Angry at my husband - Page 3

Aliantha · 10-26-2007, 04:56 AM

Yeah...maybe I should try that. He prefers sherry though, so maybe i should get him tipsy on sherry (while I get smashed on wine) and then have wild reckless sex.

smurfalicious · 10-26-2007, 06:34 AM

I can totally relate - I once had a dream about papa smurf banging some unattractive fat chick that we know in a shower and watching it and being horrified, and when I approached him about it he was unbelievably cruel to me. I woke up sweating and near tears.

I couldn't look at him or hardly speak to him for the rest of the day, it bothered me so much. But I told him why and that I couldn't shake it and he let me be.

Aliantha · 10-26-2007, 06:41 AM

thank God! I thought I was the only neurotic one on this forum. lol

HungLikeJesus · 10-26-2007, 09:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Aliantha

thank God! I thought I was the only neurotic one on this forum. lol

Are you kidding? I thought that was practically a prerequisite.

lookout123 · 10-26-2007, 11:04 AM

years and years ago when i was in the air force i dreamed that i got one of those middle-of-the-night phone calls to tell me that my dad had died. i had already gotten out of bed, pulled myself together, showered dressed, packed my bag, and was calling a cab to the airport when it finally registered that it had been a dream.

yuck.

binky · 10-26-2007, 01:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Aliantha

The night before last, I had a dream where my husband had asked me and the kids (including the extras) to meet him at his office after work so we could all go somewhere for dinner. When we got there, he wasn't there and then he called and was drunk and had forgotten about us. (something he'd never do in real life).

I woke up feeling so pissed off with him that I could barely speak. I stayed pissed off with him all day yesterday and just couldn't stop it. It was really weird. Like gremlins had entered my head and made me totally irrational or something.

Anyway, last night there was a bit of a do at his work and he was home a bit late, but not drunk and definitely not really late. We were all still up. The problem was, that because I was still feeling this crankyness, he thought I was pissed off because he was late, but i was too embarrassed to tell him it was nothing to do with that. lol

Poor bugger. I don't know how he puts up with me sometimes.

Anyway, have you ever had a dream that's affected you like that?

Had a dream once where my husband and I went camping, then he disappears for a while, and comes back naked, hand in hand with his ex girlfriend(also naked) I was pissed for a whole day lol

Pie · 10-26-2007, 03:38 PM

Yep, Ali, I've had durned similar dreams too. Took me a good couple of hours /days to get over it. It's almost like my mind decides it is a "real" memory since the feelings in the dream are so strong.

Aliantha · 10-26-2007, 08:46 PM

Thanks everyone for letting me forgive myself for being a fucking bitch to my husband for really no reason.

I'm glad to know that other people carry the emotions from their dreams around with them for a while. I was kinda freaked out that I was feeling that way for such a period of time.

DanaC · 10-27-2007, 12:15 PM

lol Rich!

ElBandito · 10-29-2007, 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Aliantha

The night before last, I had a dream where my husband had asked me and the kids (including the extras) to meet him at his office after work so we could all go somewhere for dinner. When we got there, he wasn't there and then he called and was drunk and had forgotten about us. (something he'd never do in real life).

I had this in real life.

My partner and I had arranged a 'date' together. This is a big thing, because with the children we don't get time out. I'd arranged sitters and so-on, and had plans to take her out on the town.
However she decided to go along to after-work drinks. So I rolled up in the car outside her work, after dropping off the kids, not knowing that she'd already left for drinks and waited.
...and waited.
...and waited.
Then I started calling her cellphone to see where she was.
It rang through to voicemail.
And again.
And again.
I got a little frantic; she hadn't come out of her work (that I couldn't get into to find her), and she wasn't answering her phone. Anything could have happened. I was on the verge of calling the police.
And then I saw someone I knew from her work. 90 minutes after she was supposed to have finished work. I ran up and asked them. "Oh, she's at the bar down the road."
I race down there. And 'lo, there she is. Chatting on her phone to a friend. Having not heard all of my calls through to her cellphone, she heard it ring when the friend called through.
So I was fuming and knew that it'd be all bad if I grabbed her then. So I took a look, made sure she was okay, and took off to grab the kids from the babysitters.
Then I came back, picked her drunk ass up and took her home.

I'm still, really, really, bitterly annoyed about it.

lumberjim · 10-29-2007, 04:39 PM

well, just so you're not pissed off in your sleep at her....

Sundae · 10-29-2007, 04:45 PM

You were in my dream the other night. You & Jinx had had a third child and called her Margaret Julia. I hated the name (I dislike it in real life) and was torn as to how I responded to your news.

