The Sex Thread - Page 5

lookout123 · 06-02-2005, 10:54 AM

how many children older? some (not all) seem to get the "i'm a mother now, i can't do that" syndrome whether they realize it or not.

what - just because you are a mother now you can't have sex on the hood of a car anymore?

SteveDallas · 06-02-2005, 11:35 AM

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Originally Posted by lookout123

what - just because you are a mother now you can't have sex on the hood of a car anymore?

"I'm sorry, dear, we're going to have to get rid of the handcuffs."

elSicomoro · 06-02-2005, 10:54 AM

The minute I hear "no," that's it. I don't play with "no."

That reminds me of the episode of Chappelle's Show where he breaks out the Love Contract and the Confidentiality Agreement...we'll all need those eventually.

lookout123 · 06-02-2005, 10:56 AM

no doesn't always mean no. once upon a time a lady i was dating kept getting pissed because i wouldn't pursue after she said no. sometimes it only means not yet - you haven't said or done the right thing to make the proposition attractive yet.

"fuck off and die you horny bastard or i'll stab you in your sleep" means exactly what it sounds like though.

elSicomoro · 06-02-2005, 11:09 AM

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Originally Posted by lookout123

no doesn't always mean no. once upon a time a lady i was dating kept getting pissed because i wouldn't pursue after she said no. sometimes it only means not yet - you haven't said or done the right thing to make the proposition attractive yet.

I don't play games with "no." It's too risky to do so these days.

Silent · 06-02-2005, 01:22 PM

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Originally Posted by sycamore

The minute I hear "no," that's it. I don't play with "no."

You know, now that I think about it, I don't even really come out and ask about sex.
A kiss, a cuddle, a nuzzle, a caress...if she is receptive (whether she knows or not) I can usually tell and progress from there.

My lady (of 8 years now

) and I are very in tune with the others feelings as far aggression levels, intimacy desired, top/bottom leanings etc.
She is the most compatable partner I've ever had. The first person I've been with who is completely non-judgemental about sex play.

And she can be nasty, bless her little heart.

As far as chicks on chicks, I don't understand why there aren't more lesbians. The female form is so much nicer to look at, touch, explore...if I were a women I'd definitely be gay. Men are just smelly and hairy.

elSicomoro · 06-02-2005, 02:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Silent

You know, now that I think about it, I don't even really come out and ask about sex.
A kiss, a cuddle, a nuzzle, a caress...if she is receptive (whether she knows or not) I can usually tell and progress from there.

The only time I ever ask is usually on the "First times." And it's not like I'd ever come out of my face with, "Excuse me, would you like to have sex?" Though I could see myself doing that in a humorous way.

But even if I've been with the person for a while...if I want to do something/have something done and "suggest" it, and I get a verbal "no," then "no" it is.

kerosene · 06-02-2005, 03:18 PM

I like toys, but only once in a while. We don't usually include them on a regular basis. We like to read good erotic porn sometimes. We will read it to each other.

elSicomoro · 06-02-2005, 11:37 AM

"Dad, can I borrow your handcuffs?"

Clodfobble · 06-02-2005, 11:38 AM

I imagine most of the women who wish to be forcefully "taken" (myself included--I've never said no but I definitely prefer not to initiate) are in long-term exclusive relationships, where the guy should know exactly what "no" means.

If this is some chick you met in a bar, yeah, no means no. If this is your wife who has in the past reacted well when you were aggressive, it probably means something else.

If you don't know what no means with a particular woman, perhaps you should re-evaluate the relationship...

Lady Sidhe · 06-02-2005, 01:57 PM

Hm...I'm the "toybox" type. Everything from massage oils to feather boas to kathy's kuffs. I'm all about surprise...having a child without her own bedroom, in a small house, makes it a little more difficult, though..

And it's gotta be reciprocal. It's no fun if only one person is the one to start it all the time. I have to agree with Stacey about that. I don't mind starting it now and then, but sometimes you just want to feel irresistible and get chased around the house...

And guys, foreplay--good foreplay ("wanna fuck?" is NOT foreplay, incidentally)--is probably the best thing in the world to do if you want to get attacked as the stud that you are... *grins*...and cuddling afterward will gain you LOTS of brownie points.

Silent--men are SUPPOSED to be hairy. I just so can't be attracted to a man without body hair. I don't mean someone whose back hair needs to be cut with garden shears or anything--but men are supposed to have, like, hairy legs, hairy arms, and chest hair, and all of that good caveman stuff.

(Ray Stevens) ...He had hairy boots, hairy legs, hairy arms, hairy chest, hairy chin, and a hairy hat--shaped like a big bullet, with horns comin' out the sides. His mama named him Erik cause she couldn't spell "AAAAGGGHH!!"(/Ray Stevens)

Incidentally, I read an article once that said that hairiness in men was linked to intelligence. *shrug* Who'd've thunk it?

LCanal · 06-02-2005, 08:17 PM

A woman friend of mine confided one day that her favourites was to tie her lover down with toilet paper and they proceed to ravish him with all the toys and techniques she could muster.

Toilet paper? I imagine some of you thinking whaaat. That's so dumb. Toilet paper will break at the slightest movement.

Who's catching on here?

