Good v's Bad? - Page 4

BigV · 06-14-2006, 12:50 PM

Sex is good--granted. But communication is better. Why do I fuck that up?

Iggy · 06-14-2006, 03:06 PM

That I can't answer without knowing what your communication is exactly. Some people just don't know how to have good communication, and no matter what you do to fix their communication, it will always be a battle.

The problem I have sometimes is don't know what I want. So how can I communicate what bothers me and what should change when I don't know? But there isn't really anything (besides analyzing myself) that I can do about that. I think you must know what you want to happen in order to have good communication. And the other person has to know as well, or at least it seems that way to me.

DucksNuts · 06-14-2006, 05:56 PM

Whoa Whoa Whoa!!!!!

No communication, No sex???? No, no, no!!!...can we at least have an age limit??

KinkyVixen · 06-14-2006, 06:19 PM

A bad lay for me happens when the guy only cares about himself (not caring if I get a "grand finale" too. Or if I've had sex because he wanted it, and I didn't...and I never got into it (maybe because I wasn't feeling like being that intimate with him).

footfootfoot · 06-14-2006, 07:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Iggy

They already have the "no glove, no love" phase, I think we should add yours as well.

No communication, no sex.

Well that cuts out necrophilia...

wolf · 06-14-2006, 10:52 PM

Not if you're a medium.

footfootfoot · 06-14-2006, 11:15 PM

That's what I love about you wolf; you're a "can do" type of thinker.

Iggy · 06-16-2006, 03:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by wolf

Not if you're a medium.

06-14-2006, 12:50 PM	#46
BigV Goon Squad Leader Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Seattle Posts: 27,063	Sex is good--granted. But communication is better. Why do I fuck that up? __________________ Be Just and Fear Not.

06-14-2006, 03:06 PM	#47
Iggy Back and ready to tart up the place Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Kansas Posts: 850	That I can't answer without knowing what your communication is exactly. Some people just don't know how to have good communication, and no matter what you do to fix their communication, it will always be a battle. The problem I have sometimes is don't know what I want. So how can I communicate what bothers me and what should change when I don't know? But there isn't really anything (besides analyzing myself) that I can do about that. I think you must know what you want to happen in order to have good communication. And the other person has to know as well, or at least it seems that way to me. __________________ Chock-full of naughty goodness.

06-14-2006, 06:19 PM	#49
KinkyVixen Marching In! Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Wichita, KS Posts: 580	A bad lay for me happens when the guy only cares about himself (not caring if I get a "grand finale" too. Or if I've had sex because he wanted it, and I didn't...and I never got into it (maybe because I wasn't feeling like being that intimate with him). __________________ "Smile before bed.You'll sleep better."

06-14-2006, 10:52 PM	#51
wolf lobber of scimitars Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Phila Burbs Posts: 20,774	Not if you're a medium. __________________ wolf eht htiw og "Conspiracies are the norm, not the exception." --G. Edward Griffin The Creature from Jekyll Island High Priestess of the Church of the Whale Penis

06-14-2006, 11:15 PM	#52
footfootfoot To shreds, you say? Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: in the house and on the street-how many, many feet we meet! Posts: 18,449	That's what I love about you wolf; you're a "can do" type of thinker. __________________ The internet is a hateful stew of vomit you can never take completely seriously. - Her Fobs

06-14-2006, 05:56 PM	#48
DucksNuts Bitchy Little Brat Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Queensland, Australia Posts: 5,067	Whoa Whoa Whoa!!!!! No communication, No sex???? No, no, no!!!...can we at least have an age limit??

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