Anything Jinx would like to tell us?

lumberjim · 10-29-2007, 04:53 PM

yes,
Her sister is pregnant. The names theyve selected are Margaret and Julia.

Sundae · 10-29-2007, 04:57 PM

I knew I was psychic.
Tomorrow I am going to take out expensive ads in the back of all of the supermarket magazines!

Madman · 11-06-2007, 01:04 PM

My wife told me that she had a dream before and she was pissed off at me all day long. Maybe that is why I come home sometimes and she is in just a rotten mood - bitching, pissing, moaning, whining, complaining, grouchy, moody, beligerent and just plain "unloving."

I mean... to know me is to love me! pure bullshit here....

She has always told me when she had one of "those" dreams. I can't help but to laugh.

10-26-2007, 04:56 AM	#1
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	Yeah...maybe I should try that. He prefers sherry though, so maybe i should get him tipsy on sherry (while I get smashed on wine) and then have wild reckless sex. __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

10-26-2007, 06:34 AM	#2
smurfalicious Tool. Not the band - you are one. Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: 501 Northlake Blvd., North Palm Beach FL Posts: 329	I can totally relate - I once had a dream about papa smurf banging some unattractive fat chick that we know in a shower and watching it and being horrified, and when I approached him about it he was unbelievably cruel to me. I woke up sweating and near tears. I couldn't look at him or hardly speak to him for the rest of the day, it bothered me so much. But I told him why and that I couldn't shake it and he let me be. __________________

10-26-2007, 06:41 AM	#3
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	thank God! I thought I was the only neurotic one on this forum. lol __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

10-26-2007, 11:04 AM	#5
lookout123 changed his status to single Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Right behind you. No, the other side. Posts: 10,308	years and years ago when i was in the air force i dreamed that i got one of those middle-of-the-night phone calls to tell me that my dad had died. i had already gotten out of bed, pulled myself together, showered dressed, packed my bag, and was calling a cab to the airport when it finally registered that it had been a dream. yuck. __________________ Getting knocked down is no sin, it's not getting back up that's the sin

10-26-2007, 03:38 PM	#7
Pie Gone and done Join Date: Sep 2001 Posts: 4,808	Yep, Ali, I've had durned similar dreams too. Took me a good couple of hours /days to get over it. It's almost like my mind decides it is a "real" memory since the feelings in the dream are so strong. __________________ per·son \ˈpər-sən\ (noun) - an ephemeral collection of small, irrational decisions The fun thing about evolution (and science in general) is that it happens whether you believe in it or not.

10-26-2007, 08:46 PM	#8
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	Thanks everyone for letting me forgive myself for being a fucking bitch to my husband for really no reason. I'm glad to know that other people carry the emotions from their dreams around with them for a while. I was kinda freaked out that I was feeling that way for such a period of time. __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

10-27-2007, 12:15 PM	#9
DanaC We have to go back, Kate! Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Yorkshire Posts: 25,964	lol Rich!

10-29-2007, 04:39 PM	#11
lumberjim I can hear my ears Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 25,571	well, just so you're not pissed off in your sleep at her.... __________________ This body holding me reminds me of my own mortality Embrace this moment, remember We are eternal, all this pain is an illusion ~MJKeenan

10-29-2007, 04:45 PM	#12
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	You were in my dream the other night. You & Jinx had had a third child and called her Margaret Julia. I hated the name (I dislike it in real life) and was torn as to how I responded to your news. Anything Jinx would like to tell us? __________________ Life's hard you know, so strike a pose on a Cadillac

10-29-2007, 04:53 PM	#13
lumberjim I can hear my ears Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 25,571	yes, Her sister is pregnant. The names theyve selected are Margaret and Julia. __________________ This body holding me reminds me of my own mortality Embrace this moment, remember We are eternal, all this pain is an illusion ~MJKeenan

10-29-2007, 04:57 PM	#14
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	I knew I was psychic. Tomorrow I am going to take out expensive ads in the back of all of the supermarket magazines! __________________ Life's hard you know, so strike a pose on a Cadillac

11-06-2007, 01:04 PM	#15
Madman has left the building. Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 455	My wife told me that she had a dream before and she was pissed off at me all day long. Maybe that is why I come home sometimes and she is in just a rotten mood - bitching, pissing, moaning, whining, complaining, grouchy, moody, beligerent and just plain "unloving." I mean... to know me is to love me! pure bullshit here.... She has always told me when she had one of "those" dreams. I can't help but to laugh.

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