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Shawnee123 · 02-11-2008, 11:01 AM

Yeah, and why is the slimeball sliding on this again? From what you've said, it's pretty clear cut. Nail his pansy balls to some wall where everyone can see what a limp dick he really is. You owe him NOTHING!

Trilby · 02-11-2008, 11:07 AM

I called the head of special student services, told her the cut and dry version (I"ve not made a fuss, i've got straight A's, I've got cancer and he's asked me to leave as I am 'effecting' his teaching) and she was like WHAT? she said she would not mention any names but would get with somebody or other (I can't keep all these people straight) and see what was exactly what. I did cheat a little. I told her, "You know, he's told me I'm one of his favorite students," and she said, (knowingly) "he may have some issues here." I don't want to nail him--I want him to admit to what is going ON. IF it's my cancer, I own the college. If it's personal, I'll let it go.

Shawnee123 · 02-11-2008, 11:09 AM

SO glad to hear it, Bri.

And yes, I'm harsh about nailing him...you are taking a much calmer and better approach...and you're right, he just needs to be accountable about his real reasons.

xoxoxoBruce · 02-11-2008, 11:12 AM

It's your choice, to let it go or not. But, don't let him screw your record or finances, in any case.

skysidhe · 02-11-2008, 11:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Brianna

I called the head of special student services, told her the cut and dry version

yay! for you!

DanaC · 02-11-2008, 02:44 PM

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IF it's my cancer, I own the college. If it's personal, I'll let it go.

Uh uh. If it's personal, it's still his problem. You are not responsible for his desires no matter what kind of flirt you may be when well. If he can't separate his feelings for you as a woman and his feelings for you as a student then that is deeply unprofessional of him. Besides, if it's just 'personal' why would it only come up when you are dealing with this problem?

classicman · 02-11-2008, 06:19 PM

Good point Dana - I agree 100% - Whether this is personal or your cancer - Its not YOUR problem - its his!

Elspode · 02-11-2008, 07:59 PM

Call a lawyer today. Well, tomorrow, when they're awake.

If this guy is seriously having a problem with your condition, he's a poor excuse for a human being, let alone a professor.

monster · 02-11-2008, 08:07 PM

FFS nail the bastard to the wall. You're a strong person. Imagine what he gets away with with weaker people. He's probably worried that you'll flunk the course and bring his pass rate down, or something equally loathsome.

Trilby · 02-13-2008, 12:57 PM

I"ve given up. he wins.

and now, as my sister says, the karmic wheel will turn. the last email I got from him----keep him INFORMED?! okay--I died already.

>> I am sure the Plath paper will be very great, some day.

Please keep me informed about how you are doing, Claudette.

Jim <<

classicman · 02-13-2008, 01:27 PM

Whaaaaaaattttttt???? When? why? How? What changed??

xoxoxoBruce · 02-13-2008, 01:44 PM

Shit.

regular.joe · 02-13-2008, 03:01 PM

Brianna,

What is his name. What is the name of the institution. What class.

Flint · 02-13-2008, 03:04 PM

WTF?! This is bullshit!

jinx · 02-13-2008, 03:05 PM

Why are you giving up??? Did you hear back from the lady you spoke to?

02-11-2008, 11:12 AM	#64
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	It's your choice, to let it go or not. But, don't let him screw your record or finances, in any case. __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

02-11-2008, 06:19 PM	#67
classicman barely disguised asshole, keeper of all that is holy. Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 23,401	Good point Dana - I agree 100% - Whether this is personal or your cancer - Its not YOUR problem - its his! __________________ "like strapping a pillow on a bull in a china shop" Bullitt

02-11-2008, 07:59 PM	#68
Elspode When Do I Get Virtual Unreality? Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Raytown, Missouri Posts: 12,719	Call a lawyer today. Well, tomorrow, when they're awake. If this guy is seriously having a problem with your condition, he's a poor excuse for a human being, let alone a professor. __________________ "To those of you who are wearing ties, I think my dad would appreciate it if you took them off." - Robert Moog

02-11-2008, 08:07 PM	#69
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	FFS nail the bastard to the wall. You're a strong person. Imagine what he gets away with with weaker people. He's probably worried that you'll flunk the course and bring his pass rate down, or something equally loathsome. __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

02-13-2008, 01:27 PM	#71
classicman barely disguised asshole, keeper of all that is holy. Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 23,401	Whaaaaaaattttttt???? When? why? How? What changed?? __________________ "like strapping a pillow on a bull in a china shop" Bullitt

02-11-2008, 11:01 AM	#61
Shawnee123 Why, you're a regular Alfred E Einstein, ain't ya? Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 21,206	Yeah, and why is the slimeball sliding on this again? From what you've said, it's pretty clear cut. Nail his pansy balls to some wall where everyone can see what a limp dick he really is. You owe him NOTHING!

02-11-2008, 11:07 AM	#62
Trilby Slattern of the Swail Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 15,654	I called the head of special student services, told her the cut and dry version (I"ve not made a fuss, i've got straight A's, I've got cancer and he's asked me to leave as I am 'effecting' his teaching) and she was like WHAT? she said she would not mention any names but would get with somebody or other (I can't keep all these people straight) and see what was exactly what. I did cheat a little. I told her, "You know, he's told me I'm one of his favorite students," and she said, (knowingly) "he may have some issues here." I don't want to nail him--I want him to admit to what is going ON. IF it's my cancer, I own the college. If it's personal, I'll let it go.

02-11-2008, 11:09 AM	#63
Shawnee123 Why, you're a regular Alfred E Einstein, ain't ya? Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 21,206	SO glad to hear it, Bri. And yes, I'm harsh about nailing him...you are taking a much calmer and better approach...and you're right, he just needs to be accountable about his real reasons.

02-13-2008, 12:57 PM	#70
Trilby Slattern of the Swail Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 15,654	I"ve given up. he wins. and now, as my sister says, the karmic wheel will turn. the last email I got from him----keep him INFORMED?! okay--I died already. >> I am sure the Plath paper will be very great, some day. Please keep me informed about how you are doing, Claudette. Jim <<

02-13-2008, 01:44 PM	#72
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	Shit. __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

02-13-2008, 03:01 PM	#73
regular.joe Старый сержант Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: NC, dreaming of large Russian women. Posts: 1,464	Brianna, What is his name. What is the name of the institution. What class. __________________ Birth, wealth, and position are valueless during wartime. Man is only judged by his character --Soldier's Testament. Death, like birth, is a secret of Nature. - Marcus Aurelius.

02-13-2008, 03:04 PM	#74
Flint Snowflake Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Dystopia Posts: 13,136	WTF?! This is bullshit! __________________ **************** There's a level of facility that everyone needs to accomplish, and from there it's a matter of deciding for yourself how important ultra-facility is to your expression. ... I found, like Joseph Campbell said, if you just follow whatever gives you a little joy or excitement or awe, then you're on the right track. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Terry Bozzio**

02-13-2008, 03:05 PM	#75
jinx Come on, cat. Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: general vicinity of Philadelphia area Posts: 7,013	Why are you giving up??? Did you hear back from the lady you spoke to? __________________ Crying won't help you, praying won't do you no good.

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