She claimed she told her lovers that she would stop what she was doing if the paper broke. Apparently the experience was good enough to assure long term "relationships"

perth · 06-02-2005, 10:12 PM

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Originally Posted by LCanal

...tie her lover down with toilet paper

That is a great idea and it is my new life's goal to make sure that somehow, some way, my girlfriend finds her way here and reads that.

elSicomoro · 06-03-2005, 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by perth

That is a great idea and it is my new life's goal to make sure that somehow, some way, my girlfriend finds her way here and reads that.

Browse this thread as she happens to look over your shoulder.

vsp · 06-03-2005, 01:21 PM

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Originally Posted by LCanal

She claimed she told her lovers that she would stop what she was doing if the paper broke.

That is delightfully diabolical and has been added to my "To Do" list.

06-02-2005, 10:54 AM	#1
lookout123 changed his status to single Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Right behind you. No, the other side. Posts: 10,308	how many children older? some (not all) seem to get the "i'm a mother now, i can't do that" syndrome whether they realize it or not. what - just because you are a mother now you can't have sex on the hood of a car anymore? __________________ Getting knocked down is no sin, it's not getting back up that's the sin

06-02-2005, 10:56 AM	#4
lookout123 changed his status to single Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Right behind you. No, the other side. Posts: 10,308	no doesn't always mean no. once upon a time a lady i was dating kept getting pissed because i wouldn't pursue after she said no. sometimes it only means not yet - you haven't said or done the right thing to make the proposition attractive yet. "fuck off and die you horny bastard or i'll stab you in your sleep" means exactly what it sounds like though. __________________ Getting knocked down is no sin, it's not getting back up that's the sin

06-02-2005, 11:38 AM	#10
Clodfobble UNDER CONDITIONAL MITIGATION Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 20,012	I imagine most of the women who wish to be forcefully "taken" (myself included--I've never said no but I definitely prefer not to initiate) are in long-term exclusive relationships, where the guy should know exactly what "no" means. If this is some chick you met in a bar, yeah, no means no. If this is your wife who has in the past reacted well when you were aggressive, it probably means something else. If you don't know what no means with a particular woman, perhaps you should re-evaluate the relationship... __________________ My book My other book My spirit animal

06-02-2005, 01:57 PM	#11
Lady Sidhe That's my story and I'm stickin' to it.... Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Hammond, La. Posts: 978	Hm...I'm the "toybox" type. Everything from massage oils to feather boas to kathy's kuffs. I'm all about surprise...having a child without her own bedroom, in a small house, makes it a little more difficult, though.. And it's gotta be reciprocal. It's no fun if only one person is the one to start it all the time. I have to agree with Stacey about that. I don't mind starting it now and then, but sometimes you just want to feel irresistible and get chased around the house... And guys, foreplay--good foreplay ("wanna fuck?" is NOT foreplay, incidentally)--is probably the best thing in the world to do if you want to get attacked as the stud that you are... grins...and cuddling afterward will gain you LOTS of brownie points. Silent--men are SUPPOSED to be hairy. I just so can't be attracted to a man without body hair. I don't mean someone whose back hair needs to be cut with garden shears or anything--but men are supposed to have, like, hairy legs, hairy arms, and chest hair, and all of that good caveman stuff. (Ray Stevens) ...He had hairy boots, hairy legs, hairy arms, hairy chest, hairy chin, and a hairy hat--shaped like a big bullet, with horns comin' out the sides. His mama named him Erik cause she couldn't spell "AAAAGGGHH!!"(/Ray Stevens) Incidentally, I read an article once that said that hairiness in men was linked to intelligence. shrug Who'd've thunk it? __________________ My free will...I never leave home without it. --House Someday I want to be rich. Some people get so rich they lose all respect for humanity. That's how rich I want to be. -Rita Rudner Last edited by Lady Sidhe; 06-02-2005 at 02:07 PM.

06-02-2005, 08:17 PM	#12
LCanal I hope to be the kind of person my dog thinks I am Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Sumatra Posts: 257	A woman friend of mine confided one day that her favourites was to tie her lover down with toilet paper and they proceed to ravish him with all the toys and techniques she could muster. Toilet paper? I imagine some of you thinking whaaat. That's so dumb. Toilet paper will break at the slightest movement. Who's catching on here? She claimed she told her lovers that she would stop what she was doing if the paper broke. Apparently the experience was good enough to assure long term "relationships" __________________ "Happiness is like sex. In order to get any good out of it, you have to give it to someone else."

06-02-2005, 10:54 AM	#3
elSicomoro Person who doesn't update the user title Join Date: Jan 2001 Posts: 12,486	The minute I hear "no," that's it. I don't play with "no." That reminds me of the episode of Chappelle's Show where he breaks out the Love Contract and the Confidentiality Agreement...we'll all need those eventually.

06-02-2005, 03:18 PM	#8
kerosene Touring the facilities Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: The plains of Colorado Posts: 3,476	I like toys, but only once in a while. We don't usually include them on a regular basis. We like to read good erotic porn sometimes. We will read it to each other.

06-02-2005, 11:37 AM	#9
elSicomoro Person who doesn't update the user title Join Date: Jan 2001 Posts: 12,486	"Dad, can I borrow your handcuffs?"

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