently stroke your fingers....flip your hair out of your coat and then maybe drool as I look deeply into your eyes....

would that work?!?!?

I am going to have nightmares.
I've had a few nutty chick dates like that.

[WabUfvot5]

There is socially awkward and there is disturbing. That guy = disturbing.

[Madman]

Without a doubt. A creep! A real creep!! This is the kind of guy that ends up marrying the shy, insecure lady because he feels he has the ability to do what he wants.

You'll see this dipshit on Primetime doing an interview with Chris Hanson someday. Frigging pervert. I can see it now...

Hanson: Mr. Pervert, what were you going to do with that 13 year old girl?
Pervert: I just wanted to touch her hair and feel her hands.
Hanson: That's not what you said in the chat room now is it?
Pervert: Well, ah, well no... er' yes. But I was only kidding.
Hanson: Did you know she was only 13?
Pervert: No. I thought it was my wife playing a joke on me.
Hanson: Your wife visits chat rooms with you?
Pervert: No. I don't let her do anything except feed all my desires of life.

Why couldn't he just be a gentleman without all the "touching?" You know, open car doors, talk about her interests, stuff like that.

[freshnesschronic]

funny, i used a similar tactic on my first date with my girl.
<<walking out of movie theatre to panera bread>>
Fresh: "oh man, my hands are cold... will you hold them for me?"
yeah cheesy, corny and very hammy but hey it worked and I got her!

^you asked... as far as we know, once, and not in that "violating" kinda' way.

Woke-up one morning, kinda cold, air was on too low, went to open the window to my room. Chick I dated once was standing there....
"Hi"
"Hi"
"What-cha', doin'?"
"Just wanted to make sure you were there... I missed you."
We had a talk the next day.

To me the truly strange thing is that the date that we had went really well.

[KinkyVixen]

Well Iggy, fortunately for me this time it was all her doing. She's sick and twisted...at least that's what she wants people to believe. I tried to hold her hand and she pushed me away. I must go cry now.

[Iggy]

As always, there is the Clinton tactic, Mr. Smooth!
*whip it out and say* "wanna' kiss it"?
Just cut to the damn chase. Sure, perhaps buy her a drink first... perhaps, don't know why, but, what tha' hell?

Now, that's a date! Bow to the master guys, just not too closely.

[KinkyVixen]

lol RK, good call... i mean i coulda walked away from the date with stains on my dress and a bad taste in my mouth...

I'm tellin' ya' he has pared it down to pure Zen... just the barest essentials... The MASTER!