Be a post whore! - Page 55

Trilby · 08-30-2008, 02:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Sundae Girl

Ever notice how getting pregnant is so much worse than having sex?

YES.

having a baby also affects relationship dynamics. The girl says, "well, he's having sex with another woman. Asshole." THEN the other girl gets preggers and now there is a whole 'nother dimension to it. It's no longer him and her and her. It's him and her and her and the baby. Babies change the dynamics of couples in long-term, commited relationships. In short-term on-again-off-again relationships a baby is a deal breaker. Another human being with those two people's DNA is coming on into the world. It IS worse than having sex. An affair may be forgivable, but a constant, walking, talking, money-needing, care and love-needing person around to always remind you....not so easy.

classicman · 08-31-2008, 02:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Brianna

Another human being with those two people's DNA is coming on into the world. It IS worse than having sex. An affair may be forgivable, but a constant, walking, talking, money-needing, care and love-needing person around to always remind you....not so easy.

Yes - The forced responsibility for ones actions becoming a reality is a major bummer when until that point it was all fun and games. No more partying all the time or just hanging out.... Once the baby becomes a reality it changes the relationship dynamic. No more free and easy - now its taking care of another and teaching and responsibility and caring for and guiding and and and...another human being.
All that and there are all kinds of things that you HAVE to do while sacrificing what you WANT to do.
Lotta people can't handle that.

Personally I am on the other side of this as my kids are now all young adults and I am finally getting some time for me after 20+ years of putting my needs and wants away until after all theirs were satisfied.

Clodfobble · 08-30-2008, 01:22 PM

It's the tinge of irresponsibility--yes, sometimes the condom breaks and 1% of pill users get pregnant, but statistically, people who get knocked up ended up that way because they didn't use proper contraception. When I was a teen, I used two methods, and the boys didn't even know about the second so they wouldn't try to argue about the necessity of the first--and yes, I looked down on girls who didn't take precautions like I did.

DanaC · 08-30-2008, 02:46 PM

I think it's more subtle than that, myself. I think that pregnancy is basically proof positive of promiscuity (in society's eyes). As long as people are sleeping with each other and nobody's pregnant, it is private. As soon as a women is pregnant it brings it out into public view. It also transforms the woman instantly, in society's eyes, from free individual, to responsible carer. We want our responsible carers to be morally acceptable and thoroughly intergrated into our social norms.

A pregnant teenager or adult one night stand offends (even if only at a vestigial level) society's norms and so the pregnant woman is automatically being judged immoral and therefore potentially dangerous. We are sophisticated enough to deal with women having sex, but we are not yet sophisticated enough to withhold judgement on a mother-to-be.

Like I say, all at a fairly vestigial level.

Cicero · 08-30-2008, 03:50 PM

I am so mature!

Trilby · 08-30-2008, 04:37 PM

I've been wondering....are we being post whores who DON'T get paid, or are we the paid kind?

xoxoxoBruce · 08-31-2008, 03:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Brianna

I've been wondering....are we being post whores who DON'T get paid, or are we the paid kind?

It's post whores, not post prostitutes.

DanaC · 08-30-2008, 04:45 PM

I think we get paid in 'gifts'.

08-31-2008, 02:06 AM

Parcel post whores?

DanaC · 08-31-2008, 02:13 AM

Haha. Very good.

Sundae · 09-01-2008, 06:23 AM

If I'm like completely over this thread, am I a post Post Whore?

Cicero · 09-01-2008, 07:57 AM

I prefer, "post woman of the night" thank you.

ZenGum · 09-01-2008, 08:08 AM

Post person of negotiable affection.

Cloud · 09-01-2008, 10:08 AM

you can't analyze post-whoredom. You must experience it!

sweetwater · 09-03-2008, 11:50 AM

I didn't know whether to post this story here or in the What's Making You Happy Today thread. Obviously went with here:

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08-30-2008, 01:22 PM	#3
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08-30-2008, 03:50 PM	#5
Cicero Looking forward to open mic night. Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: New Mexico Posts: 5,148	I am so mature! __________________ Show me a sane man, and I will cure him for you.- Carl Jung

08-30-2008, 04:37 PM	#6
Trilby Slattern of the Swail Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 15,654	I've been wondering....are we being post whores who DON'T get paid, or are we the paid kind? __________________ In Barrie's play and novel, the roles of fairies are brief: they are allies to the Lost Boys, the source of fairy dust and ...They are portrayed as dangerous, whimsical and extremely clever but quite hedonistic. "Shall I give you a kiss?" Peter asked and, jerking an acorn button off his coat, solemnly presented it to her. —James Barrie Wimminfolk they be tricksy. - ZenGum

09-01-2008, 07:57 AM	#12
Cicero Looking forward to open mic night. Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: New Mexico Posts: 5,148	I prefer, "post woman of the night" thank you. __________________ Show me a sane man, and I will cure him for you.- Carl Jung

09-01-2008, 08:08 AM	#13
ZenGum Doctor Wtf Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Badelaide, Baustralia Posts: 12,861	Post person of negotiable affection. __________________ Shut up and hug. MoreThanPretty, Nov 5, 2008. Just because I'm nominally polite, does not make me a pussy. Sundae Girl.

08-30-2008, 02:46 PM	#4
DanaC We have to go back, Kate! Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Yorkshire Posts: 25,964	I think it's more subtle than that, myself. I think that pregnancy is basically proof positive of promiscuity (in society's eyes). As long as people are sleeping with each other and nobody's pregnant, it is private. As soon as a women is pregnant it brings it out into public view. It also transforms the woman instantly, in society's eyes, from free individual, to responsible carer. We want our responsible carers to be morally acceptable and thoroughly intergrated into our social norms. A pregnant teenager or adult one night stand offends (even if only at a vestigial level) society's norms and so the pregnant woman is automatically being judged immoral and therefore potentially dangerous. We are sophisticated enough to deal with women having sex, but we are not yet sophisticated enough to withhold judgement on a mother-to-be. Like I say, all at a fairly vestigial level.

08-30-2008, 04:45 PM	#8
DanaC We have to go back, Kate! Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Yorkshire Posts: 25,964	I think we get paid in 'gifts'.

08-31-2008, 02:06 AM	#9
NoBoxes Guest Posts: n/a	Parcel post whores?

08-31-2008, 02:13 AM	#10
DanaC We have to go back, Kate! Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Yorkshire Posts: 25,964	Haha. Very good.

09-01-2008, 06:23 AM	#11
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	If I'm like completely over this thread, am I a post Post Whore?

09-01-2008, 10:08 AM	#14
Cloud ... Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 8,360	you can't analyze post-whoredom. You must experience it! __________________ "Guard your honor. Let your reputation fall where it will. And outlive the bastards!"

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